For context, I'm university age, and so is she, but two years younger. I've been a reader on TheRedPill subreddits for over a year, so I'm well aware of the general concepts surrounding female nature, this case is just a really odd one. I probably acted 60/40 Alpha/Beta with her, as in I was playful and would neg her a lot (easy when English isn't her first language and she has a funny accent), but was also sweet and charming when necessary. It's long, but it's worth a read I think.

So I was on vacation on a cruise ship over Christmas break and New Years. While on the trip, I met a group of 5 cool people from the Netherlands. (I'm Canadian). The trip was 11 days, and I met them on the first night, so I spent probably 4-6 hours a day on average with these people over the course of 11 days.

One girl I connected really well with. In good shape and with a really cute face, she also had a great bubbly personality, was smart and a sweetheart. Other guys on the boat gave her plenty of attention, but her eyes seemed set on me from the beginning. Probably a HB8/8.5 in the looks department, but when I factored in her personality and the fact she had no obvious red flags (I'll get to this) id probably give her an overall 9.5. I guess you could say me and this girl "coupled up" during the trip, including me staying two nights in her room, however we didn't fuck, due to her sharing her room with her older brother, although there was plenty of touching, teasing, etc.

What I mean by lack of red flags is that she had literally done nothing we would consider remotely bad ever. She had never been drunk, never smoked weed, only made out with two other guys before me, and had only ever been with one guy. This was all verified by her older brother (who still lives with her) who talked about how she mostly just focuses on school and extracurriculars, and said and I quote "She has no life". On New Year's, when everyone in our group was getting shitfaced, she stayed sober and still had a good time dancing and whatnot. I'm going to be honest, I liked this girl a lot more than I wish I did, but she was one of those really rare girls that i would say are LTR material. Anyways, here's where it gets interesting.

During the trip, me and this girl talked a bit about possibly backpacking Europe together this summer. The talk was both of our ideas really, as I've wanted to go back to Europe for years, and last summer me and some friends explored the idea of heading to the Baltics & Russia, before plans fizzled out. So when these plans were talked about, I actually thought it was a great idea, as having a girl to travel with who speaks Dutch and German would be very helpful when doing continental Europe, not to mention she'd be a fun travel partner, whether we were travelling romantically or just as friends.

On the last day of the trip, she came and found me at breakfast with tears in her eyes, and gave me this massive hug. Her mother (who i had built rapport with over the trip) gave me a hug as well, and said "You're always welcome to visit us in the Netherlands". I assumed this was just a formality, as it's something many people say when saying goodbye, however I added this girl on whatsapp after the trip, and since getting home it seems like she was incredibly serious about the travelling together stuff. I'll go from the least intense thing to the most.

She has spring break the same week as myself, and she wants to fly in and come visit me in my town. (big city, lots to do) I think this would be fun, as I haven't done plenty of the touristy stuff in over ten years, and a few not at all, this would give me a good excuse to be a tourist in my own city, and have lots of fun doing it. She has already started looking into our backpacking Europe plans, including Eurail costs, countries we talked about, etc. Nothing much to say here either, honestly I'm kinda glad she's doing the research on costs of train tickets etc. and not me, reduces daily stress on my end.

Here's the thing that I think is really crazy:

Her family (Herself, Brother, Mom, Dad) are travelling to Greece this summer for 15 days before our planned backpacking trip, and her mother told her to ask me if I wanted to come, and said THEY WOULD PAY FOR MY TRIP. I knew this girl for eleven days, awesome girl, but this seems a little excessive. Either she and her family really really liked me, or I'm about to get my organs harvested in Greece, lol. No but real talk, people use the expression "if it's too good to be true, it probably is" and this is one of those things that if it's real it's amazing, but it's kinda strange.

I just want your guys opinion on this, not trying to toot my own horn but im definitely above average, I have an attractive face, decent body (1 year lifting) and pretty good social skills, my only downfall is i'm below six feet (5'11) but besides that girls pretty often show me attention. With that being said, I still don't think this girl going out of her way to do all of this for me makes sense. Does she really like me that much? I also know LDRs almost never work, so I'm not thinking along those lines, more along the lines of this girl would be a super fun travel partner, and if there's sexual interest along the way, fantastic!

I just don't know what to think or how to proceed. All these plans have kinda been formulated over the last week, and while they all sound super fun, I'm just wondering if to outsiders this looks absolutely insane. Also, would travelling with a girl you met previously be considered a "beta move"? Honestly, I don't really know where I'm going with this post, more a vent than anything? feel free to leave anything down below, thoughts, criticism, advice, etc. Just be constructive.

TLDR: Met a girl from the Netherlands on vacation. No red flags, super cute, liked me back. Wants to visit me in a few weeks in my hometown, and travel with me through Europe in the summer, including having me join her family on a trip in Greece on their dime. Not sure what to think, as I'm aware LDRs almost never work but I wanted to travel Europe anyways this summer, so it's not like I'm changing plans directly for her.