Going to keep it short and simple.

Plate 1 = friend of 3+ years Plate 2 = Ex-LTR

Background: We've had threesomes while Plate 2 and I were in an LTR, gone on trips together and have hungout together even after it's ended. Plate 2 doesn't know if I'm fucking plate 1, vice versa. Been fucking Plate 1 after I ended the LTR.

Situation: Went out bowling and drinking, Plate 1 starts talking about her ex, I probe that they still talk on and off and do fuck before going ghost again and repeating the same cycle - holding frame all the while.

I hit up Plate 2 right after I hear this and she arrives. Night goes on, we all hook up in my car until Plate 2 has to go. Spend the night at Plate 1s house, leave for a doctors appointment in the morning then hits me with the "been thinking about last night, how exclusive are we?" text. I answer with "clearly just to the best of our own knowledge". Still been in contact with her and been dread gaming her.

Blew a load in Plates 2 ass last night too. How do I know I'm still in the clear to keep plating both of them if one hasn't explicitly asked to hangout again yet?