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What made you as Gay,BI, or Trans man become interested in the red pill?

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October 13, 2014

So i see this sub has been up for a while but it has nowhere near as much activity as the main RED PILL sub-reddit. So in interest of fostering more discussion on here,lets post the reasons why we're on here to start with considering most people would see us as just women in men's bodies.

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Title What made you as Gay,BI, or Trans man become interested in the red pill?
Author KenshinX90
Upvotes 6
Comments 10
Date 13 October 2014 11:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit altTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/163347
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/altTRP/comments/2j5x0w/what_made_you_as_gaybi_or_trans_man_become/
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[–]Psionx010 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

It was my last boyfriend. He was in it for the resources. He was just like many woman (shopping, gossip, asking me to buy him things and rewarding me with sex when I did). He wanted to be an at home husband but refused to do the at home stuff. He was cheating.

After I found out about the cheating, I became completely distant. No more hugs, no cuddling, not positive reinforcement at all. I stopped asking him to do anything for me. Then I moved (had to for work, told him he wasn't moving with me) and started ignoring his calls, only responding when I felt like it.

His attitude changed fast. Suddenly he was lonely with out me. Suddenly he loved me. Suddenly he wanted to be a real boyfriend.

I kicked his ass to the curb.

[–]KenshinX90[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

good for you,he didn't deserve you.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Is it cheating for me to chime in? I'm here because I wanted a place where I could discuss my relationships with the same sort of frank reality as I see on RP proper. Every single time I venture on to /r/gay or /r/gaybros I get shouted out.

[–]KenshinX90[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Nah it's not,i hate that subreddit,they don't seem like bros at all,what did they shout you out for.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Pretty much anything that treats dating like a game that can be understood as opposed to something magical that can't be known.

[–]MindTheFuture2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bi, having background with some trans-issues, first being feminine, and having the pendulum swing to opposite, I've read a lot on masculinity. Trp explained so much of the behavior I've seen in others and in myself - why things worked the way they did.

For example, when I going out dressed confidently drag, getting laid with women was easier in than when appearing like a tender beta-boy. Mainly because of the sheer confidence show. Got comments like "you must have things damn well in life, if you go out looking like you don't give a shit about what others think."

And when my partner actually seemed to like when just announced I'm staying night out with friends or when I hinted about the flings on side. Instead of being clingy, communicated that I have a life, don't care what she thinks about it - going to do it regardless, and that I'm wanted by others. The implications of not being that loyal or available weren't really things that mattered as much as expected. Now I understand why.

[–]qimao1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

For me, as a man of transgender experience, I think it was an intense longing for male guidance on how to be a man that first got me into the Red Pill. The more I researched, the more I found there was an old and storied culture around manhood. My (biological) father cares about me, but he's not really comfortable with the idea of mentoring me in how to be a man, so I've found it necessary to seek guidance elsewhere. As a guy who's attracted to other guys, the focus on gaming women doesn't appeal to me so much, even tho it's not entirely useless to know. It's being a part of a brotherhood of men who want to be good at being what makes men men that makes me come back.

[–]a_hammock1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

A handful of factors add up to make it a natural approach on my part.

I realized (comparatively) late in my life that I'm bisexual, and it wasn't like the textbook self-discovery. I don't just know things about myself, I've had to discover them through experience.

I think that everyone's interactions with others are governed by some degree of self-interest. I think that thorough analysis and sound methodology are the best means to reproducible success in any endeavor.

I'm a skeptic and naturally distrust simple narratives that try to explain complex situations and behaviors.

Lastly, I've been mercilessly exploited in a long-term relationship, and refuse to be manipulated again.

[–]should_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm a decent looking guy, have and have had a lot of sex, but my two biggest crushes didn't work out, even though they wanted to bang me. Have broken a lot of hearts, just not the ones I wanted. With the first guy, early to mid college, I was the stereotypical Nice Guy with hearts for eyes, and with the second guy I took a female hard to get approach that worked wonders until I slipped and accidentally called our rendez-vous, that he requested, a "date." He was a player anyway. But yeah, heartbreak, and figuring out how people and guys actually work. I wanna be cool shit, yo.

[–]KenshinX90[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

For me,I've pretty much lived most of my life as a stereo typically straight guy(i'm bi), growing up i wrestled and boxed with my friends in my back yard(no playing with dolls), i played little league,i'm a big fan of combat sports.

When i was 17 years old i met my first girl friend and she was so sweet at first but quickly turned sour,and in retrospect i realize her behavior changed shortly after she had succeeded in me getting to say "i love you" to her it's clear now that she wanted to ensure she had her hooks in me before she could show her true colors.

She turned into a bitch,she would complain about her problems then complain about me trying to help her. She wanted me to fight he ex boyfriend that was a gang member just to satisfy her ego,she would put my life at risk just so she could obtain some gina tingles from having men fight over her.

One night we were having sex in a car and she pulled out her phone and started texting,for once i got angry and bent her legs to her head and jack-hammered away at her pussy with her head repeatedly slamming against the car door, she yelled "owww kenshin your'e hurting me" and then i stopped and said "oh shit are you ok?" and then she got mad at me and said "i didn't say STOP!!"

After that night i stared to realize that what i was taught about women and what women really are like are two different things,i started to observe the behaviors of female friends and acquaintances and caught on to the inconsistencies and hypocritical tendencies in their behavior.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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