Thanks to TRP, I'm pretty sure I went more into 'player mode' and abandoned the soul mate, find-love idea. It taught me that it's not about 'being myself' if I don't have it together; I have to get it together, be hot, masculine, have something in my pockets, look after myself, don't be a pushover, and have a life.
But I feel like the 'plate' theory, the player thing, was something I was already doing, even though it felt like a revelation at the time and I made sure I was 'more actively doing it'. I'm a little nervous that I've been telling myself that TRP is changing my life when the main thing it's done is just made me anti-feminist. Though it did give me a really healthy dose of masculinity, and I've found how much more I genuinely enjoy bonding with males on a fraternal level than hanging out with women, to be fair.