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Is fucking around bad for gays?

by SilverGengar | November 11, 2016 | altTRP

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The main TRP sub seems to clearly define, that women with much sexual action are sluts (negative term) while males who have many girls - as succesful.

How is it for gay guys? I've had my fair share of action, but recently feel...remorseful? I'm not sure how sensible that is. On one hand, gay people seem to be clearly divided into those who do sex often and those who take a moral superiority stance... And I'm afriad whether they could be right. What is your stance on it, altTRP?


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Title Is fucking around bad for gays?
Author SilverGengar
Upvotes 12
Comments 3
Date 11 November 2016 10:35 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit altTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/163400
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/altTRP/comments/5chd93/is_fucking_around_bad_for_gays/
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[–]Destroya1215 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've had my share of hookups. I don't claim to speak for anyone but myself, RP included.

IMHO it doesn't matter what a person does in their bedroom, so long as they keep it there and accept the consequences for their actions. If a woman sleeps around and gets knocked up, catches an STD, or stops being appealing to men who want a LTR then that's on her head, not ours. She doesn't get to whine when she behaves like a slut and then people think of her as a sex object. And it's not the tax payer's job to fund her birth control either.

The same basic principle goes for gay guys. Sleep around all you want. But don't come crying to me when you get an STD, don't come crying to me when people think of you as a gay stereotype. Don't come crying to me when you're 40 and can't find a husband because you never developed the skills and maturity to handle a real relationship. Don't come to the taxpayers if you get AIDS and can't afford any treatment. And especially don't come to me bragging as if getting laid is some sort of grand accomplishment in an era when it can be done with a push of a button on your phone.

If fucking is the most important part of your life, you're a sad person whether you're male, female, gay, or straight.

[–]Mideous7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well that's a rule for Hetero and I can see why it exist.

I HATE ( I generally try to stay away from Hetero ways of doing/thinking) to say this -- I some what apply this to bottoms. I don't think it's right or good for a guy I'm interested in to be taking dick like that on the regular. The ideal/fantasy guy is one who never though to much about bottoming -- until they meet me. Your booty hole is supposed to be a special place that only 'worthy' men have access to.

[–]Millixaw5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't think so. Sex is "currency" for women in heterosexual relationships, especially as a bargaining chip. So "sluttiness" with women seems to be an indicator of other things.

To guys, especially when it's two guys (gay/bi), sex is just sex.

You can also be a gay/bi male "slut" and not a cheater. We have that capability.



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