“What Do You Do When A Girl Hits You?”

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Title “What Do You Do When A Girl Hits You?”
Author redpillschool
Upvotes 76
Comments 99
Date 17 October 2013 07:02 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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Link https://theredarchive.com/post/174983
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1onv3m/what_do_you_do_when_a_girl_hits_you/
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[–]Satchmo8428 points29 points  (1 child) | Copy

When I had it happen to me back in 2010, she was drunk, slapped me in the face, then threatened to slit my throat in my sleep and attacked me while I was on the phone with 911. I put her hands behind her back and had her pinned face down on the floor using my knee till the police arrived and took her away. I'm thankful I got out of that as safely as I did.

[–]McMurphyCrazy41 points42 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're fucking lucky the cops didn't arrest you dude. Happy to hear a man made it out OK in that situation.

[–]unassuming_aussie50 points51 points  (7 children) | Copy

Ever heard of "husband bashing bruises"? They're the bruises a woman gets along her arms from her husband defending himself against her onslaught. My ex had them all the time over the 10 years we were together (talk about beta blue pill).

That is until one day I waited until there were witnesses (she usually carried on in private or only in front of the kids), I let one through so people saw her connect, then pow, I landed a perfect uppercut that nearly knocked her out. I leaned over and said very loudly that if she ever hit me again, then she would get hit back. I then went back to my place, called the police and asked for to be charged with assault.

The cops came over to charge me, because she had called them as well thinking I'd be in the shit. They said because her story was the same as mine and the witnesses (she struck first) that the only way they could charge me was if I charged her. They were visibly upset that they couldn't legally take me away. I didn't have her charged, but she has never raised a hand or even her voice to me since (this incident happened 4 years ago).

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan39 points40 points  (2 children) | Copy

Yes. If someone hits you they deserve to be hit back. Societies special card for women that they exclusively should be immune to the repercussions of their own violence is just total bullshit. I think the comedian Bill Burr touches on this in one of his routines "an ass kicking doesn't just land out of nowhere ladies!"

[–]McMurphyCrazy16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy

She could have just been sitting there going "hey let's get some baskin Robbins ice...OH JESUS NO!"...or maybe, just MAYBE, they were having an epic end of relationship fight where she was screaming in his face "I'LL FUCK ALL YOUR FRIENDS!!!"

[–]SilverWolfeBlade8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

I love you.

[–]unassuming_aussie4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Right back at you!

[–]SilverWolfeBlade2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

If a woman wants to fight and hit us like a man. Then we should fucking treat them as such and respond accordingly.

This reminds me of that bus driver that knocked the ratchet hoe out with a beautiful uppercut.

I am beyond tired of having to see women respond to stuff with violence and then act weak and surprised when someone gets tired of their shit and reacts.

Like the driver said, if you wanna act like a man, I will treat you like a man (paraphrasing)

[–]bgny10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is what got me arrested for the first time in my life a few years ago. When my ex started swinging I would just cover up most of my head and let her hit the back of my head, neck, and back. I usually could take this with no real problem but one day she got a good shot on my spine that hurt like a bitch so I grabbed her and held her down. After she calmed down I let her go. She calmly went to the phone and called 911. I was arrested and spent the night in jail. She dropped the charges later, but now I'm in the system. I've learned my lesson. Drop all contact with violent women at the first sign of abuse.

[–]goodtimeswithcash19 points20 points  (5 children) | Copy

I was SOOOO confused with the comments here, wondering if TRP had truly lost their minds. I read the title as "What do you do when a girl hits ON you?" lol

[–]mister_zd-2 points-1 points  (4 children) | Copy

Yeah me too, I was going to say this doesn't happen in this universe.

[–]Nitzi1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

that happens everyday

[–]mister_zd-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

you wish

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You don't meet many fat chicks, huh?

[–]mister_zd0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Even then, they dont hit on me.

[–]kingssman12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy

when a woman hits me? Usually she ends up hurting herself, I'm a bit dense boned with rough skin.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Same here to a certain extent, my first wife used to hurt her hands when she hit me, so it went to scratches, cutting, yanking my hair, throwing things at me, picking up things and hitting me with them.

Trust me a woman with a stick or something as innocuous as a coffee mug can do some damage to a guy who is 100lbs heavier, even when he has training.

[–]FuckOffSRSCunts2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

There's also the idea that you have a personal connection with them. When someone like that hits you? It's a lot different than some asshole at a bar hitting you.

[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire213 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

Two words: Hidden Camera.

Another two words: Hidden Witness.

In some jurisdictions it is illegal to videotape someone without their knowledge. Hidden witness may be a work around. If someone is beating you, they usually will beat you when faced with a certain stimulus. Initiate that stimulus and draw out the beating while the hidden witness observes. The hidden witness has plausible deniability. "I was just in the kitchen helping myself to a soda, and I heard an argument, went into the other room and saw her hitting him."

Three more words: Document, Document, Document.

As soon as someone abuses you, they declare war on you. You must defend yourself by any and all means that will actually work. With women, it's tricky because the law is SEXIST and biased in favor of them, even if they are abusive.

[–]ilovemyself1011 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thank god Australia is a 1 party state, hidden cameras everywhere!

[–]Modredpillschool[S] 33 points34 points  (7 children) | Copy

Mind you, this is the good men project, which is basically a bullshit site, but this story is worth a read. Relevant link from Vox: http://alphagameplan.blogspot.com/2013/10/what-to-do-when-girl-hits-you.html

[–]IPlayUkulele22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is there a solution that doesn't land you in jail for a very long time if it backfires?

Only one I can think of is MGTOW.

Another thought: That's another problem with marriage. It's harder to just walk away from the relationship. Like Vox says, women are creatures of fear. When you get married, suddenly you have a very literal investment in the marriage, and the fear she has of you walking away diminishes.

[–]RedPillScare7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

I'll be honest: I'm torn on this one.

[–]Talkshitgethit10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Same here, the logic in me says "if you hit me, I'll hit back" but it's easy to say that. Because what if some drunk woman hits me out while I'm at the bars, I hit her back and I'm going to be jumped by white knights. This issue is definitely pretty deep.

[–]RedPillScare4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

In that situation, I leave. No question. Staying or retaliating cannot help me.

In my house, if my woman twists off on me, that is the problem. I'm a big guy, and I like petite women. My last GF had the skills to put me in the hospital, like the subject of the article, if I don't defend myself. I'm 15" taller and 100lbs heavier. If I called the cops, they probably wouldn't believe that I didn't hit her.

Thing is, I can see either fleeing, or putting the fear of retribution in her. The question is how well the fear would stick, and what the statute of limitations says about DV in my state.

[–]phasetwenty0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I found Vox's take to be compelling. It's the only possible future when a man as no confidence in the justice system: the solution it set out to prevent is the only solution that recognizes the one at fault.

I hope I'm never in a situation like this. No matter what route I take, best case scenario I lose.

[–]FortunateBum0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I never thought of it this way, but it makes sense. All those stories of a guy who beats a woman so bad she's hospitalized, maybe multiple times? She always goes back, never presses charges.

Me, I'm not going to do this. I didn't do this. Best advice is just to run. Probably not even a good idea to even live with a woman, let alone have kids.


[–]enticingasthatmaybe0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The aggressor sets the rules of engagement. It's been a tenant of warfare since the dawn of war and it won't be changed by one caustic idealistic human subculture.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy

Fuck, totally forgot about this / repressed this memory. Like 10 plus years ago I caught my high school "first love" hooking up with a guy at a house party. We were together for 3 years prior and our dream was to get the fuck out of our shitty neighborhoods and situations. Well, it happened but not as how I imagined it. I was 20, she was 17, and he was 28. I was so beta I don't really even blame her for playing me the way she did.

Well, I get her in my car and go for a drive all the while trying to "work things out" (the fuck was I thinking). I park and attempt to "win her back" and she was just not having it, obviously. She started screaming for me to take her back to the party and I said no and that I was going take her home because she was drunk and drugged up (I am so lucky the cops didn't pull me over). She started hitting and punching me while I was driving back to her house. I had to stop the car again because she tried grabbing the wheel to what I assume to was an attempt to crash the car. She then did the most amazing, and by amazing I mean unfuckingbelievable, act of hate I have even had happen to me to date. She slowly put her fist to my cheek and slashed my face with a heart-shaped diamond ring, that she had begged me for, which I had bought her that Christmas.

At that moment I reached a moment of clarity. I was in university and trying to make something of myself and she was just some hood rat hanging out with other lowlifes from my shitty neighborhood. All soon to be worthless vestiges of my past. I just said "OK" and drove her back to the party.

Sad part is the clarity didn't last and I subjected myself once more to even more hurt and pain by her and THEN I was able to move on. The beta was strong with me.

She actually hit me up on Facebook a year back or so and apologized to me and thanked me for having a positive impact on her life. I was completely taken back. However karma didn't come into play, at all. She partied all through her 20's and managed to snatch up a well off guy and become a happy house wife before she lost her good looks.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

You could alway hire a guy to deliver some karma.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nah, I forgive her. She was a kid and basically so was I. I don't know if I am making excuses for her but she is married to (based on the pics of her cars and house) a millionaire possibly and she has no reason to reach out to me. Her gesture to woman man up and apologize to as well as thank me showed she wasn't a heartless human anylonger.

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[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

Most women are "crazy bitches" dude.

[–]ThrowAwayAlphaDelta2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think that's why he specified, "who will hit you".

[–]MrsStrom0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Woman here, can confirm. The only things that vary after the type and intensity.

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[–]no_game_player1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You thought he had a knife. Or a gun. Oops, turns out it was a cell phone. Oh well.

[–]FuckOffSRSCunts1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I'm totally new to this subreddit:
You contact your lawyer first, then you contact the police and have your lawyer do the speaking for you. People incriminate themselves when they talk directly to the police, because they're investigating the situation. They don't know if you're lying or not, and the justice system isn't perfect, so whoever looks more guilty is going to be found guilty.

[–]Paranoidexboyfriend0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Lawyers aren't just on call all the time. Most people don't have a personal lawyer on constant retainer they can just call up in the middle of the night. Most domestics occur off work hours

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If a woman hit me I would LAY. HER. ASS. OUT. You want equal treatment? You hit me and I will hit you. You don't hit me, I don't hit you. Problem solved.

For the guy in this article I don't feel sorry for him. He should have outsmarted her and recorded her ridiculous behavior and taken it to the police immediately. Being someone's punching bag is not the answer, especially letting it happen in front of your kids. Those kids will never be the same after they witnessed this kind of behavior. If that didn't work, steal the kids and flee the country. Obviously this woman is not mentally stable with this behavior.

[–]destraht2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

When I was in fourth grade a girl slapped me all of the way from her hips while I was sitting down. I stood up and punched her square in her cheek bone. She was standing up dazed and barely conscious for about ten seconds. Then we were both suspended.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Great. Now tell me an adult story.

[–]destraht1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

As an adult she contemplated punching her husband but suddenly remembered a time in fourth grade when she was almost knocked the fuck out. So instead she merely yelled at him a bit.

[–]ThrowAwayAlphaDelta0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Back in high school, I had a girl who was three times larger than me (read, really fat) clock me in the side of the head. I told her if she did it again, I'd knock her on her ass. She hit me again, so I upper cut her and knocked her down. The teacher had to restrain her.

Thankfully, there were witnesses. I only got a one day suspension, and she got three.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (12 children) | Copy

What's with all the men's rights posts lately? A red pill alpha managing his relationships properly would not be in this situation in the first place. You next her before she gets crazy and/or your frame is strong enough that her craziness is not allowed to materialize.

Yes, it sucks that the legal system and society offer no protection to abused men, but the situation is exactly analogous to that of a drunk girl who gets raped walking down a dark alley: it's not your "fault" but if you take reasonable precautions and exercise good sense you won't have to deal with it.

[–]Modredpillschool[S] 15 points16 points  (4 children) | Copy

Read Vox's follow up. And if you don't like this content, don't read any of it.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

OK, when you add Vox's take then it becomes interesting and useful. If it were me, I would have made that one the primary link.

His advice would be, I think, an extreme version of "your frame is strong enough that her craziness is not allowed to materialize."

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

Have you had your vasectomy yet? Because if you ever have kids, she will find a way to destroy your frame, and she wont give a shit if she is bi polar or borderline personality crazy. They hide that shit well until you get them knocked up, then the crazy comes out of seemingly nowhere.

[–]TRP VanguardArchwinger2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Very much this. Being a big alpha man who keeps his woman interested in him through game tactics is fine when you're 24 at a bar and spinning plates.

When you're married with kids, in that 45 seconds of irrationality when the woman realizes that she's not going to get her way, she can do a lot of damage. Divorce is the obvious route - you lose your kids, your house, half of your shit, and have future earnings garnished into oblivion. But a really pissed off woman will also get you arrested, fired, evicted/foreclosed, and ruin your friendships and future career options, sometimes with nothing but falsehoods. And all you did was turn a cold shoulder and ignore her when she was screaming instead of validating her. She's the one who broke all the plates in her ensuing bitch-fest, then called the police to say you did it.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

But a really pissed off woman will also get you arrested, fired, evicted/foreclosed, and ruin your friendships and future career options, sometimes with nothing but falsehoods.

Both of mine did that. The second is trying to pin a felony on me with her boyfriend. Fabricated shit to get a restraining order, outright lied about things, presented half truths, all because her boyfriend is terrified of me. Additionally she wants to make it seem like I am dangerous to everyone she told they were just friends when they had been fucking for a week. Wanted to not look like a slut, so throw the husband under the bus.

Fuck that shit. I will never give a female power over me again. Not going to happen.

[–]bgny2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Men (especially those of us a little older) have a disadvantage as red pill knowledge was not something taught to you or easily found. Someone like me who grew up and was educated in the 80's and 90's before the internet and before there was such a thing are just now beginning to understand. Many of us have gone through bad experiences and are just now waking up to how misandric society has weakened us. Many men are still stuck and need help, so more empathy from those in the know is important and appreciated.

[–]x7CR7x-7 points-6 points  (2 children) | Copy

This. Mod's need to be careful we don't let this subreddit spin into whining and men's rights.

I REALLY hope I haven't added to the whining and MR posts, but I can't be too sure.

[–]Modredpillschool[S,M] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Hi there, mod here. As you can tell, the followup that I posted was some rather controversial but interesting life-advice on what to do if a girl hits you. In case you were wondering, it's not men's rights by any stretch. This is how we differ. Also, please do not concern troll, downvote and move along.

[–]x7CR7x3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Understood, thanks for the clarification.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy

It's men in blue stripes who will shoot you which is the issue here. Being able to tell jokes and entice sex out of girls won't stop bullets, so you should know what to do in the situation where you're being set up.

You're turning frame into a religious entity. Frame doesn't let you stop all women from crazy behavior; some are too crazy for that. It's like you're assuming with enough will power you can control the actions of others.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Some are indeed too crazy for that and you should next them the moment you figure that out. It's not common for that level of crazy to remain perfectly hidden indefinitely.

Can it happen, sure, but you can't live your life in fear of meteorite strikes.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You're right in general, that people should be able to avoid violence by choosing their environments appropriately. Unfortunately, many newer RP readers may already be in these situations.

[–]Clauderoughly2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Bullshit mangina site run by feminists pretending to give a fuck about mens issues.


[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bullshit mangina site run by feminists pretending to give a fuck about mens issues.

Isn't that the point? Post flair is "Blue pill example"

[–]Modredpillschool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You have to read Vox's follow up that I posted.

[–]NahDudeFkThat0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

definitely casually, and lightly, wrestle her to the ground and neutralize her until she calms down

she'd definitely be fueled with anger and tingles tho just by getting manhandled, but if she displays this type of behavior, she's most likely fat and masculine so I'd curve her and wait til she's escorted or something

[–]riskrowe0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There's no need for retaliation; grab her wrists, pin her down, be stern and say "Never hit me again". This comes naturally to me though, probably from fighting with my sister as a kid.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I had an ex when I was 18-20 who hit me. She hit relatively hard on the arm, and I would hit her back. Of course that relationship didn't last.

"You can't hit girls!" Yeah right.

[–]dischordiasnightmare0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm all for equal treatment, and I agree with being able to hit back if you get hit.

However, guys are sooo much stronger than girls, so my only word on this would be that if you're going to hit a chick then perhaps dial it back a few notches rather than use 100% strength.

Source- Am female.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

To all people saying you just have to restrain women - you really think women learn from that shit?

"Oh I hit him and he just restrained me? OMG!!!!!"


[–]TheD_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

In my own experience, I was raised by an emotionally and physically abusive mother. Her favorite past time was publicly chastising and slapping me.

In my twenties, she tried pulling that shit on me, slapped me a couple of times before getting counter-slapped. My father wanted me to apologize, but I was like nah -- and that's how I've lost contact with my parents.

[–]Drvibe0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

thats fucked, if male or female hits me they are asking for a fight, I get knocked out, or you do. Simple.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Just leave. It's a no-win situation.

[–]G3T-FUKT-PHAGGOT-2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy

Nothing, at first.

To the idiots saying

"same thing as when a man does it"

You're implying that men and women are to be treated in similar ways, that's the opposite of RedPill thinking.

I'm fortunate enough to have never been in that situation. Usually a woman who's psycho enough to hit a guy without a reasonable cause will be giving off red flags way before physical violence has a chance to occur, and you should be avoiding those types.

If I did find myself in that situation, it would depend on why the woman is hitting me. Did I do something stupid like hit her first, smack her dog or kill her entire family? If so I understand where she's coming from and I take whatever flailing punches her little arms throw at me.

If it's over some bullshit like forgetting to take out the trash, not washing my dish or forgetting our anniversary, I play defense, but I'd never actively aim to seriously hurt a woman, if I can help it.

[–]no_game_player1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Did I do something stupid like hit her first, smack her dog or kill her entire family?

Do you often do stupid things like killing someone's entire family?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Shit happens, huh?

[–]rapey_raperson1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Same thing you do when a guy hits you. Just make sure you get the whole thing on video, because otherwise you'll probably go to jail.

[–]updock3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly, if you get video evidence of her starting the fight, swinging first several times, connecting several times, and then you swinging back once - then you'll only definitely go to jail.

[–]CarterKillss0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

If a woman EVER hit me, I would take her fucking car and crash it into a barricade. no respect

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy

That would feel so good.

On a slightly related note, I have seen and heard of women destroying computers, TVs, videogame consoles, suits, cars, and other relatively expensive stuff that their boyfriend or, even worse, husband values.

If that happened to me, as revenge I would donate ALL of her clothes, shoes, and other items she values. I would then tell her she is a selfish and destructive person with no regard for anyone but her self and that I feel sorry for her children because based on her actions she would be a horrible mother.

[–]CarterKillss2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

hahaha yeah man. I'll never hit a woman but I'll fuck ALL of her shit up in response to any fucking retardation.

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Nice. Lucky she was stable.

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

True that.

[–]Geofferey-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Men should be respected and feared, as the proper leaders we are. We gain nothing if we knowingly give women power. Their strength is really ours. So as simply as we gave out, we can easily take back.

Everything depends on the frame and its integrity. I pray for the marine.

[–]mheyk-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Proof read your shit next time Marine I felt like I was reading a article from a down syndrome kid

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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