In general, women who just like to drink and have a good time are a bit superficial in their desires... why wouldn't they be? That's sort of the whole point of drinking. They just want to cut loose and enjoy themselves. So when they go out, girls are looking for something that makes them happy in a really immediate way that they don't really have to think about, like a good looking guy, or someone who's well connected and does all kinds of cool shit.
Guys who go out drinking a lot of the time aren't just trying to enjoy themselves, they have some ulterior motive, usually meeting women. The two groups have totally different mindsets and the aloofness these guys see in the drunk women pisses them off, and makes them think all women want the exact same things in a guy.
I think the 80-20 rule is right, but I don't think all women have the same top 20%. I think a lot of men here would be better served not trying to fit into a niche that they don't even respect or care about. Not all women are out at bars every weekend. I'm not saying men shouldn't improve themselves, I'm just saying it's kind of pointless to try and appeal exclusively to drunk women. I think if a lot of us were honest with ourselves, we could really give a shit what a bunch of drunks think of us.
Thoughts?
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