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Are bottoms destined to be alone and miserable?

by slow-and-painful | October 23, 2017 | altTRP

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It seems that the solution that gets thrown around here on this sub is to just "become the more masculine top" but I feel like that energy exists nowhere inside of me. I'm not feminine exactly but acting masc just feels so forced and alien like. Physically it doesn't suit me either considering I have a short tiny body. I'm just waiting for the day I hit the wall, age 30, "gay death". If I could I'd be a twink forever.


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Title Are bottoms destined to be alone and miserable?
Author slow-and-painful
Upvotes 5
Comments 1
Date 23 October 2017 10:38 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit altTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/163415
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/altTRP/comments/786vai/are_bottoms_destined_to_be_alone_and_miserable/
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[–]Neo2Trinity0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If you don't mind crossdressing (I'm not assuming you would just because you're gay), there are a lot of straight guys with a "tranny fetish". Many transgender women won't date those guys so there's a huge market to be exploited. Just be careful.

I kind of have a similar situation. I'm male, but I identify as trans. I'm attracted to femme women, but I don't want to be alpha or play the role of man (or butch). It almost makes me want to MGTOW because of how much of a pain women can be in their expectations of men.

I took this lesbian personality test and scored right in the middle at "androgyne". Nearly all of the questions are gender neutral or have at least on choice for males so you might find it helpful to see where you fall on the spectrum. It's 100 questions so if you're feeling lazy and just want to read through the descriptions of the archetypes they're listed here: https://switchingteams.wordpress.com/2011/08/19/types-of-lesbians/



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