I recently had a ONS with suprisingly a very nice girl. By nice, I don't mean easy, I mean her personality was tolerable, there was no bullshit, and she was good fun. We met in a club.

She lived out of town so we had been texting for a bit, until I told her to visit me this weekend. She did the whole potential flaking thing, until eventually she decided to come. She's 20, beach volleyball player, I'd say solid 8/10. I'm 27 by the way.

She meets me at the station and we have the most chilled out weekend. We go to the park, we go watch the world cup, we come back to mine to fuck, have a nice meal and chill out. Everything you'd do with a gf.

She mentions how she likes me, I also was starting to like her more due to the lack of bullshit and games she gave me. She was one of the most chilled out girls I'd ever met. As I dropped her at the station yesterday afternoon I realised something. As much as this girl could quite easily become a gf due to her "sweet" nature and kind personality, some glaring problems only TRP would notice stare me in the face:

  1. She slept with me the first time she met me. Am I the only one shes done this with? Obviously not.

  2. She claims to have only been with a handful of guys, but when we were in bed on the first night we met, she mentioned how she had a 3some 2 weeks previous. She was ashamed to admit, but that was hilarious.

  3. She was thankful of the time I gave to her as in driving around to parks chilling, but she wasn't overly grateful for the little things. Sneaky suspicion she has princess mentality.

  4. Talks to an abundance of guys - But I'll mention, beta guys. Hugely. They snapchatted her quite often (she didnt check her phone much) but when she did it be a huge betas face coming up, or a text reading "oh my god this world cup is sooo fun miss you xxxxxx" It made me laugh but still, interesting.

The old me would have asked her out this weekend. I do have slight feelings for this girl, however she has to unfortunately be relegated to a plate. She'd make the perfect gf for a whole host of guys. Who wouldnt want an attractive, in shape, very sweet caring girl? But the cons outweigh the pros and its a shame, as I had the GF experience this weekend, and I certainly prefer it to chasing poon all the time.