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Are all gay guys inherently feminine?

by vancityguy96 | October 25, 2017 | altTRP

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What's your guys take on the idea that all gay guys are inherently feminine?

I've been reading through this sub again and I've come across this theory a couple of times and of course it's prevalent in general culture as well.

Do you think that when gay guys say that they don't feel submissive at all that they're just kidding themselves or do you think that some gay men might actually feel as dominant and masculine as they claim to feel naturally.

Because this raises some interesting issues with gay dating dynamics and the possibility of any gay relationship being successful. If both gay men in a relationship are deep down naturally wanting to submit, then this would eventually create an issue where neither is doing anything in terms of being the one to lead. This I imagine would quickly lead to a dysfunctional relationship, somewhat similar to a straight relationship where the man is a beta and the women grows frustrated and eventually looks elsewhere.

What do you guys think? Do you believe that there are gay men out there that naturally feel dominant, or do you agree with what a lot of people have said in the past and that gay men are essentially are looking to submit.


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Title Are all gay guys inherently feminine?
Author vancityguy96
Upvotes 3
Comments 3
Date 25 October 2017 08:16 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit altTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/163416
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/altTRP/comments/78mbfn/are_all_gay_guys_inherently_feminine/
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[–]wuboo7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

No. The feminine ones are easy to spot. That’s all.

[–]domo101dc1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Are all straight guys inherently homophobic?

[–]209509238500 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Not at all true. Depends on their sexual role and social dominance orientation. Tops are more dominant/masculine while bottoms are more submissive/feminine. These studies prove it:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3899263/ http://psycnet.apa.org/record/2013-11915-001



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