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Similarities between femimen and women

by KenshinX90 | August 11, 2014 | altTRP

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I realize gay men are still men but a lot of them/us,particularly feminine men tend to have behaviors that are very similar to women in such a way that straight red pill tactics can be used successfully on them.

1.Examples

I have had feminine gay male acquaintances openly tell me that they are highly attracted to cocky men that are jerks to them and they don't know why they like it,its a combination of the female desire and the masculine confidence to openly state what they like.

I have a feminine friend,lets call him "J" J is a man that has a regular job and no advanced education but says he "deserves a good man that has a 5 year plan, must have a car, must have a good job,and be college educated". Yet the last boyfriend he had was an unemployed drug addict that just played video games all day and used him to get rides to places. Could it be that being a selfish dramatic addict causes enough drama to spice up his life?

J also kept me in the friend zone even though he has openly stated that "i am cute and he likes my personality", has always denied my advances until i stared hanging out with him less and less.

My ex boy-friend told me that he found my blank stare "hot", he liked it when he would argue with me and i would stay calm and emotionless.(sound familiar guys?)

Feminine gay men try to imitate the entitlement of women but to no avail because in the gay community masculinity is prized so they get the least attention but act as if they receive the most.(the hamster runs on)

so feel free to share any of your observances

M


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Title Similarities between femimen and women
Author KenshinX90
Upvotes 6
Comments 5
Date 11 August 2014 07:02 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit altTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/163342
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[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Absolutely it works. If you think about it, game is just a method of building your masculine presence around a potential mate. Also alpha traits are much more universally likable than just between men and women. Confidence and strength make people like you no matter who you are. I mostly find positive reactions from RP behavior.

That being said, the gay market is a little more nuanced than the girl market. While proper frame for girls seems to have an almost one size fits all "be a bit of an ass", The same is not true for all gay guys.

Some guys are high up on the effeminate scale and respond strongly to asshole behavior. Others hovering towards the neutral or even masculine ends of the spectrum can have differing results. The more masculine men respond better to signs of mutual respect.

Its good to feel it out, but of course you can never go wrong acting confident and masculine.

[–]omnipedia2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Good points and they are backed up by my experience too. It's funny how women can run that game on me and I lose frame but when men do it, I just laugh.

I think TRP applies well to men, macho or not. Macho men are less likely to shit test and more likely to respect your frame as you respect theirs.

[–]KenshinX90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Care to share some of your observations

[–]midwesternliberal1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yep, too many of my gay friends are like this. They want a rich guy to give them everything in life, take them on fancy trips, and let them live in the lap of luxury. And yet these guys are pretty average, so it won't ever happen. But even if you aren't average, I don't understand the mentality of "I just want someone to give me things because I don't know how else I can have self esteem."

If you want a Ferrari and fancy vacations, then go work your ass off and get that. All your whining and hoping that some guy will come into your life to finally give you "value" as a person makes you seem like such a little bitch.

[–]Bearlyred0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Guys on pretty much any of the mainstream dating sites like okcupid fall into this group. I swear to god its like shooting a fish in a barrel, like they've never seen a confident assertive man before. Game works on bitches no matter what gender.



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