What was your "Red Pill Really Works" moment?

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April 11, 2016
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Title What was your "Red Pill Really Works" moment?
Author _briann
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Date 11 April 2016 03:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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[–]TRP VanguardArchwinger62 points63 points  (6 children) | Copy

There was this moment when I just didn't care any more, so I started blowing my wife off when she picked fights, laughing at her, saying stupid shit that made light of the entire situation, then just heading to the gym or somewhere else I'd rather be. Kabam. We started having sex twice as often and she was only a bitch half as much.

I went a little overboard for the next few months.

"You can't just leave like that!" "You're not strong enough to break my legs. Maybe hit the gym?"

"Did you do X?" "That would be a great question for somebody who's accountable to you."

"X needs doing." "Good catch. When you're done with that, come help me with Y."

A lot of that actually resulted in a few steps backward, but I was having way too much fun.

[–]redparadigm20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

"Did you do X?" "That would be a great question for somebody who's accountable to you."

Fucking gold. I'm gonna try to use that myself.

[–]SW98767 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

A lot of that actually resulted in a few steps backward, but I was having way too much fun.

How long ago was that and where are you now?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

He's Archwinger. I believe the answer is that currently he shit's gold and pisses excellence.

[–]fakus0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

How long have you been married? Do you have kids? I just discovered trp and I think that it might be the solution to our intamacy problems. . I want to see how this can work in a marriage. Thanks.

[–]TRP VanguardArchwinger5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Eight years and change. This red pill shit works great.

That equal partnership, respecting your wife, doing everything for her, cuddling and date nights and flowers and backrubs, happy wife happy life bullshit doesn't.

I've done both. Only one of those gets you respected and fucked on a regular basis.

[–]ElCuloTeAbrocho0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Good job, they beg to be treated exactly like that.

[–][deleted] 37 points38 points  (3 children) | Copy

When multiple girls are asking you if they can come over and then when you let them come over, you don't waste any time in porking them, and they whine about some slob they have to go on a dinner date with later.

EDIT: Furthermore, these are attractive young women that I treat like dog crap.

[–]COLIE5323 points24 points  (2 children) | Copy

God this hits home.. I've been digesting the RP for almost 2 years and its finally starting to become natural. I cant stop reading it as it keeps my mind sharp and humbles me.

I cut all my worthless friends out of my life. My family knows I will be doing exactly what I want, when I want, and how I want. Im a better example for my little cousins who all look up to me as a role model. Im doing better in business as I have no problem asking for exactly what I think I am worth and if its not reciprocated I just walk away. I dont apologize for anything because I mean it and people respect me more for it. I talk to who ever I want for my own pleasure and sex is no longer an objective so much as it is a way to pass time.

Finding the Redpill is finding yourself, you become the greatest you as thats the only thing that is valued here. If you are not working towards the best version of yourself then you are going backwards. The Redpill has awakened the real me and after truly finding myself and I can finally breath again.

Sorry kind of strayed away but I just appreciate all that this community is doing for masculinity.

also you aren't treating these young women like crap, your treating them how they deserve to be treated.

[–]Thewelshpill3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I love to see bros making the best of Trp, good for you man.

[–]Popeman791 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly how I feel. TRP has changed my life so much, for the better.

This is an amazing brotherhood, albeit virtual.

[–][deleted] 31 points32 points  (0 children) | Copy

When I started withdrawing my time and attention from my wife, and started doing what I wanted. My wife started pursuing me. She started apologizing for all the terrible shit she'd flung my way for the previous decade or so.

[–]okkyle16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy

I accepted TRP pretty quickly, I didn't really have a denial phase. But I really felt like I had internalized TRP's teachings when I finally achieved abundance and felt able to win the upper hand in relationships with chicks.

When I had a multiple girls really bugging me for my time, sending texts offering to suck my cock if they could just come hang out, and saying to myself, "I think I'd rather go to the gym and come home and watch Mad Men alone."

[–]Docbear644 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're my hero

[–]mrpCamper27 points28 points  (2 children) | Copy

When my wife said I was acting like a jerk tonight then 15 minutes later initiated sex.

[–][deleted] 1 points1 points | Copy

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[–]mrpCamper0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I gave her a wheat ale with a slice of lemon but left a seed in it unintentionally. She picked it out and put it into my glass. I laughed and said oops. When I drank the seed I turned to her and spit it out at her. She laughed instead of getting pissed like she would have 2 years ago.

[–]huge_gap12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

When I fucked another girl and my main plate respected me more and begged me to fuck her harder and nastier.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

Being much more aggressive in bed - choking, slapping, hair pulling, restraining - basically dominating her and taking complete control sexually and going after what you want. Every single woman I've been with since I've changed the way I've fucked have told me, "Wow. I never knew I liked that". Doesn't matter if they were dyed in the wool feminists from Berkeley (which one was), or an innocent Catholic girl with a low n-count (which one was) they all express the same sentiment.

The rest of TRP crap about the nefarious consortium of feminists and beta-males who want to control the world, I could care less about.

[–]TheStumblingWolf2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I kinda have the same experience. As I grow more confident I become more aggressive in bed. I never knew I had something like that in me. Before I didn't understand how somebody could want those things, or want to do them, but now it just sort of comes naturally.

[–]TheStumblingWolf21 points22 points  (2 children) | Copy

When I realized I suddenly knew what I wanted with my life. For most of it I'd just accepted that I was one of those aimless zombies walking around. After reading the pill for about a year my life has improved so much it's unimaginable, and I've hardly begun.

[–]redparadigm14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

So much this.

Sexual strategy is just the tip of the iceberg. Becoming a full fledged man is the real red pill.

It's funny how due to some random hoe hurting us/cheating on us we were able to get exposed to this life changing and empowering knowledge.

This community is amazing and I pretty much use reddit just for this sub.

[–]hipfash34 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is the best part. It's even better than having regular access to sex.

[–]94redstealth17 points18 points  (1 child) | Copy

When people started wanting to hang out with me, instead of the other way around

[–]redparadigm6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Social proof and allure is intoxicating after being so long on the other end.

[–]DarkisKnight7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

If you don't lift you won't get it. Lifting really is the cornerstone to developing the TRP mindset.

[–]YoureAfuckingRobot1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is lifting just a general term for working out or being in shape? I don't lift weights but I am a pretty high level athlete in multiple endurance sports year round. I would argue that I'm in better over all shape than anybody who just lifts weights. It's the one part of RP that has always confused me, I had to ask eventually.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dread on a going-through-the-process-of-breaking-up gf.

Seeing FWB advising a guy to "buy flowers and chocolates" to get more sex with his gf (exact opposite of what worked on her).

Calling women's bluff whenever they fake disinterest ("I'm not interested if you're this kind of guy" / "ok, see ya") - happens frequently, increased attraction afterwards.

Seeing the difference between the visceral reactions over looks / build / voice vs the semi-logical responses to intelligence / wit / money.

[–]Rorta17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

When I saw my life moving in the right direction.

[–]Boozt15 points16 points  (3 children) | Copy

Once I won the lottery and got my body in perfect shape, I realized I was able to just be myself.

[–][deleted] -4 points-3 points  (1 child) | Copy

You won the lottery?

[–]COLIE5317 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you found TRP you won the lottery.

[–]RPFreebase3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Had a bunch of girls from online dating after getting to know me tell me that I was less of an asshole than they expected from my profile (which is rather brief and also has pictures of my muscular physique). The lesson was that these women were willing to meet up with me, and typically put out, simply because I'm a masculine dude with a good body- even though (or for some because?) they thought I was going to be a brainless meathead.

[–]1atticusfinch19735 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

When I started actually behaving with confidence around women and suddenly they were jumping into bed with me. But I had to be confident about myself first.

I've had so many women now tell me "you're different" on a first date when I'm confident, initiate physical touching quickly and then escalate sexually - and they eat it up. In my 40 plus demographic it's been like superpowers.

[–]thechaosz4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

TRP saved my life. There may be tear or two, but you fuckwads and no broads aren't seeing it.

Mai niggaz

[–]Casanova-Quinn7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Here's one of many anecdotes:

In college I was casual friends with this girl, HB6-7. One day she posts a picture of herself drinking on facebook, on a thursday night with a IDGAF type of caption. I post a comment saying something like "typical", teasing her about her party habits.

Next day at school I see her and she confronts me, angry about my comment. She calls me a jerk, etc. and clearly expects an apology. I basically tell her to chill out and not take it so seriously. She persists but I just laugh at her with no apology. She then declares that she's not talking to me for the rest of the day (like I care). The next day I see her at school, she greets me by running (literally) to me and giving me big hug. She had never greeted me like this before.

A text book example of holding your frame and it's benefits.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

TRP got me a stripper who loved fucking me and wanted me all to herself. I allowed myself to turn beta and basically turned my back on the truths of TRP. The obvious happened and now I'm back on board 100%. Reality is reality. Disney is Disney. It's hard to remember this when your mind is being rewired by oxytocin and years of bullshit flows back to the forefront of your mind.

Never again.

[–]ElCuloTeAbrocho0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You live you learn, well done.

[–]PantsonFire12342 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Every day of my life, TRP only validated what I knew. No more dissonance.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

After only a few months of lifting heavy 5 days a week, seeing how everyone treats me better and women look at me more and differently. Night and day difference.

[–]shittyjuice552 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

After I finished fucking some girl that invited me over to netflix and chill, she told me she really hated that I was an asshole while hugging me in bed.

Another would constantly accuse me of being a douchebag while getting upset that I didn't come over to her place to fuck after going to a bar because I went to go chill with a fwb after dropping her off

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

When I began recognising and passing women's shit tests, and saw how much different they acted towards me.

[–]Jani11573 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

May sound counter productive, a girl I'm currently fucking asked me "is this is going anywhere"

I told her "if this stays good then yeah" she had a small moment of resistance, held frame and the night ended in more fucking and her cuddled and kissing on me.

In that moment I realized I had internalized red pill and certain behaviors were running on automatic. Old me would have removed doubt all together by praising them and bending over backwards. It was a huge wake up call.

[–]Docbear641 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I met my ex for dinner one time she is the only friend from highschool i still keep in regular contact with and while i loathe her for her cheating no one on this planet knows me as well as she does.

We were having dinner and i was telling her about reading No More Mr. niceguy ( reccomended by TRP).

Anywho at one point during dinner she tells me that she's the boss . I grab her hands, look her in the eye , and smile as i say "unfortunately that's not true darlin i'm the boss" . Her eyes lit up, it was kind of jarring actually . When we were together i was such a beta bitch and deferred to her and tried worshipping her when it came to everything. So to absolutely own this moment and assert my authority and see her heart go pitter patter was very satisfying.

I will never get back wih her but it was the first tiem i can say i have seen thenatteaction for me develop in a womans eyes.

[–]GeminiEngine0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Backstory: I am involved on one level or another with a specific woman for the last 10 years. Started out great, and went south pretty quick; had a child with her. Beta me what can I say. She had a rough life, I excused a lot of shit I should not have. I discovered TRP about 2 years ago through IllimitableMan's website. I have always known something was off between what I was taught about women and what is. I do a 30 day plan, everything but her gets better. Tweak the plan and do for 90 days, more gets better including her and my happiness, repeat twice more. It is in one of these moments of her "improvement" that leads me to TRP.

Story Time: My ex, herself, escalated every chance to come after me and rekindle something. It was kind of enjoyable but I desired nothing. I want to be specific I don't know where this came from in me, I had not yet discovered TRP on any external level. She comes over to my place to spend time with our son. It gets late so I put my son to bed. Afterwards, I find her stripped naked, and on my bed on all fours, oddly I didn't care that she was. I tell her, "if you get to feel my dick its because I want my nuts empty and you are just convenience", still no clue where these words came from. She got sexually bothered my statement. She pleaded to be allowed to give me head, she has never done this. After a few minutes of enjoying the begging, I head out of my bedroom and I swat her hard on her ass as I pass-by and tell her to get dressed. A scant few minutes later I am playing on my XBox, and she emerges dressed from my bedroom. She asks if she did anything wrong, I told her she was not convenient enough. I was in frame, a completely natural one, and she almost broke it. Before leaving she made me a loose meat & veggie Dagwood sandwich, the only thing that stopped me from saying thank you was the curiosity of what the fuck the sandwich was supposed to mean after what had just happened, so I chose to grunt out cool and then remind her she has an early day, our son has a school function and she has other errands. She leaves.

Aftermath: Well fuck, I still can't believe I never ate that sandwich. Trying to figure out what happened I ended up staying up all night and day. I had heard and seen other similar situations in others, and it did not jive with what I was taught. After my son was off to school I found IllimitableMan's site, for the next 2 to 3 months all I did was read, I learned of PUA, RP, and MGTOW, my college classes suffered but I did not fail any. I practice all of them on her and others. I may not have known it then but I swallowed the pill before I found it, there are some places I still need work but building a better self takes time.

[–]JustDoMeee1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You fucking boss!

[–]Lofibasking0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's always been self evident just as an elusive obvious. It wasn't until I came across TRP which it was all brought together and explained.

Like knowing the pill is staring you in the face or even swallowing the pill, but just not knowing what it is you swallowed or what the pill you're looking at is.

[–]DarkisKnight0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No I mean lifting. I used to be an endurance athlete too. Any good endurance program will also incorporate strength training.



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