I'll try to keep it short and sweet.

  • I'm taking a class with HB9. There's clearly mutual interest.
  • We ended up alone at class one time, she offered to walk me to the tram (streetcar). We talked for 5 minutes and then I told her we should continue talking on fb and went on my way, she said she'd love to.
  • After 2 C&F texts I asked her out on Friday afternoon. She seemed very interested. Friday morning she texted me she can't make it (a good reason), we rescheduled for Saturday evening and she apologized multiple times.
  • On Saturday, I met her as planned. We set down at a coffee shop and talked about all sorts of stuff. No escalation from my part (didn't seem appropriate). Threw some negs and dis qualifiers here and there.
  • We talked about game of thrones and she said she hasn't seen it. I told her let's grab some popcorn, she HAS to see it. I said "I live 2 minutes away". She said she has church piano practice or whatever and offered to walk me home anyway.
  • On the way home, I gave her my hand so she'd put hers in (they all do...well, except her). She said Nononono.......I put my hand on my chest and said Oww that hurt so badly in a C&F way, smiled and withdrew my attention. The first date of my life without any kino. wtf
  • I stopped about 100ft from my building and we talked for 2 more minutes. She says she has to go, but next time she wants to come over and watch GoT.
  • I said yeah cool, gave her a hug and walked away. My head was somewhere else so it took me 5 seconds to realize what she said.
  • As she was walking away, I turned around and said "What are you doing tomorrow?" -- "nothing really" -- "Let's make it tomorrow evening then" -- "ok! tell me when".

SWEET. She invited herself over

  • I tried to have zero expectations, and I decided to go out clubbing just in case she flakes.
  • At 9pm I texted her "Hey nerd, you can see me after x". At 11pm she uploads a pic from a bar next to my house with a bunch of her friends. No response to my text. Flakey flakey...
  • At 1am I went out to the club. The moment I leave my house, she walks out of a bar right next to my house with those friends. I didn't think she saw me. I texted her "I saw someone who looked just like you at XYZ, it was from far away so I'm not sure. Anyway, let's make tomorrow X+1 (hour)" and went to the club.
  • I wasn't in the mood, and there were hardly any girls. I left around 3am, pissed and disappointed.
  • Took out my phone, she replied. "Yeah I went out with my friends right after church practice, I was even wearing the same clothes lol!" and "Btw I don't think it's a good idea for me to go to your place. I feel uncomfortable going alone to someone's place. I'm sorry :("
  • Texted her back with "aww damn. I bought all these new knives and body bags :/ No biggie. It's your turn to take me out anyway"

I'm not expecting a response from her. Reading through what I've written it feels like I was being needy. I guess I was. But she invited herself over, I don't get it.

Buyer's remorse? Too pushy? Her friends talked her our of it?

Fuck. I haven't "dated" a new girl in years, it feels like one of those games without a save option.