I don't understand why so many gay guys have to act feminine. Every guy I've met, even ones that have admitted to having swallowed the pill have ended up acting fairly gay.

This might be because I myself am a top so maybe it has to do with bottoms. I just want to find a bottom guy who's also down to go see a canucks game or talk about cars or something. Maybe gay men aren't "just guys who like other guys" but instead are actually a totally different kind of man separate from straight guys. Any thoughts?