I don't have interest in the majority of girls. Is it a problem?

Whisper · 2019-01-23T07:57:21+00:00

I think you want a relationship.

Men who just want to hit it and quit it tend to give less fucks about personality.

juggernaut8 · 2019-01-23T07:22:41+00:00

maybe my subconscious doing this to prevent my feelings of being hurt

If it's not this, then you do you. There's no reason to waste attention on girls you're not really into.

therandombiker1 · 2019-01-23T07:59:44+00:00

you just grew up. you know now that pussy is waaay overrated. and you're not willing to pay the price. you're looking for personality AND looks. only look is not enough anymore.

I suppose you're in your 30's, or maybe late 20's but more mature than your peers, right?

Camp_KillYourself · 2019-01-23T09:46:21+00:00

Do you have libido issues / low T?

You should still be interested in women but you have to understand you're talking with a woman and not Jordan B. Peterson or Carl Jung -- don't expect to get some crazy insightful conversation that's incredibly deep, sorry but you have to understand women are a lot more agreeable than men, something like the redpill is so far-fetched from anything they could conjure up. They are likely to go with the flow and accept the situation and whatever CNN tells them.

Look to your friends for those deep conversations.

the_dude1995 · 2019-01-23T10:39:59+00:00

I can relate to that. Since I've been working out 6 days a week, I have become so uninterested not only in girls but also in my social environment. I think have even grown more introverted.

goblinboglin · 2019-01-23T10:55:10+00:00

Mate remember that being redpilled doesn't mean having to fuck ton of new girls.

You can instead focus on your other aspects of life, transmuting sexual energy into new money making opportunities for example.

Shittybillyall · 2019-01-23T10:16:42+00:00

I have the same issue since my last LTR ended. I don't even check out most girls at my gym. It's not that I'm not interested in women, I have plates I fuck and I'm always looking for newer and better. I just honestly see most women as average as fuck and can't be bothered giving them the satisfaction of seeing me check them out.

TruthSeekaaaaa · 2019-01-23T11:49:01+00:00

I envy you

blancstare · 2019-01-23T13:23:24+00:00

You can't fuck a personality

DadOnDabs · 2019-01-23T15:43:22+00:00

You went from a beggar to a chooser. Welcome to abundance.

[deleted] · 2019-01-23T12:13:18+00:00

Focus on your profession and your own destiny.

Bang women in the future if you like, or dont.

Very natural feelings. As a man you just get over the childish chase and have other interests.

RedSkeller · 2019-01-23T14:34:01+00:00

I'd consider this normal. Quality over quantity kind of guy. I've always felt that way and it's never served me wrong. Stack plates and stack money until you find another good one. They come around but less frequently than the sex does.

fender1878 · 2019-01-23T14:57:10+00:00

The best poker players really only play a small number of hands.

I’m like you — if I’m dealt crappy cards, I just fold and wait for the next hand. So many people get dealt awful cards and stay in the game hoping to turn it into a winning hand — even when the odds are against them.

[deleted] · 2019-01-23T15:58:36+00:00

Nope not a problem. It's a fact. Women don't have to put much effort into a relationship. They have dicks slapping in the face as soon as they step out their front door.

If you want an exceptional LTR then it's a numbers game. There are those women that will put in the work but you have to search for them. Shit test them. Ask then to do things for you. Force them to put in the effort. See how they react. You can straight up ask them, other than looking fine what else do you bring to the table?

Olram_Sacul · 2019-01-23T11:26:55+00:00

I think it sounds like a blessing to me

geo_gan · 2019-01-23T11:45:12+00:00

It’s just you are waking up from the control of your primitive hormones, and realising only now the shit they are shovelling.

aanarchist · 2019-01-23T16:43:05+00:00

Same for me I'm interested in the idea of women, but after talking for a bit with most women I pass on that shit real fast. She'd have to essentially pay me for my time.

TheHumbleAfrican · 2019-01-23T16:56:59+00:00

You are beginning to realize your value and are comparing it to the value of women you meet. Once you know yourself, and work on yourself and improve yourself, you will experience this. This is not a problem, because it will save you from wasting valuable time (a finite resource), with people who you do not derive value from. It will save you from countless meaningless texts, calls, coffee dates, happy hours; you could be doing something more productive with that time saved, and only spending it with people who you find value in.

SuspiciousBed · 2019-01-23T17:21:36+00:00

I think you should find girls that are more stimulating for you, whether that’s through their looks or just having more personality than your average club slut, perhaps both.

As you level up your SMV as a man you’ll need a higher tier of female to satisfy you

McVaghunter · 2019-01-23T11:15:06+00:00

It's just the break up; soon you'll realize that there are no special girls worth having special conversations with and that the only thing a female can bring to the table that is actually worth a damn is her tight teenage body. Anything from the neck up is irrelevant.

mgtownigga · 2019-01-23T10:42:53+00:00

I don't have an interest in the majority of girls when it comes to personality, but I def have an interest in whats between their legs if ya know what i mean

someonesopinion6969 · 2019-01-23T13:30:29+00:00

oh well, more pussy holes for us

SalporinRP · 2019-01-23T18:27:32+00:00

I understand not being interested in stupid girls but still if you're 21 like you said in another comment you should basically be horny all the time.

Are you jerking off every day or some shit? Because that can kill your libido fast.

Try taking a break and see if these girls don't become more attractive lol

AshyLarry27 · 2019-01-23T14:28:03+00:00

First of all this isn't normal, and my first two suspects for this are

- Low T levels (get that checked with a doc, are you lifting?).

- The other being too much PORN, especially hardcore stuff. I don't care what your opinions on "NoFap" are, I am no devout cult follower of it. That said, what I HAVE noticed is a fairly congruent correlation at this time with men who are struggling to get it up and find interest in women, and the advancements in technology going from porn magazines, to porn online, to how expedient it is to find any kind of porn, and now heading in the direction toward virtual reality and robots (...ugh)

wrightedgeworthy · 2019-01-23T07:08:27+00:00

congratsss. You are turning into a faggot. Now you'll idolize CHAD and want to suck his penis

FereallyRed · 2019-01-23T06:09:00+00:00

Poor boy only wants top shelf pussy... What makes you think you deserve it?

What are you bringing to the table?

Freedom__Fighter · 2019-01-23T13:32:11+00:00

You probably gay bro, it cool

Title	I don't have interest in the majority of girls. Is it a problem?
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Date	January 23, 2019 5:43 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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