Alpha Game: Sending signals "Women always find a way of letting you know how they feel, in both a positive and a negative sense"

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Title Alpha Game: Sending signals "Women always find a way of letting you know how they feel, in both a positive and a negative sense"
Author redpillschool
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Date 16 June 2014 01:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

No I don't think the majority of men here HAVE been in a GOOD LTR. Yes, women do this for their men when they are attracted. They do NOT do this for their Beta Bucks.

And yes, it is SO easy in public to see the vast majority of couples (who have not had sex in weeks) and identify the happy couples (i.e. the ones who have sex several times a week). Just watch the way she looks at him and the way she leans into him. If he touches her with ownership and pulls her to him then you know exactly where they stand. If they rarely touch at all and you see cold steel rather than warmth in her eyes when she glances at him then you also know where they stand.

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So the next time a woman turns her back to me and grinds her butt into my groin, I'm going to have to fake left and block her shot from the right.

[–]cooltrip2 points3 points  (21 children) | Copy

"Women always find a way of letting you know how they feel, in both a positive and a negative sense"

Absolutely RIGHT.

I've NEVER forced a woman to "take the first step" for me, but, logically, this principle I have has never made me act like an idiot with women I perfectly knew were not interested in me.

I'm perfectly okay with approaching, taking the first step, etc... as long as I receive the suitable signals of interest from her.

[–]Modredpillschool[S] 11 points12 points  (15 children) | Copy

They say that guys should make the first move- but if you pay attention to body language and women's behavior, it's never really a first move. She'll start signalling when she wants something.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (13 children) | Copy

Are there any tips on knowing women's body language? The only thing I know, is that if a woman is close to you, then there is a chance of her being interested. Other than that, the stuff I find on the Internet doesn't really help. Maybe there are research topics I suck at, not really sure.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy

It's not something you can really "study." At least, not from the perspective of being a complete newbie. What you should instead do is immerse yourself in social situations. I've found that's it's more of a "vibe" you get from the chick. Comes with experience.

One "rule of thumb" I personally used to test this when I was getting started was "would I act this way to a chick who I had zero sexual interest in?" Try to imagine yourself in her shoes, and imagine she's trying to act in a way that signals to you that she's interested.

That's complicated, but it's one way. You're far better off simply assuming the sale.

[–]Ferelden3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's not complicated and in my opinion it is a very important concept. If you can do some self introspection and figure out the reasons you make certain body languages, then you can apply that to others. It's something I've naturally done my entire life and now in my mid twenties I find it extremely easy to read someone's opinion on what I'm saying/doing and react accordingly. Reading people well is an insanely useful life skill to have.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

I disagree on whether nonverbal communication is something you cannot study.

I say you certainly CAN study it. Read the Art of Seduction. Google nonverbal communication. The most important thing, however, is simply opening yourself up to nonverbal communication and practice people watching.

Couple pointers I have identified:

  1. The eyes are the window of the soul. You can tell if a person is angy, happy, or passionate JUST by looking in her eyes (although many are able to hide it fairly well). Again, google this topic and you can easily ID "Happy" eyes vs. "Passionate" eyes. I think this is innate but we have not taught boys how to access this world. Being able to maintain and keep easy eye contact is a huge sign of attraction.

  2. Girl touching neck or face/licking lips are huge signs of attraction. Keep doing whatever you are doing.

  3. Kino and go for a gentle kiss sooner rather than later. Google Kino and learn how to project feelings nonverbally TOO a woman.

  4. Hip and head position: If she is aiming her body directly at you especially during a conversation this is a huge sign of attraction. This is also why you start the interaction aiming YOUR body at a 45 degree angle AWAY from her (cuz it is not threatening since you are not approaching with a strong sexual attraction indicator).

  5. Learn to speak Womaneeze. Learn to project passion with your eyes. This allows you to preselect girls to approach and have a much better chance of immediate interest. Stare hotly until you get her attention. Hold the look for longer than is comfortable. If she looks away keep watching her. If she looks back within 45 seconds smirk/smile lightly and approach her immediately. If she doesn't look away, soften your gaze but don't look away. Smile lightly and approach immediately. Alternatively you can break the glance TO THE SIDE NOT SUBMISSIVELY DOWNWARD and look around the room further and approach later (or not at all).

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I was going to describe the study of body language as more "advanced," but precluded it entirely.

I presumed that he was starting from a blank slate. Instead of advising him to sit and read (the "advanced" material) extensively, I posit it would be much more beneficial to learn the basics through immersion. Once you begin to have marginal success, then read for the smaller nuances of body language.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes this is true. Baby steps. Complete 9th grade before moving on to 10th and all that.

[–]Hormander1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's not something you can really "study."

I have to desagree because there are books on body language that can help him learn women's body language. The rule of thumb is if her body language is submissive, she's probably attracted.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Date a slut or a whore. Don't let yourself care about her. Watch her interact and react with other guys and see how her body language and facial expressions give her away. She will tell you exactly who she wants to fuck with how she looks at them. I learned it from my first girl, and now when I see it I know exactly what she is thinking and wanting.

[–]curiousthis1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

This book should tell you all you need to know.

[–]scarfox1-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly. For example, I was on the subway looking at an advertisement for an upcoming (lots of artists) concert in my city. She came and sat near me and glanced at me a couple of times, then we fucked. Kidding, anyway, she then started looking at the thing I was constantly looking at (because I kept seeing different bands I liked). She then changed her seat and started looking at it as much as I was, and then it looked like she wrote down information in her cell phone. She had big beautiful fat breasts but I wasn't attracted to fats and I'm kind of new to red pill.

The implicit signs were intriguing but also kind of disgusting, I can see how females feel now when men constantly obviously ogle them. But yeah, looks like the non-shy ones send signals which is basically making the first move.

[–]enticingasthatmaybe1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

I'm constantly on the lookout now for gals who put themselves in my way. I've had a lot of success from seeing subtle clues that I would have always, always, looked passed before.

[–]esco_0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

please, do expland on this. What sort of subtle cues?

I feel i am good at noticing the "vibe", but im struggling to put into words how it feels/looks

[–]aww403 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Sideways glances from across the room. When you make eye contact, she turns away, might blush or smile.

She looks at you intently when you speak. When others speak, she looks at you to gauge your reaction. All of your jokes are hilarious.

Playing with her hair when you speak to her. NOT Rubbing the neck. Rubbing of the neck is usually a bad sign as it shows that shes uncomfortable and/or defensive. She's covering her vital region as a result.

If you're in a group talking and you don't know her that well or at all, if she makes a big fuss or tries to get a lot of attention from the group, it's a possibility that she wants your attention. However, she could just be an attention whore.

I've noticed that really shy girls smile in spite of themselves whenever they make eye contact with someone they find attractive. Depends on the female though, some shy people smile reflexively.

Sideway glances when she's listening or talking to someone else.

(Obviously) touching you in some manner when she speaks to you or is listening to what you say.

Like OP said, literally putting themselves in your way. Sitting next to you in class when there are other seats available, walking close to you when she walks by (I've noticed that sometimes this is where they'll courage up and make an attempt to make eye contact with you.) Striking up a conversation is a really good sign.

If you're in shape (see muscular) they look at your muscles. Chest, arms, forearms, shoulders.

These are just things I can think of off the top of my head. It is true though, you'll pick up on these things if you're in enough social interactions and are on the look out. If you single, always act on these signals. Better to get blown out of the water and get experience than to avoid the pain and not move forward.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

TLDR: I notice shit like indictors of interest once I took TRP.

[–]CruiseCruise0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm perfectly okay with approaching, taking the first step, etc... as long as I receive the suitable signals of interest from her.

It's actually way easier to just approach.

I've never been good at reading signals. What works okay for me is to just assume possibility of attraction, approach, maybe get shot down (who really gives a shit). Repeat.

This principle I have has never made me act like an idiot with women I perfectly knew were not interested in me.

If I tried to avoid that, I would have missed out on some great stuff.

By the way, you dont know what YOU'VE missed out on. How many of those women were acting disinterested because they were attracted.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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