Attractive girls as friends?

RoamingAmber · 2014-06-16T20:34:40+00:00

If you're getting something out of the friendship, awesome. Do it. If you're hanging out hoping she changes her mind (and especially if she takes advantage of that), hit the road.

It'll be obvious pretty quick which relationship you have.

FrogTrainer · 2014-06-16T20:11:58+00:00

It's ok to be friends, just don't be a supplicating orbiter.

Female friends can sometimes make the best wingmen.

ragincajun83 · 2014-06-16T21:35:30+00:00

If you can actually be friends with her (like, just friends, not a clingy hopeful guy who caters to her every whim) then yes do it. Being friends with hot chicks is great for attracting other hot girls. Go out with her to bars, and let other girls see this hot girl near you. Then work on gaming the other girls. However, don't be surprised if the hot friend all of the sudden gets jealous...

DegenerateAsshole · 2014-06-16T20:29:45+00:00

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2014-06-16T21:24:32+00:00

She's not your friend, she's an associate who can act as social proof; other women see you with her and think you're special.

SenorPuff · 2014-06-16T21:00:43+00:00

Having attractive female friends helps with preselection. Now, they're attractive, so being DTF with them is understandable, but if you find yourself being emotionally attached(romantically), you need to reevaluate the terms of your friendship.

temparooney · 2014-06-17T16:53:40+00:00

If she's putting you in fz, the friendship is no good to you. You can have attractive girls as friends, but they should be girls that would fuck you if you pursued it.

But her comment doesn't end it if you don't want it to. She is responsible for her own actions, but she is not the dictator in a relationship that's a two way street. I think girls let you out of the fz when you become fuckable material. It's only thought to be permanent because men rarely change. You can use it sneakily to do things that build attraction. I had a girl who didn't like me, talk to me later, and she was clearly willing to talk as long as I wanted, showed physical signs of attraction, and blurted out "you've changed". (I then walked away shortly thereafter since I had a gf already, but if I'd wanted her as a friend, I could have had her on good terms after that.) Women are unable to be subtle about these things, which is useful.

Or, just go after the many other girls out there.

temparooney · 2014-06-16T21:11:49+00:00

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Occams_Shiv · 2014-06-16T23:31:47+00:00

Women are extremely valuable as friends. They are intrinsic to a well developed social circle.

They are more social than men. Have other female friends, and will introduce you to them. 2 thirds of the women I've bedded have been introduced to me by girls that I was friends with.

Often the girl who has friendzoned you, and then engineered you hooking up with her friends, are then forced to reevaluate you in light of the new preselection she herself helped facilitate. This can manifest as jealousy, affection, psychosis, or them immediately fucking you.

I'm working on a long post about converting in the friendzone, but it can be summed up as:

Fuck me? Y/N? If No, Friends? Y/N? If Yes, introduce me to other girls? Y/N? If Yes, ride the carousel of her friends until she decides she wants to try you for herself. If No, we aren't actually friends. Try again with new girl.

Title	Attractive girls as friends?
Author	The_BitterTruth
Upvotes	2
Comments	35
Date	June 16, 2014 8:09 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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