RM: Wives & Lovers - "Once married, there are myriad social conventions already emplaced for a wife to rely upon ... ‘Mismatched Libidos’ is a common refrain for women..who come to a point where they can no longer palate the “duty sex” they felt responsible for in the beginnings..."

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Title RM: Wives & Lovers - "Once married, there are myriad social conventions already emplaced for a wife to rely upon ... ‘Mismatched Libidos’ is a common refrain for women..who come to a point where they can no longer palate the “duty sex” they felt responsible for in the beginnings..."
Author redpillschool
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Date 07 April 2015 05:43 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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Link https://theredarchive.com/post/175016
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[–]TRP VanguardJP_Whoregan18 points19 points  (1 child) | Copy

I just love how over in /r/relationshits and /r/askhamsters, whenever a man asks why his wife has stopped fucking him, one of the all-time, golden, go-to answers is "well I guess you both have mis-matched libidos!"

No, nothing could be further from the truth. Their libidos were just fine when they first met and she was fucking him like a jack rabbit for all day Saturday afternoon fuck sessions (even though for the woman, it's "beta forced sex", as I'll describe below; fact is, her pussy still got wet). No, what happens is one of two things:

  • The woman stops fucking her husband because now she doesn't have to fuck him anymore. She's gotten her Beta, she's gotten her $30,000 "All About Me" party (wedding day), and quite frankly, she just doesn't see the need to fuck him anymore. Why? She was never sexually attracted to him in the first place. All of those fuck sessions were a ruse. They are a con-game on easy, thirsty Beta "marks". Her "libido" has nothing to do with it. And old Beta hubby boy will figure that out when she decides to fuck Antonio the pool boy with the six pack abs while hubby is off breaking his balls at work. Her "libido" will be just fucking fine when he's got her bent over the ledge of the jacuzzi.

  • The man stops fucking the wife because she got fat and/or stopped keeping herself up. High heels become sneakers. Mini-skirts become Victoria Secret sweatpants with the quite ironic word 'SEXY' on the butt. Halter tops turn into oversized t-shirts. Those split ends she used to fret over? Fuck it. Make-up? Fuck it. Ordering a salad with dinner? Nope, mozzarella sticks and fried pickles. Double dipping sauce, please.

I've said it before and I'll say it again: I firmly believe that most men do not develop "erectile dysfunction". I think what's really happening is that the modern Western woman, when she is deep into a marriage to a man she doesn't give a fuck about, lets herself go to the point that she literally doesn't pass the "Boner Testtm" anymore. So instead of fixing the women (because they're never the problem, right?), we'll just go ahead and stuff some pills down the man's throat that will just divert more blood into that flaccid bastard.

In most cases, "low libido" is a fucking joke. Either she married a beta and she stops fucking, or she got fat and he stops fucking. Period, it's no more complicated than that. It's a cop-out. Stick a naked Channing Tatum or George Clooney in a hotel room with the vast majority of these "low libido" women, and their moist legs will part faster than Moses parted the Red Sea.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

The full article is well worth reading, but this gem is particularly worth highlighting:

“Do I really want to put a libido draining fat license on her finger?”

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm a good wife in other ways. I cook for him, we split household and child duties.

I would be totally fine with that, as long as she keeps her job or switches to taking care of the chores all on her own. Just let me get some side-pussy and I'll be happy to stay with you until the end of my life. Since she stated

life is more than sex. I can't believe some people can obsess about it so much.

she should be totally OK with it. It's just sex you know. There is more to life.

Only admiration and an ambient imagination of losing the focus of it inspires genuine desire.

This is maybe the most important sentence for every married man out there. Always make sure that there is a breeze of dread in the air, not a constant horror, but just an idea of the man's capability to walk away, never look back and even do better with the next woman.

Only feeling that she is the one in the relationship, who should be thankful for being with that particular partner, will keep that flame of desire for her man burning. Nothing else will, and once the idea of dread is gone with the wind, that candle will also be blown out.

[–]Riddick_1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

She drops this. Quote: "We have sex about once a month and honestly I hate it" - Let me explain something. "Duty sex" is a thing of the past. Today the modern man married beta herbivore is given no sex. For years. Now you deal with that situation while you also have children with this "thing". Besides, duty sex is like humping a bag of potatoes. No thx.

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