I realize gay men are still men but a lot of them/us,particularly feminine men tend to have behaviors that are very similar to women in such a way that straight red pill tactics can be used successfully on them.
I have had feminine gay male acquaintances openly tell me that they are highly attracted to cocky men that are jerks to them and they don't know why they like it,its a combination of the female desire and the masculine confidence to openly state what they like.
I have a feminine friend,lets call him "J" J is a man that has a regular job and no advanced education but says he "deserves a good man that has a 5 year plan, must have a car, must have a good job,and be college educated". Yet the last boyfriend he had was an unemployed drug addict that just played video games all day and used him to get rides to places. Could it be that being a selfish dramatic addict causes enough drama to spice up his life?
J also kept me in the friend zone even though he has openly stated that "i am cute and he likes my personality", has always denied my advances until i stared hanging out with him less and less.
My ex boy-friend told me that he found my blank stare "hot", he liked it when he would argue with me and i would stay calm and emotionless.(sound familiar guys?)
Feminine gay men try to imitate the entitlement of women but to no avail because in the gay community masculinity is prized so they get the least attention but act as if they receive the most.(the hamster runs on)
so feel free to share any of your observances