It's not often I get up on my high horse and start preaching but really this post has been weighing on my mind all day.

What is the extent that you can be a bastard to women and get away with it? Just how far can you push them and still have them asking how high when you say jump.

When I was young the mere idea of being a dick to women just seemed wrong to me. I grew up in a household where we were taught that you respect women. I was told that the right girl would like you for who you were as long as you treated her well.

I'm sure as you can imagine this got me no attention, and eventually I delved into pua and blah blah blah (this post isn't about me, I'm just setting a back tone)

So back to the question, just what happens when you stop playing by the rules?

In that vein I have a fight club style assignment for you newbies and some veterans alike.

For the next month, be totally selfish , crass and blunt around women.

When they say something stupid, call them out. If they say you're being a dick, smirk or laugh but act totally unphased, STOP CARING WHAT THEY THINK (I promise you, if only your opinion matters to you, they'll fall into that frame too). Be horribly blunt with them. Escalate ruthlessly, and when they ask what you're up to, tell them you're trying to get into their pants, and then smirk or grin.

Play around with them, use them for your amusement. I mean this literally. Tell them to jump up and down, and when they ask "Why?" just go because I say so.

Do this for a month and see just how much you can get away with. (It is always better to seek forgiveness than permission)

You'll be so surprised with what happens and how they react to you when you don't react to them.

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(Remember though, you're going to have to hold your frame well, if in doubt, hold eyecontact and smirk!)