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Dalrock - [Hookups] are fun, and even .. empowering when a woman is young.. each new encounter is further proof that she holds the veto power over men. However, when the men are the ones doing the vetoing empowerment...she finds herself being passed around, if not passed over.

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March 13, 2013
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http://dalrock.wordpress.com/2013/03/12/this-wont-end-well/


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Title Dalrock - [Hookups] are fun, and even .. empowering when a woman is young.. each new encounter is further proof that she holds the veto power over men. However, when the men are the ones doing the vetoing empowerment...she finds herself being passed around, if not passed over.
Author redpillschool
Upvotes 29
Comments 21
Date 13 March 2013 01:37 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/174870
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1a7pqj/dalrock_hookups_are_fun_and_even_empowering_when/
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[–]Modredpillschool[S] 13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

Men in their early 20s are observing that marriage and girlfriends aren’t in the cards, and this reduces their incentive to work hard to demonstrate provider status. Their female peers are too busy hooking up with cads while misguidedly trying to signal their own provider status. In short, the grooming process for grooms is vanishing.

[–]Modredpillschool[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

So much juicy stuff here. From the comments:

But it’s clear by their actions that women want hookups. The attractive men are out there saying sex or something close to it is the price of admission. And more and more women are responding that they’re willing to pay it. Those same women are saying that if the choice is between sex with a hot alpha and a longshot chance at a a relationship with him; and marriage to a beta — they’ll take the alpha sex.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 9 points10 points  (8 children) | Copy

What neither the young women nor their parents are taking into consideration is that young women who decided to ride the carousel in their 20s are already starting to have great difficulty finding a husband when the time comes. What young women are doing by voting with their sexual power for hookups and flings over LTRs and marriage is changing the way men are approaching sex and relationships. When they finally are ready for LTRs and marriage they are finding that the prospective husbands they expected to be in a holding pattern for over a decade are hard to come by.

No shit. Their only option at that point is someone they ultimately find undesirable and unattractive.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (7 children) | Copy

A little bit of just desserts perhaps?

The interesting thing is that the strong willed, independent men will be just fine through all of this. They will adapt and overcome (red pill) or wallow and eventually settle (blue pill), but it is the women who will ultimately suffer the most from this social dynamic they have created and perpetuated.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm glad I'm learning to adapt right now, so damn hard to overcome the 20 or so years of training to operate in the current system, but we'll get there.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy

i dont think so. most will not understand that there is anything wrong.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

Perhaps, but does a lack of understanding constitute a lack of consequence?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

hmm, if something bad happens to you but you dont realize what happened , why it happened and you dont understand the full consequences and what they mean to your life doesnt that mean that you are not aware that you are even suffering?

and if you are not aware of that sufferage, do you actually suffer?

they are just going to think "there are no good men!!!" and then continue on with their lifes feeling good about themselves thinking its somebody elses fault.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

hmm, if something bad happens to you but you dont realize what happened , why it happened and you dont understand the full consequences and what they mean to your life doesnt that mean that you are not aware that you are even suffering?

and if you are not aware of that sufferage, do you actually suffer?

It seems to me that you would. If you had a degenerative disease that was slowly tearing apart your insides but you had no idea you had it, what the causes were, and how long you had to live would it still affect you? Absolutely it would, and you would still suffer the consequences of it just the same. I don't see the two being exclusive from one another.

In the same way if you had a debilitating mental illness or chemical imbalance that you were blissfully unaware of would you still suffer the consequences? Absolutely you would, the symptoms would manifest themselves in every aspect of your life whether you chose to acknowledge them or not. What about a problem drinker who doesn't think they have a problem with drinking? Won't there be consequences there as well...

I don't see it being any different here, women may not want to own up to the problem and they may never understand, but there will certainly be repercussions.

I suppose I foresee the inevitable "there are no good men" as the first consequence in a series of an unhappy and unfulfilled life. I can only imagine how miserable I would be if I came to the same conclusion, and I know there are men out there who have. You can blame your disease or mental illness on whoever you want, but you are still going to be the one taking the blunt of suffering and dealing with the consequences.

Edit: grammar

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

well i dont think you can realy compare a physicall desease.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don't really see the difference here. Mentally, physically, socially, or emotionally...its going to manifest one way or another. There is a natural order and balance to the universe and when the balance is upset there is a consequence. The dust may eventually settle but things get messy in the process.

Newtons 3rd law: For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 11 points12 points  (10 children) | Copy

Young women ride the carousel. Older women divorce and steal your property.

I think it's safe to say that women changed up the whole LTR / marriage deal. I certainly am awake to these issues and conduct myself accordingly.

Edit: But I'm apparently not awake enough to type properly. Where's the coffee...

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (4 children) | Copy

I certainly am awake to these issues and conduct myself accordingly

This is the part the scares people. It's why there is a new "where are all the good men [beta providers to take care of me when I'm no longer able to pick and choose whoever I want] at?" article every day. It's ok for women not to live by any social rules or norms but as soon as men stop caring they are told to grow up/man up/stop being a man-child.

This is why men are shamed for pointing out the bullshit in society that affects them. We are suppose to be the constant in society that women can always come back to when they're done riding the cock carousel.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

We are suppose to be the constant in society that women can always come back to when they're done riding the cock carousel.

That's the amusing part. They start the carousel, but don't realize it isn't going to stop.

[–]orographic 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

The more you ride it the faster it goes and there are no brakes

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's hard to point out the 'you reap what you sow' argument, because they assume it's a personal attack on their past habits (it's not, it's just laying out the facts). This article definitely cleared up my issue when trying to talk with girls about this.

[–]Boss_Monkey 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's ok for women not to live by any social rules or norms but as soon as men stop caring they are told to grow up/man up/stop being a man-child.

When women stop being useful as women to society we call it "Wednesday".

When men stop being useful as men to society we call it "game over".

[–]dreamingawake09 5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

I have a cup of joe right now just sippin the glory lol. Real note though, I see this shit that Darlock talks about all the time at my college. Then again, this is pretty much every college across the planet, especially here in the US. I've pretty much accepted the fact that an LTR won't happen anytime soon, and I've been hooking up no problem, however, it does get boring after a while. Sometimes its nice to a have a little monogamy relationship, but, its just impossible with these chicks, so I'm just doing what I enjoy and working the career that I enjoy as well. Only providing for myself and helping out family and friends when they need it, shit feels good honestly.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

lol i gotta get myself some of that good ol glory.

I'm also seeing the same thing at my campus (not complaining), and I'm really starting to value my relationships with men more than my past girls I called friends. As philosophical as this sounds, life has gotten a lot better and more clear with having a bounty of guys that you can talk to about issues, because I'm learning that many are in the same thought pattern. I'm still acting/being a bitter old young 20 kid at the moment (learning about this still over the past few weeks/months), but focusing on what I enjoy and the career opportunities by working for myself will get me to the light soon enough.

[–]dreamingawake09 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Have one freshly made for you man! Haha.

But yeah man, I'm just like you, I'm starting to really value my friendships with men far more than the girls at my campus. Especially with different projects, we tend to get more done in higher quality and in good time. Plus, we can speak our minds without having to be politically correct and shit. Plus, I've taught two of my good friends the red pill ways and they have been doing well now with the chicks at my campus, feels uniting ya know, like a legit family away from our families, its a good thing.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's one thing I've also noticed. When in the gym doin squats or some heavy lifting, started talking with another guy about relationships and human interaction, and I start spilling some red-pill info I've learned, and then immediately notice how his eyes open up as if I'm some sort of 'smart guy who knows knowledge' about life. Point him towards redpill, say 'start reading, and get back to me on your thoughts'. Made 2 new friends this way (I never make new friends)



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