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What are your examples of women saying TRP shit

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ExcellentStudio
January 13, 2019
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I've noticed that since becoming more realistic about intergender relations I'm able to have more honest conversations with women and I'm often surprised at the textbook TRP shit that comes out of their mouths, almost as if they browse this fucking sub lol. Some choice examples:

  • pillow talk with plate about her ex. She mentions that she didn't have sex with him for weeks at a time towards the end of their relationship. Later she teases me for not being "nice" like him, I don't buy her flowers and shit. I ask if he was so great why didn't she have sex with him. "Well... he was too nice". We both laugh.

  • ex LTR tells me she originally fell in love with me cause I ignored her most of the time and it made her feel special like I had other shit going on but chose to talk to her sometimes anyways. She also told me she loved how I told her to do things straightforward like there was no argument, but it made her feel "weird" when I did this in front of other people

  • feminist Tumblr plate. She's telling me about her faggy little brother and his problems. I tell her I feel sorry for him and someone needs to be a masculine influence in his life. She tells me he doesnt need to conform to soceities definition of masculinity. I tell her that life generally goes much better for men who are masculine, girls aren't gonna like him. She says no she has friends that don't like masculine guys. I ask if they generally have happy relationships. She laugh and says no they're actually all single

What example do you have? I love TRP because as cringey and oversimplified as it often is, it's tapping into a real vein of truth that is completely invisible to mainstream soceity. When you start paying attention you start finding supporting evidence everywhere


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Title What are your examples of women saying TRP shit
Author ExcellentStudio
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Date 13 January 2019 12:27 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]omega_dawg9373 points74 points  (2 children) | Copy

i've got 3 very open & wildly sexual older sisters. not only did i hear them saying all kinds of RP truths (since i was a teen), but i watched their behavior as they lied, manufactured crises & tears to manipulate, cheated like crazy and rationalized it away easily, etc. there was always one guy who they wanted to fuck badly and several others that they kept as orbiters for various purposes. right before 30, they all decided to 'settle down,' with the most alpha of their beta choices.

now, all 3 are divorced. surprised?

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[–]SuspiciousBed36 points37 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yikes. Did you even need TRP?

[–]omega_dawg934 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

not really... but it's nice to see just about everything i learned in a book.

thanks rollo!

having older sisters has been a blessing. as the younger, brat brother, the biggest lesson i learned is that women, if they choose to, can get fucked a lot. i mean enough dick to make the average guy's head explode.

my sisters and their friends had a motto: "what he doesn't know won't hurt him!" lol.

[–]rpsheepdog59 points60 points  (3 children) | Copy

I made a post a few months back, but

"He's the guy I will marry when I'm done traveling the world" <-- guy who drives 45 min to see girl at any beck and call

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"I don't want to make decisions in a relationship"

[–]DontDoH 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

Girls just don't like decisions period.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

The other night I invited a girl out dancing and told her we could go to this place for this kind of music or this place for this kind of music. An hour later she says "I guess were not going because you don't have a plan." Lol I didn't know having an opinion was that much of a turn off.

[–]sebastianconcept2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

The man has to lead always. That’s what they like. A man that opens a space for them to have a safe experience. That’s holding frame. Asking them where they like to go is just rethorical to show a bit of caring. After she answers, you tell them where you’ll go (which might or might not be the same place they wanted). I surprised on how effective is to keep frame to treat them like your little sisters.

[–]Stokestix 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

"I love it when you tell me what to do".

She said it during sex, since I'm very dominant.

[–]BinaryResult1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

I tend to just physically dominate without speaking as much, throw her around, pin her down, smother, choke, hair pull, push her on my cock, etc.. seems to work just fine.

[–]adonis_syche0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

i know you irl...this guy is an alpha...can vouch for it. learned a lot from obeserving you man and i am not the only one...cruise on boi

[–]2319Skew59 points60 points  (2 children) | Copy

I got three examples of hypergamy for ya.

Example 1. Coworker tells me about this cute guy that she likes in office. Later starts to have marriage problems. Hamster rationalizing cheating on her husband. Sends me nudes and tells me almost bragging the shit they do to get my attention. This is a mother of two "Christian" who posts religious quotes on FB.

Example 2. Club slut hooks up with TRP stereotype of Chad. Slowly fucks his frame. The more BP he becomes the more she cheats. On one fight, I almost fuck her (stop short due to no condom). Hits me up to tell me she's single. While with me, would complain about how BP the Chad has become and tells me all about the dark triad alpha she missed.

Example 3. Treat HB9 like she is HB6. Ignore her unless I want something. Hits me up with validation constantly despite the fact that her phone blows up with chumps trying to smash. Tried to make me jealous when showed me snap of her on a date with a guy "wish you were here this guy is boring lol". Sent her a snap of a plate sucking my cock (she's been trying to get me to send nudes back to enter her frame) with the message "wish you were here. Your lips are better." Doesn't talk to me for two weeks. Hits me up saying she misses me. Tell her that her sister is hot and if she's single. Gets mad at me but starts to flirt harder. Tells all her friends about me and keeps pushing for a relationship but gets mad when I can't commit. Haven't so much as paid for coffee but she keeps buying me shit and treating me to 4 star restaurant.

Whenever I feel bad about the TRP, I think about how being BP gave me a failed marriage and a fuck ton of bad habits. Applying what I know now, I'm turning down sex. I am improving myself. My standards are higher than ever. No longer put women in a pedestal.

Thanks guys.

[–]11-Eleven-111 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Despite being on RP for over 2 years I'm still a total noob frame wise and example 3 doesn't even seem like real life to me. What the actual fuck.

[–]2319Skew1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

https://imgur.com/a/e6Bb33Y

The rest was on snapchat

[–]An_Actual_Politician13 points14 points  (2 children) | Copy

ONS I met on the road. Raging liberal/feminist, but self-aware enough to tell me that she loathes conservative guys but "the body type she's attracted to is usually attached to Republican-type guys."

[–]ExcellentStudio 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Lol. This is my favorite so far

[–]An_Actual_Politician7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

It was a Bumble hookup and my profile has a swimsuit candid on it. My overall number of matches dropped some when I added a shirtless pic, but all it really did was weed out some of the beta bucks seekers.

[–]MisunderstoodAsian28 points29 points  (2 children) | Copy

Similar stuff to what you said; girls saying they are attracted to guys who are never available and guys who "aren't nice" and are "tough". And it's not just what girls say either, this shit really does work in real life.

[–]Fonzoon2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I completely agree. it’s not just women though - it works on pretty much any living thing. I remember watching a vsauce episode where he mentioned some study where newborn kittens or something liked the person who half ignored/half paid attention to them.

I suspect the reason for this is that it betrays intelligence (=power, etc). like if you have a little brother, sometimes he does something you like, sometimes he pisses you off. this can be manipulated in the short term, of course, if the person isn’t actually smarter but just has an attitude. but ultimately it’s all about balance, though I agree women typically like the more aggressive/tough type

[–]MisunderstoodAsian2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

100%. When you're always available and will reply back to a message instantly 24/7, your presence is taken for granted, you become predictable and therefore you're boring. Absence makes the heart fonder.

[–]syn1us25 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy

"You are the kind of guy who I just wanna fuck and have a love/hate relationship with, but he (referring to a beta friend of hers) is the kind of guy who I would not fuck now, but date at some point because he is a very good guy"

[–]OilyB8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

  • "So how was your date?"
  • "well, he was very nice actually."
  • "oohff, too bad. that's not good."
  • "... I know."

[–]systemshock86914 points15 points  (3 children) | Copy

"I'm going to call the police and tell them you hit me, and they'll believe me because I'm a girl."

No joke. Fortunately I was already recording audio thanks to TRP!

[–]xpletive4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

going to need some context here

[–]systemshock8690 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Break up fight, she was throwing shit and being crazy so I locked her out of my house, she delivered that line.

[–]xpletive0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

ohhh snap went nuclear!

[–][deleted] 22 points23 points  (2 children) | Copy

Just yesterday, a girl I’m fuckbuddy fucking says she could never date a guy earning less than her, I say “Yeah, it’s called hypergamy, girls can only fuck across and up... guys can fuck down, across and up... we don’t discriminate like you chicks do”.

She says, “nah I can’t evern fuck across, he has to be more successful and to help me succeed too!”

I say “but what’s in it for him, what if he wants a lady to make him more successful?”

She looks confused momentarily, as I slap her on her butt...

“Well I’ll fuck him and make sure other areas of his life are covered”.

I ended the convo laughing and just said “interesting”

[–]pussykiller0094 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

But did you fuck her asshole?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Not a kink I enjoy personally :)

[–]Mescalean11 points12 points  (2 children) | Copy

Mostly have just witnessed the typical masculine denial like you said op.

One in particular was when i was working at this health food store in my early 20’s. Hipsterish vegan type and I worked out a plate deal. Always with the atypical beta hipster. When we were hooking up she would always squeeze my arms and shoulders and tell me I’m the only “real man” shes hooked up with and hates dating guys who haven’t changed physically since early highschool.

Boys. Lift heavy and eat protein.

[–]ExcellentStudio 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Fuck dude thanks I needed this. I'm a scrawny twink that somehow still manages to get laid but I often think about how I could be doing so, so much better.

[–]Mescalean2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like you need some animal fat and deadlifts man. Wtf is up with that mentality /: the scrawny dudes who try to change it awesome by you. The soybois you see putting down healthy masculinity to justify their meek existence is whats wrong.

[–]yunggoose16 points17 points  (3 children) | Copy

"I love how you're the most confident and carefree one from your group of friends. I like men who take what they want".

She actually later told me that one thing that really sparked her interest in me was that I refused to hold her bag when we were getting ready to walk out a bar. She said she has done that to all the guys she ever dated or went out with and I was the first one to not fall for her crap.

[–]dani0984 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Hold her bag? Wtf? Like “can you hold my bag for a second ?”... or...?

[–]TheRedPillMonkey4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Curious about this too.

[–]yunggoose0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah - so we were still at the bar and were getting our coats from the wardrobe. There was plenty of space to put her bag down (couch/ table or anywhere else) while getting dressed, but she tried to hand it to me. Told her no and after like 2 hours we were both pretty smashed and she told me that that somehow sparked the interest. Shits weird sometimes.

[–]premeboi25 points26 points  (6 children) | Copy

girls admitting to me that they hate unattractive dudes who are short, fat, etc.

[–]xNightly21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not really RP, that’s just personal preference

[–]ExcellentStudio 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

Hate in what way? Like hate that he's ugly or hate him as a person because he's ugly?

[–]omega_dawg9312 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

per my sisters, "hate," in that he's someone they would never fuck and that he's using oxygen a better man should have.

[–]11-Eleven-110 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ouch lol

[–]johnny-123457 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'm short, can relate. Thankfully I'm ridiculously good looking ;)

[–]pussykiller0091 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

👏🏽

[–]MartinVDK9111 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

LTR told me yesterday, that I Am absolutely not the one who talks about feelings. I agreed and said "And that's because you like us." She smirked and didn't say anything in agreement.

[–]TheRedPillMonkey3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

"just be a man about it!"

One girl I interact with from an account management role is a hb9 all day. Like, major metro area hb9. 26yo married to a millionaire hb9. She told me her male clients buy things for themselves, then return them a week later because their gf didn't like it. She gets annoyed and said "OMG just be a man. Its your money and it's for you. Why do you let your gf do this to you? Be a man about it"

My buddy is a total beta, married to a girl who wishes she was a blue haired feminist because it's the cool thing right now. She'll spend hours talking about how great metoo is, how white males really need to check their privilege, and how toxic masculinity is ruining society. Then, 10 seconds later she'll lament how her hubby just needs to "man up" about this and "be a man and handle" that and how he fails to do so.

All women know what "being a man" is and are attracted to it, regardless what they say about it.

[–]muddynips4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Watching my younger sisters grow up, pretty every single RP truth was verified. I've seen, just with two sisters:

  1. Regret rape from both. They often brag about sexual conquests and then the next day demand sympathy for being raped from the same guy. It doesn't make any god damn sense, and they later drunkenly told me they just kind of made it up based on how they felt about it that day. If you try to pin down the story so you can figure out an actionable response, they get wishy washy.
  2. Extreme compartmentalization. They can be different people one room from the next, and as such have a limited identity. They glob on to whichever man they are dating, and completely change their world view to fit the man they want something from. Character changes as often as clothing.
  3. They assume almost no life risks (aside from high-risk sex).
  4. Beta Bux, Alpha Fux. And not in that order.
  5. They are hyper-aware of the wall, and their diminishing value. It eats them alive.
  6. They are completely comfortable lying to friends, family, and lovers if it benefits them. They don't even notice they are doing it. It just flows out of them. A lot of our family time involves them strategically positioning themselves between me and the bf to protect their lies.
  7. Continuing to fuck their exes. Constantly.
  8. They revel in social manipulation. Both are fairly smart people, but they apply themselves disproportionately to learning how to manipulate people in their social circles.

[–]Hellsteelz8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

Girl on my job, employed as a consultant, with uncertainties whether the boss is going to permanently employ her, said this to me;

"If he doesn't employ me im going to show everyone what he wrote to me on Tinder, and then report him."

This girl goes around flirting with guys in the office and says some other crazy ass stuff, and she has a bf. At this point im sure she is trying to catch a case. Glad i didnt escalate my flirting with her and only kept it to light teasing.

If you're an manager or some higher up at the firm you especially need to watch your back. Feels like it's extra saucy to nail a manager compared to a regular 9-5 worker. Lesson: Don't shit where you eat guys.

[–]pickyourselfupman1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

“but it made her feel weird when I did this in front of other people.”

Can anyone explain what that means for me?

[–]ExcellentStudio 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

I took it to mean cognitive dissonance between her desire to be dominated in private and a desire to conform to modern western stance on women being dominated, ie they "shouldn't be"

[–]pickyourselfupman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ok, so she likes it and secretly wants that dynamic, but she’s afraid to be submissive and feminine in public because she thinks (rightfully so) that others will judge her and you for it which causes discomfort and anxiety. Do you think this is accurate?

[–]mrpthrowa1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Dude it's true. you don't need random hoes to validate it for you.

[–]donaxi19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

When it comes to shit like TRP, solid evidence like this really is necessary. This is because TRP views are extremely different from what we’ve been told our entire lives, it’s hard to believe it and change accordingly without evidence.

Like, when I first started out I thought I would somehow ruin my life and all chances with women because «not all women are like this!!» and that people would see me as a fuckin asshole.

Now I see that is not the case at all.

[–]EdvardMunch 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

Not to burst bubbles but most of these things are perceived indications of authenticity for women and simple laws of attraction. They don't like to get the bottom shelf and they don't want a serial killer.

Ive struggled with over thinking and a lot of this is.

I as a dude looking to simply bang don't want to do that with my ideal partner, and Id argue women do allow an in between. Tons of guys who are comfortable with themselves and their sexuality.

This stuff is so often a mirror of what we want too, inside a puritanical sex shamed and feared culture. Things would look so different if we all banged regularly.

[–]ExcellentStudio 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Maybe I'm just tired but I don't understand what you're trying to say. I'm not overthinking, this is shit right in front of my nose

[–]xpletive3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

what the fuck are you on about mate



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