How are women able to go from "loving" you to acting like you never existed so fast?

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Title How are women able to go from "loving" you to acting like you never existed so fast?
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Date 14 November 2016 10:33 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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[–]redpilljunior 66 points66 points [recovered] | Copy

Girls evolved to be able to get over their partner quick and replace them with a new oone because thousands of years ago, if a primitive chicks mate died, she had no protection or security. If she wasted time mourning, shed be unprotected. So instead, women just get new mates very quickly.

She loses attraction? New mate quickly.

You die and she has no one to take care of her? New mate quickly.

Etc etc.

[–]a_regular5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

This doesnt make much sense considering how many single girls there are that would be "unprotected." I think you answered your own question. You slowly became the woman in the relationship essentially and she slowly lost attraction. It wasnt quick, she probably just didnt have the balls to breakup right away; or maybe she thought you'd change. This is backed up by the fact that she doesnt have the balls to even face you to talk it over.

[–]ponkyol18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

considering how many single girls there are that would be "unprotected."

There's no such thing as an "unprotected" girl when you have things like welfare and child support.

[–]1grubek4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

How much modern society protects women is one of the reasons shit got how it got. I promise you the ugly guy she continually rejects would look hundred times more attractive if she lived in a small village in the wilderness with no technology.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (9 children) | Copy

Under this logic no women are ever single. This is patently untrue.

[–]TheRedStoic9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

Women in modern society are rarely ever single in a classical sense.

  • support groups
  • Shelters
  • grants
  • big Daddy government
  • betas and orbiters abound
  • social media approval with go fund me

Primal, classical "single" is largely reserved for the bottom men.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Because the welfare state exists solely for use by women.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

women in modern society can survive as being single. Look at the early 1900's in France and most single women not living at home were prostitutes and beggars. It's well documented. It's much the same or worse the further back you go. This is in one of the more socially progressive societies in the EU.

Even if you go back to the 400's as people first started to acquire enough wealth to escape serfdom of a feudal society you still saw much the same concepts of the pre-civilized world.

There will always be exceptions to the rule in the nobility like Queen Elizabeth the first. However for the most part young women married early or died as spinster beggars and prostitutes.

The change from women to being able to hunt for themselves is a relatively new phenomenon. So naturally you will see some women who are objectively single in modern times this isn't a historical reality.

Judging the past based on the current situation is patently false logic.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

However for the most part young women married early or died as spinster beggars and prostitutes.

This is because women were not legally people allowed to work or own property in the traditional sense. Unless you had a "person" whose household you were attached to (father or husband, because a women is not a person), then the only options for you are begging or prostitution (or eventually shitty manual labour jobs post industrial revolution).

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Incorrect.

1718 in the US women had the right to own property. (Pennsylvania being the first)

1722 Russia gender segregation is illegal.

1771 France gain property & inheritance rights.

1776 France allowed women into apprenticeships

By the 1900's these barriers to speak off are multiple generations gone.

You have been swallowing the womens studies koolaid my friend.

In fact most of the laws erected to prevent women from these things were entertain until the 1600's and were repeal within 200 - 300 years. This was largely due to religious pressures.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Listing stand-alone laws don't give you any cultural context for what normal behaviour is in a society.

Biotruths over systemic cultural biases. Sure.

[–]TehJimmyy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

it is true . you just dont see it yet

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Single ones tend to be unhappy and desperate as hell and/or getting railed by one or more dudes.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

and/or getting railed by multiple dudes

Isn't that spinning plates?

[–]woefulwank0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Is there science/literature on this evolutionary process?

[–]nice_and_friendly27 points28 points  (24 children) | Copy

all they have ever had to do to have interested guys lining up is turn their phone on. abundance mentality comes effortlessly to them

[–]NeedRPadvice18 points19 points  (19 children) | Copy

Thats such a RP truth that makes me so mad. The only thing they have to do is turn there phone on and show up. I have to put SO much work in.

[–][deleted] 19 points20 points  (14 children) | Copy

You should be happy it's hard. What's the point if shit just falls into your lap? It'll get old after the initial thrill wears off.

You know why girls chase after the guys that don't give them any attention? Because it's a challenge, and therefore not boring for once.

[–]Silver-Monk_Shu5 points6 points  (13 children) | Copy

There's more to life though. Some of us have jobs & hobbies so our time is more valuable and it won't come off as "boring" if we could get sex when we want it without any problems.

[–]LaRedPill2 points3 points  (12 children) | Copy

The truth is, if your life and hobbies were really valuable then you would have trouble keeping girls off your pants.

[–]Silver-Monk_Shu0 points1 point  (11 children) | Copy

Not if those hobbies and life involve not being around girls.
Not everyone's some sports maniac, others are working at home making something happen.

If you work a full time job while running your own business and you dare have a hobby that's indoors then you have little to no chance.

[–]LaRedPill0 points1 point  (10 children) | Copy

You can spin it the way you want, if the hobbies and the job does not increase your smv, they are simply not valuable. You might like them, and please don't let anyone stop you from enjoying them, but don't lie to yourself that they are valuable.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

They increase your SMV if they make you happier and more pleasant to be around. Nothing kills SMV more than being depressed.

I suggest you start looking at life in more than one dimension. SMV and women aren't everything.

[–]LaRedPill0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Taking drugs also makes you happier and more pleasant to be around.

This is Red Pill, we are here to learn to get laid.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Not in the long run it doesn't.

And the Red Pill is all about bettering yourself first, that's one of the basic concepts man.

If someone likes woodworking in their garage they shouldn't do it because women aren't there? That's absolutely preposterous.

[–]Silver-Monk_Shu0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Why are you suddenly defining what's valuable?
You know, people use theredpill for different reasons and I used it to increase my options, I never was insecure about my own hobbies & interests.

It's..deluded to think that the only thing that matters is how other people view you, my life isn't based around what people think of me, and it's not like I sit around and do nothing.

Telling me that starting my own company isn't valuable, and being completely honest with myself isn't valuable? Absolutely ridiculous, you think you woke up from hanging out around here, but your beliefs are equally ridiculously as the betas you make fun of. It's funny how the people on here make fun of beta's for doing everything they can for women, and now you guys are doing everything you can for sex when you don't have to.

Your entire life, your hobbies & careers sole purpose is to get you laid? Well sorry if I don't value sex THAT much.

[–]LaRedPill0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Value is inherently tied to society, if you have a great "thing" you want to "trade" but no one wants it, what is its value? ZERO.

You can get angry all you want, project all your insecurity on the messenger all you want, that does not bend reality, your valueless existance won't suddenly become valuable because of your sheer will.

you guys are doing everything you can for sex when you don't have to.

This is exactly my point, your hobbies would attract women without you having to make much of an effort... if they were valuable, you are lacking in either focus or skills.

[–]Silver-Monk_Shu0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Who is this no one? The sex?
There's money involved, there's interest. It just doesn't lead to sex and that's okay. The money itself can lead to sex and even then I would be doing it if it didn't. There's many people who are interested.

I'm not angry though? Why are you saying my existence is valueless? You are mistaking something greatly, and that's I understood TRP and already found success, and then I continued on with my life while you haven't.

You are throwing in these assumptions that I'm angry, and I want to revolve my life around sex, which is not true. All I cared about was having the option of having sex with many women, but that's not even hard anymore?

You are trying to find a problem where there is no problem, and you think what it takes to make you happy, is the same for me which is not true.

edit: Just because something doesn't attract women/sex does not mean it has no value, that is an incredibly narrow stupid mindset you're trying to force on me.

[–]wont_tell_i_refuse7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Stop comparing your emotional experience to that of a woman. Stop viewing the world as "fair" or "unfair".

After a few more years of TRP you will lose the ability to empathize with women entirely, and that's a good thing.

[–]asktrpthrow1232 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

It bugs the crap out of me too... put in a shit ton of work to increase my value just to get with some subpar women. Whereas most ugly women can go out a night and be guaranteed to pretty much fuck a random guy.

They get to sleep around, enjoy the slut lifestyle and then some beta will say "the past is the past" and settle for that shit. It's pretty much the reason I'll probably not get married unless I've had my share of abundance. And even then I'll be picky.

It stinks because I would have loved to spread my genes and have kids to take care of, but I just don't see the unicorn I'm looking for around.

[–]ThemApples0070 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Holding grudges won't do anything for you. Just live your life by your rules and enjoy yourself. Being concerned with others, especially women, is a waste of time. They're never happy anyway.

[–]zyk0s0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

And when you're done doing the work, you get decades of attractiveness. Women start depreciating at 25 and there's nothing they can do about it.

Life ain't fair, but there is a balance. Tough out your cons and enjoy your pros.

[–]InChargeMan2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Until it stops working for them. AKA the wall

[–]nice_and_friendly3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

not really.. if you think post-wall women cant get dick from pretty much whoever, you're mistaken. in the last few years i have plated everywhere from 18-45 and one of the things i have learned is that at some point they realize and are actually pretty open about the fact that they hit "the wall". usually its around 30. they say it in womanese, but i hear it loud and clear. they know they arent getting any younger, and they know you arent about to make them your wife, so they are down to just be your little whore. they all know the score.. its actually a refreshing change of pace. and lord knows as long as they take care of their body like a normal person i dont give a fuck.. its not like women instantly turn disgusting on their 30th birthday. plenty of short skinny 7-8's in their 30s are fully aware that they are on the decline, and it just makes them bigger whores

[–]InChargeMan1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah, we're on the same page. The distinction is that the young hottie gets guys to do all kinds of shit for them, but them stuff, etc. The older woman (as you indicated) is now playing a different game, she knows she is no longer the prize. She can't expect the same level of attention and benefits that she once enjoyed.

In reality, most reasonably attractive guys can get laid at will, just not with an attractive woman. Unattractive older women can get laid at will, but not by Chad, he is busy taking a 22 year old to pound town.

[–]nice_and_friendly0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

sure, very true. i suppose a part of the point i was trying to make is that hitting "the wall" doesnt necessarily mean unattractive. i know women in their 40s with kids that acknowledge hitting the wall, and still look 25. in general their value to me is far more contingent upon how well they take care of their body than their age.. honestly im only 26 and these days i think the older the better. i guess life experience has led me to take the "wall" thing as educational rhetoric at this point

[–]Fictitiousfallacy24 points25 points  (13 children) | Copy

It's always heartbreaking for a human being who says they love you and would do anything for you to one day give you the cold shoulder. I had a similar experience, brother.

What we as men need to understand is, she never loved you. At least not in the same way you loved her. Women DO NOT LOVE MEN. Women love THINGS about men. For example his wallet, his car, his superior DNA that can be passed down to her offspring, you name it. Women love how you make them feel.

Men actually love women, for the most part. Think back to a time in your relationship when you were the most in love with her, you didn't just love the sex you got from her, you probably loved her as a person, you loved her even though she was imperfect and had so many glaring issues. This is the difference between men and women; they cannot love in the same way we do.

This is why most modern relationships fail without some kind of knowledge of female nature or TRP. When you don't receive the same love you give out, it hurts. But when you learn to accept that at best, if they love you, their love is conditional, then you'll be able to move on with your life and have better future relationships.

[–]wont_tell_i_refuse8 points9 points  (9 children) | Copy

I had a similar experience, brother.

Hear, hear. I did too. I think a lot of us did.

This place is so great in part because it lets you mourn that part of you, while also planning productively for the future.

[–]bp_reject8 points9 points  (7 children) | Copy

I have as well. One day they tell you, you are their world, the next, you are nothing. Loyalty to a woman, is what fairy dust is to man, a foreign concept, something that can't be comprehended.

I am not even into my rage phase yet. I am still sad phase of the trp. I am constantly tearing up thinking savage nature of hypergamy. There is no winning against hypergamy. There is no winning. I thought about writting a letter to the son I will never have, and explain to him why I wouldn't bring him to this world. Why would I bring a son or daughter into this blue pill world?

Worst for me has been seeing men break friendships over pussy. I need more redpilled or MGTOW friends IRL. The ones I had, were hungry guys waiting to extend a hand to branch swinger.

[–]zezozio5 points6 points  (5 children) | Copy

We broke up. Well, she broke up. 4 weeks later on the phone, she tells me "I'm yours". A week after that she was having wild sex with a guy who replaced me one-for-one.

A first I thought she was some kind of special (fucked-up) cookie. After a while reading TRP, MGTOW and the usual suspects on the blogosphere it (finally) dawned on me that she wasn't special but typical.

I wish she was special and there would be actual love, but no, it was just the role I held and the feeling I generated. So be it.

[–]Echo609 7 points7 points [recovered] | Copy

If it makes you feel any better she'll do it to him too

[–]zezozio3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Oh, I am at peace now. She was my last oneitis. Now I know.

She finally got what she wanted : some kind of Chad-Alpha-Master. She tried to subdue him and do her jedi-tricks on him. One evening the new guy snapped: he slapped her hard for a solid half-hour, strangled her nearly to death and... now he's in prison and she and her kids have big flashes of PTSD. I simultaneously pity the Chad and am grateful she out of my life.

[–]bp_reject1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Remember if you ever even try to come back to her life or accept her, everything that happened will be your fault. It can never be Chad's fault. Chad is infallible. It would be your fault for leaving her to Chad. (Although she left you.) Hypergamy always wins. Don't fight nature.

[–]zezozio0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

So true ! Well, obviously, first of all, she left me because of me. Not because she's a bore and a mindless bitch. She can't be at fault.

And I learned (through acquaintance) that it was my fault that Chad mashed her: he found 2 pictures of me on her cell (see!!!), and that was the starting point of the crisis... (let's not talk about how she cheated him before, that would be disrespectful of her great pain)

Regarding getting back there, to the plantation... ooooh no! nononononoNO! I'm FREE brother, FREE ! Been there, done that bought the T-Shirt, wrote a book. You know the sayin' :

Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me!

I'd rather lose my left testicle (that I am VERY found of) than going back there with the mind-games, the nagging, the pre-menopause, the 2 little fucktards and now the PTSD... Phhhewwww

[–]bp_reject1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You dealt with 2 children for her? Ugh.

I am as BP as it gets, but I have been blessed to avoid that nonesense. I had friends go down that road and its horrible. Due to being BP or luck, I haven't gotten a girl pregnant yet. I intend to keep it that way.

[–]bigk123454 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm still in the angry phase. It has been 7 months.

Knowing the truth about hypergamy does not make it easier.

It is unrelenting.

With the blowing up with social media, it only feeds into the womens' fragile egos to be entertained at the snap of the fingers and to get instant validation.

I see less and less women that are good mothers.

I need to figure out how to lose the self imposed necessity to have an emotional connection with a chick to have sex

I have fucked girls where I don't know there names . This was after my encounter with a BPD.

[–]RPthrowaway1230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Me too. Fucking sucks, they move on so quickly. I still can't wrap my head around it. I'm just not wired to think that way about people.

[–]TrumpSpeech5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Men love women. Women love children. Children love puppies.

[–]Fictitiousfallacy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly. I was planning on explaining this concept haha. Thanks for the assistance.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you leave a woman, then she will only complain to her girlfriends about how she wants someone to love her. They never say something along the lines of wanting to meet a man and appreciate him and do good things for one another. We're accessories like a coach purse.

[–]2comment23 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy

The real question to ask is "How can us guys fall so damn hard and deep for women that in reality do so little for us in return?"

Evolution wired the two sexes different. Women being nonchalant branch swingers aided their genes in spreading by picking the winning party in a crunch - they evolved into the gender of war brides, etc. Men being protective of their family aided their genes by being ensuring the kids stay alive, and their loyalty worked well in other instances like tribal cohesion ensuring the stronger (more united) sides won the little wars and other such hardships.

Yes, sex feels good but I connected with this girl on an emotional level.

Trust me, this connection doesn't exist except in your mind, it's your brain tricking you to go that extra mile. Much about TRP is killing that inner beta that wants to follow this predictable script.

Edit: tldr; Go lift.

[–]1InformalCriticism9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

It's actually gradual, and you have to notice behavioral changes; don't listen to what she says, look at what she does. She will hide it from you until she is ready, because fuck you, solipsism.

You feel this way because she chose the exit strategy that ruins you and allows her to feel fine the whole time.

Just never let it happen again.

[–]Docbear647 points8 points  (4 children) | Copy

https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/03/war-brides/

Rollo does a great job of explaining it here. I don't know if I always agree with the evolutionary psychology theories but This one seems solid. It basically says what redpilljunior expressed.

[–]batfish552 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you. This is the post I was alluding to above. Glad to see another big fan of Rollo!

[–]graffix131 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Rollo posted a comment in the article and this line is just pure gold:

Gentlemen, it doesn’t get easier, you have to get BETTER. Depending on her conditions, depending upon your own, hypergamy is the stalking butler in the shadows just waiting for you to slip.

[–]Docbear642 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

It's too true , sad but true , you can't really rest because they NEED to constantly know that you are the best she can do . Thinking about that I don't know how other men handle LTR's after being unplugged , Shit was stressful when I was a blue pill and that's when women were princesses to me , not lions stalking me waiting to pounce.

[–]graffix131 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly. Ignorance is bliss, but now that I the truth...there is NO WAY I will EVER be involved in another LTR. No woman is worth that.

I take care of myself, first and last.

[–]batfish556 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

Has no one done the sidebar reading?

Stop posting shit, go read the rational male. All of it.

In this case, Rollo draws upon evolutionary psychology. When Tribe A defeated Tribe B, A killed the men and the children (Why the fuck should we keep them? They're not my kids). They would keep the captured women of B as breeding stock. Eventually, women developed the ability to quickly form a bond with their captors.

The same thing, in modern day, as her running off with the quarterback, a clearly alpha male compared to you.

It seems like some cold ass shit, but makes sense in that context.

[–]Refigerator10430 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This makes total sense to me. After generations of this it makes sense that the women who were best able to branch-swing without remorse fared better and passed those genes along.

I also think that since women generally have a much easier time finding mates than men, they are naturally faster to get over any particular man since he is more easily replaceable.

[–]mickey__0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

rollo's blog or book?

[–]SexistFlyingPig5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

"Love" is an ambiguous term. It means one thing to you, and quite another to her.

Prepend everything a woman says with "Right now, I feel that..." You'll be much happier, and experience fewer nasty surprises.

[–]2cingle1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Prepend

Word.

[–]n_e_c_012 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Sorry to hear about your pain. Try to work on yourself as you heal.

Their ability to switch is so well know, it has even made it to this car insurance commercial.

[–]zezozio1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

car insurance commercial

Typical! 2 boyfriends, 3 jobs... business as usual, nothing here, move on people! Your typical hoe.

[–]eastworldsoldier2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dude, the same exact thing happened to me. Only advice I can give is do not contact her, if she has to she will and most likely she won't.

It's been over a year and i'm still not completely over that girl despite having seen a lot after...

Take it positively, the one girl in this world that could beta-fy you is out of your way. The kryptonite has evicted itself from your life. Rejoice and celebrate.

These kinda girls are like heroin man, a highly addictive drug that only makes you feel good when you're on it but makes you crave it when you're not, so much so that you can't think straight.

These sorta women are heroin my friend, it's not gonna be easy but I suggest you quit that drug bro. Withdrawal is going to be hell but you if you can survive it, nothing in the future will be able to shake your frame.

[–]TRP VanguardArchwinger2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do a search for the light switch effect.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

You dated a thot that's why and you acted like a complete beta bitch.

[–]ViceTerm0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Blunt, to the point. I like you.

[–]7Fig0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Look at least you see what you did wrong, now go fix it. Making yourself a bad ass is a fun process and the rewards will be amazing. Get fit, get smart, and the World will be yours. Put that chick in your rear view mirror and become the "King of Couchy".

[–]Werewolf35b0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Statistically though the opposite is true when you get older.

Men get new wives and girlfriends faster then women do after thier spouse dies. Average is 6 months. I can't imagine replacing my wife after her being dead only six months but there is the mentality that an older man "needs" someone to "take care" of him. I.e. prepare his meals and do his laundry.

[–]Refigerator10431 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That may be because male SMV peaks later than female.

[–]zezozio0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Older guys. Not these generations. For one, I cook and my cleaning lady does the laundry.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She used to tell me she loved me more than anything in the world and how we'd always be together, and then she just disappears without so much as a "I wanna breakup."

Just know that it happens. You don't need to know why, just that this is normal. AWALT.

[–]W_O_M_B_A_T0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I connected with this girl on an emotional level.

YOU felt connected, she didn't. You got played.

[–]StbRPG0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Abundance mentality by nature. They got this concept from a very early stage in their life, that's why.

This is also why you cannot go beta on a woman. There are too many of them as men, too little alpha males.

Logistics for social apps.

[–]ex_addict_bro0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Read "War brides" by Rollo

[–]Modbsutansalt0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

There was a thread on this a few years ago in the main sub. I'll look for it, it was a good theory. The crux of the issue is that men and women do not love the same way. The biggest revelation I've had is that women DECIDE when they love you and when they don't. When they're done with the relationship for whatever reason they decide they don't love you and that's that.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Rollo posts on how women/men love

redpillschools post on the light switch

[–]Modbsutansalt0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

[–]reddmoney0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Believe me when I tell you that almost every man here has experienced that. In my case with a 11 year marriage that I was blindsided when it ended suddenly.

This is AWALT at its core. Don't expect it to ever be different.

[–]JackGetsIt0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Stop what you're doing and google: redpill light-switch effect. Best thing I've read on this and made me see women in a completely different way.

[–]Willow-girl0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You have to understand that women are socially conditioned to not bitch or nag. One of the worst things you can call a woman is a "nag" -- in fact, I'd venture to guess that most women would rather be called a slut than a nag!

So good women tend to refrain from expressing their disappointment. We keep our mouths shut while silently hoping you'll realize the error of your ways and shape up. (But sometimes, if you watch closely, you can see the light slowly dying in a woman's eyes.) Meanwhile her man is going along fat, dumb and happy, oblivious to problems, until one day his wife/girlfriend "just snaps." Actually the relationship probably had been heading south for awhile; he just didn't recognize it. Then he bitches that women are "so fickle"! No, not really.

How to avoid this? Dudes, keep your shit together. Don't get sloppy and lazy and expect your woman to do all the heavy lifting in the relationship, even if she's not actively complaining about it.

[–]jonknownothing0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

like how guy can next a girl so fast whenever she cheat? double standard anyone?

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

when you dump her, the soap opera starts & it's a while before she is over you.

but when she has had enough, understand her process of replacing you started long long ago.

iow, branch swinging looks easy only bc she started the swinging process while she was still emotionally connected to you. as soon as those emotions die, it gets cold... fast.

[–]TRPtruth0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You are over thinking this. You became a beta, she met someone out of the blue that plowed her, and instead of taking responsibiltiy for her actions she just hard nexted you.

Instead of asking how could she, ask, what will YOU do now? Stop thinking about her and her stupid dumbass childish thought processes and trying to explain them. Waste of time.

[–]_Remor_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You got NEXED by a girl. You guys claim to do it all the time

[–]ecosci0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She always has a plan b so expect her to turn on ya 2-5 years in a ltr they have alpha fux beta bux in rotation.



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