What was your "Red Pill Really Works" moment?

Archwinger · 2016-04-11T16:34:56+00:00

There was this moment when I just didn't care any more, so I started blowing my wife off when she picked fights, laughing at her, saying stupid shit that made light of the entire situation, then just heading to the gym or somewhere else I'd rather be. Kabam. We started having sex twice as often and she was only a bitch half as much.

I went a little overboard for the next few months.

"You can't just leave like that!" "You're not strong enough to break my legs. Maybe hit the gym?"

"Did you do X?" "That would be a great question for somebody who's accountable to you."

"X needs doing." "Good catch. When you're done with that, come help me with Y."

A lot of that actually resulted in a few steps backward, but I was having way too much fun.

COLIE53 · 2016-04-11T16:41:08+00:00

When multiple girls are asking you if they can come over and then when you let them come over, you don't waste any time in porking them, and they whine about some slob they have to go on a dinner date with later.

EDIT: Furthermore, these are attractive young women that I treat like dog crap.

[deleted] · 2016-04-11T17:21:36+00:00

When I started withdrawing my time and attention from my wife, and started doing what I wanted. My wife started pursuing me. She started apologizing for all the terrible shit she'd flung my way for the previous decade or so.

okkyle · 2016-04-11T22:22:02+00:00

I accepted TRP pretty quickly, I didn't really have a denial phase. But I really felt like I had internalized TRP's teachings when I finally achieved abundance and felt able to win the upper hand in relationships with chicks.

When I had a multiple girls really bugging me for my time, sending texts offering to suck my cock if they could just come hang out, and saying to myself, "I think I'd rather go to the gym and come home and watch Mad Men alone."

mrpCamper · 2016-04-11T19:20:33+00:00

When my wife said I was acting like a jerk tonight then 15 minutes later initiated sex.

huge_gap · 2016-04-12T00:01:20+00:00

When I fucked another girl and my main plate respected me more and begged me to fuck her harder and nastier.

TheStumblingWolf · 2016-04-11T23:05:46+00:00

Being much more aggressive in bed - choking, slapping, hair pulling, restraining - basically dominating her and taking complete control sexually and going after what you want. Every single woman I've been with since I've changed the way I've fucked have told me, "Wow. I never knew I liked that". Doesn't matter if they were dyed in the wool feminists from Berkeley (which one was), or an innocent Catholic girl with a low n-count (which one was) they all express the same sentiment.

The rest of TRP crap about the nefarious consortium of feminists and beta-males who want to control the world, I could care less about.

TheStumblingWolf · 2016-04-11T19:41:41+00:00

When I realized I suddenly knew what I wanted with my life. For most of it I'd just accepted that I was one of those aimless zombies walking around. After reading the pill for about a year my life has improved so much it's unimaginable, and I've hardly begun.

94redstealth · 2016-04-11T20:46:45+00:00

When people started wanting to hang out with me, instead of the other way around

DarkisKnight · 2016-04-12T04:08:39+00:00

If you don't lift you won't get it. Lifting really is the cornerstone to developing the TRP mindset.

MattyAnon · 2016-04-11T22:40:31+00:00

Dread on a going-through-the-process-of-breaking-up gf.

Seeing FWB advising a guy to "buy flowers and chocolates" to get more sex with his gf (exact opposite of what worked on her).

Calling women's bluff whenever they fake disinterest ("I'm not interested if you're this kind of guy" / "ok, see ya") - happens frequently, increased attraction afterwards.

Seeing the difference between the visceral reactions over looks / build / voice vs the semi-logical responses to intelligence / wit / money.

Rorta · 2016-04-11T15:56:33+00:00

When I saw my life moving in the right direction.

Boozt · 2016-04-11T20:14:25+00:00

Once I won the lottery and got my body in perfect shape, I realized I was able to just be myself.

RPFreebase · 2016-04-11T21:27:27+00:00

Had a bunch of girls from online dating after getting to know me tell me that I was less of an asshole than they expected from my profile (which is rather brief and also has pictures of my muscular physique). The lesson was that these women were willing to meet up with me, and typically put out, simply because I'm a masculine dude with a good body- even though (or for some because?) they thought I was going to be a brainless meathead.

atticusfinch1973 · 2016-04-12T09:07:47+00:00

When I started actually behaving with confidence around women and suddenly they were jumping into bed with me. But I had to be confident about myself first.

I've had so many women now tell me "you're different" on a first date when I'm confident, initiate physical touching quickly and then escalate sexually - and they eat it up. In my 40 plus demographic it's been like superpowers.

thechaosz · 2016-04-12T09:50:24+00:00

TRP saved my life. There may be tear or two, but you fuckwads and no broads aren't seeing it.

Mai niggaz

Casanova-Quinn · 2016-04-11T21:09:08+00:00

Here's one of many anecdotes:

In college I was casual friends with this girl, HB6-7. One day she posts a picture of herself drinking on facebook, on a thursday night with a IDGAF type of caption. I post a comment saying something like "typical", teasing her about her party habits.

Next day at school I see her and she confronts me, angry about my comment. She calls me a jerk, etc. and clearly expects an apology. I basically tell her to chill out and not take it so seriously. She persists but I just laugh at her with no apology. She then declares that she's not talking to me for the rest of the day (like I care). The next day I see her at school, she greets me by running (literally) to me and giving me big hug. She had never greeted me like this before.

A text book example of holding your frame and it's benefits.

ElCuloTeAbrocho · 2016-04-12T03:55:24+00:00

TRP got me a stripper who loved fucking me and wanted me all to herself. I allowed myself to turn beta and basically turned my back on the truths of TRP. The obvious happened and now I'm back on board 100%. Reality is reality. Disney is Disney. It's hard to remember this when your mind is being rewired by oxytocin and years of bullshit flows back to the forefront of your mind.

Never again.

PantsonFire1234 · 2016-04-11T22:46:41+00:00

Every day of my life, TRP only validated what I knew. No more dissonance.

[deleted] · 2016-04-12T01:37:33+00:00

After only a few months of lifting heavy 5 days a week, seeing how everyone treats me better and women look at me more and differently. Night and day difference.

shittyjuice55 · 2016-04-12T01:39:55+00:00

After I finished fucking some girl that invited me over to netflix and chill, she told me she really hated that I was an asshole while hugging me in bed.

Another would constantly accuse me of being a douchebag while getting upset that I didn't come over to her place to fuck after going to a bar because I went to go chill with a fwb after dropping her off

[deleted] · 2016-04-12T03:27:34+00:00

When I began recognising and passing women's shit tests, and saw how much different they acted towards me.

Jani1157 · 2016-04-12T20:19:19+00:00

May sound counter productive, a girl I'm currently fucking asked me "is this is going anywhere"

I told her "if this stays good then yeah" she had a small moment of resistance, held frame and the night ended in more fucking and her cuddled and kissing on me.

In that moment I realized I had internalized red pill and certain behaviors were running on automatic. Old me would have removed doubt all together by praising them and bending over backwards. It was a huge wake up call.

Docbear64 · 2016-04-12T15:26:52+00:00

I met my ex for dinner one time she is the only friend from highschool i still keep in regular contact with and while i loathe her for her cheating no one on this planet knows me as well as she does.

We were having dinner and i was telling her about reading No More Mr. niceguy ( reccomended by TRP).

Anywho at one point during dinner she tells me that she's the boss . I grab her hands, look her in the eye , and smile as i say "unfortunately that's not true darlin i'm the boss" . Her eyes lit up, it was kind of jarring actually . When we were together i was such a beta bitch and deferred to her and tried worshipping her when it came to everything. So to absolutely own this moment and assert my authority and see her heart go pitter patter was very satisfying.

I will never get back wih her but it was the first tiem i can say i have seen thenatteaction for me develop in a womans eyes.

GeminiEngine · 2016-04-12T15:57:07+00:00

Backstory: I am involved on one level or another with a specific woman for the last 10 years. Started out great, and went south pretty quick; had a child with her. Beta me what can I say. She had a rough life, I excused a lot of shit I should not have. I discovered TRP about 2 years ago through IllimitableMan's website. I have always known something was off between what I was taught about women and what is. I do a 30 day plan, everything but her gets better. Tweak the plan and do for 90 days, more gets better including her and my happiness, repeat twice more. It is in one of these moments of her "improvement" that leads me to TRP.

Story Time: My ex, herself, escalated every chance to come after me and rekindle something. It was kind of enjoyable but I desired nothing. I want to be specific I don't know where this came from in me, I had not yet discovered TRP on any external level. She comes over to my place to spend time with our son. It gets late so I put my son to bed. Afterwards, I find her stripped naked, and on my bed on all fours, oddly I didn't care that she was. I tell her, "if you get to feel my dick its because I want my nuts empty and you are just convenience", still no clue where these words came from. She got sexually bothered my statement. She pleaded to be allowed to give me head, she has never done this. After a few minutes of enjoying the begging, I head out of my bedroom and I swat her hard on her ass as I pass-by and tell her to get dressed. A scant few minutes later I am playing on my XBox, and she emerges dressed from my bedroom. She asks if she did anything wrong, I told her she was not convenient enough. I was in frame, a completely natural one, and she almost broke it. Before leaving she made me a loose meat & veggie Dagwood sandwich, the only thing that stopped me from saying thank you was the curiosity of what the fuck the sandwich was supposed to mean after what had just happened, so I chose to grunt out cool and then remind her she has an early day, our son has a school function and she has other errands. She leaves.

Aftermath: Well fuck, I still can't believe I never ate that sandwich. Trying to figure out what happened I ended up staying up all night and day. I had heard and seen other similar situations in others, and it did not jive with what I was taught. After my son was off to school I found IllimitableMan's site, for the next 2 to 3 months all I did was read, I learned of PUA, RP, and MGTOW, my college classes suffered but I did not fail any. I practice all of them on her and others. I may not have known it then but I swallowed the pill before I found it, there are some places I still need work but building a better self takes time.

Lofibasking · 2016-04-12T23:14:02+00:00

It's always been self evident just as an elusive obvious. It wasn't until I came across TRP which it was all brought together and explained.

Like knowing the pill is staring you in the face or even swallowing the pill, but just not knowing what it is you swallowed or what the pill you're looking at is.

DarkisKnight · 2016-04-14T23:49:47+00:00

No I mean lifting. I used to be an endurance athlete too. Any good endurance program will also incorporate strength training.

Title	What was your "Red Pill Really Works" moment?
Author	_briann
Upvotes	59
Comments	48
Date	11 April 2016 03:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	askTRP
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