Single mother shoves her daughter's smelly butt in my face "Kiss it"

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Title Single mother shoves her daughter's smelly butt in my face "Kiss it"
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Date 24 September 2015 06:12 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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[–][deleted] 110 points111 points  (4 children) | Copy

THIS WAS A SHIT-TEST.

[–]nastynickdr21 points22 points  (2 children) | Copy

LOLOL the shittiest of shit tests. Good to know you found your self-respect again. Dump her ass if you havent already.

[–]M3_Drifter9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

*divorce

Unfortunately. I hope there is a prenup. At least he hasn't knocked her up.

[–]trpfieldreport7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

100% there is no pre-nup.

100% this was the first relationship she had after her baby-daddy.

100% OP is beta schlub and she has higher SMV (physically).

This absolutely reeks of the standard beta-schlub caught by a single mother looking for resources to raise alpha-spawn on.

OP has already lost this game. She won the cash and prizes, now all he can do is divorce and rebuild.

[–]FreelanceTradeCraft1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Came here expecting this and was not disappointed.

[–]abdada35 points36 points  (1 child) | Copy

This wife is honestly a next.

You have nothing to save. Nothing.

[–]trpfieldreport2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I am embarrassed for OP. Glad he sees the light.

It's crazy how we innately know that something is just .. off.. about being in these kinds of relationships.

Especially because society will laud OP as a hero for being a step-father. But fuck, no wonder he's so eager for the pill.

[–][deleted] 49 points50 points  (0 children) | Copy

You should have left her ass the second she ghosted you in fucking vegas, for a god damn week, with her god damn kid in your posession. I would have taken that rugrat to her dads house and changed my fucking locks. Don't turn a whore into a housewife.

[–]sparta212338 points39 points  (11 children) | Copy

Never marry single mom's. In my experience I wouldn't even plate them. You might as well have swallowed the ex's sperm because your taking care of it like it's your own. Any woman who places her young daughters ass in your face is not marriage material. After your divorce , begin dating women and screen them hard.

View yourself as a company trying to find the best candidate for the job. Do Apple, Google, or Berkshire let any scrub even apply? Do they offer one interview and then hire? Most of the time no. Be the same my friend.

[–]Kyrile0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Single mothers with daughters are actually a premade harem.

[–]Kyrile-3 points-2 points  (9 children) | Copy

Any woman who places her young daughters ass in your face is not marriage material.

What about the daughter?

[–]RealRational3 points4 points  (8 children) | Copy

What about her?

[–]Kyrile5 points6 points  (7 children) | Copy

Plate the daughter.

[–]arnieschwarz-4 points-3 points  (6 children) | Copy

Are you seriously suggesting he should bang a five year old? Sick!

[–]Kyrile7 points8 points  (5 children) | Copy

Well at least youll have a fairly good idea of her n count. Should be near zero as youre gonna get. Like shes taken no more than ten dicks at most.

Not seriously no. Its called a joke.

I love reading a comment chain on Reddit where someone has taken the original comment to extreme and absurd lengths. Like the classic 'Lawyer up Hit the gym' followed by 'Hit the lawyer and Gym up'.

But explaining the joke kills it so that's what you just did.

[–]arnieschwarz-4 points-3 points  (4 children) | Copy

Next time add a '/s' at the end. Then even casual readers will know you didn't really mean it....

[–]AskTRP Endorsed Contributorbicepsblastingstud8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Honestly, dude, that joke was so blatant that it definitely didn't need a "sarcasm" tag.

[–]RealRational1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That fact that you even think he COULD be serious betrays some very troubling information about you, personally.

[–]body_reddit 22 points22 points [recovered] | Copy

Last time she went to Vegas and dropped off the map. Didn't reply to my texts or calls while I was taking care of her daughter for an ENTIRE week.

She has cheated on you. Go to TRP or misc bodybuilding. Read posts by bartenders and bouncers at clubs. Your wife sucked many dicks that weekend.

[–]OrpheusV7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

And for the love of god get an STI battery done if you've rawdogged it at all.

[–]The-Ban-Hammer1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yup

[–]topredhat9 points10 points  (13 children) | Copy

I'm interested in knowing your next step, op. How are you going to handle this?

No More Mr. Nice Guy pdf

Five decades of dramatic social change and monumental shifts in the traditional family have created a breed of men who have been conditioned to seek the approval of others. I call these men Nice Guys. Nice Guys are concerned about looking good and doing it "right." They are happiest when they are making others happy. Nice Guys avoid conflict like the plague and will go to great lengths to avoid upsetting anyone. In general, Nice Guys are peaceful and generous. Nice Guys are especially concerned about pleasing women and being different from other men. In a nutshell,Nice Guys believe that if they are good, giving, and caring, they will in return be happy, loved, and fulfilled.

Sound too good to be true?

It is.

Over the last several years, I have encountered countless frustrated and resentful Nice Guys in my practice as a psychotherapist. These passively pleasing men struggle in vain to experience the happiness they so desperately crave and believe they deserve. This frustration is due to the fact that Nice Guys have believed a myth.

This myth is the essence of what I call the Nice Guy Syndrome. The Nice Guy Syndrome represents a belief that if Nice Guys are "good," they will be loved, get their needs met, and live a problem-free life. When this life strategy fails to produce the desired results — as it often does — Nice Guys usually just try harder, doing more of the same. Due to the sense of helplessness and resentment this pattern inevitably produces, Nice Guys are often anything but nice.

[–]burbor290 4 points4 points [recovered] | Copy

hop into the /r/marriedredpill and begin the 12 levels of dread. Already started lifting for 3 weeks now.

[–]pinstrap20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

For fucks sake divorce this bitch. She has 0 respect for you and has undoubtedly cheated on you several times at the least. Get a lawyer and ask him how you can come out as cleanly as possible. But honestly, is it even worth salvaging? I would consider her sticking her daughters ass in your fucking face a pretty good sign that it's not. Divorce her.

[–]trpfieldreport10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

DIVORCE.

She fucks her ex and they laugh at you together.

She is used up other man's garbage and has no respect for you.

In a year on the red pill you will look back at her and laugh. You'll meet single mothers hotter than she is and you will think "fuck no get the fuck out of here" when they come onto you.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

Dude... I thought you said you swallowed the pill?

[–]Kyrile11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

He has not digested it yet.

[–]jsalathe3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Seriously man, that is beyond pale. Talking to her about would make you even more of a pussy. Leave her immediately. Unless you are legally married in which case, talk to a lawyer, separate your finances and then divorce her.

There is nothing here to be saved.

[–]1RPSigmaStigma2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Look man, I'm married, and I'm a huge fan of MRP, but based on what I just read here, you have no hope in this marriage. You are a joke to her and always have been. And the daughter knows it too. There is no salvaging this. Get out of this marriage ASAP.

[–]2niczar1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

There's no salvaging this shit. Drop her.

[–]Gawernator1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Divorce. Dude.

[–]The-Ban-Hammer1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dread suggests wanting to keep her.... If you want to dread a cheating whore, you've learned nothing here.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (3 children) | Copy

How the fuck do people get themselves into shit like this?

[–]1throwaway-aa27 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Imagine you grow up in a basement for 20 years, and the stairs up out of them your parents explain to you will suck you right into the sky if you don't have the right cerebellum in your brain, which you don't develop until a certain age. Nobody is around for miles and this is all you've known since you were born.

Let's say someone comes and rescues you, tells you the truth... and everyone asks you: why didn't you just walk out? Which if you think about it is a dumb question.

Other people (including myself) have been raised a certain way. Raised a certain way by society, raised a certain way by our parents. Raised to not learn what it means to have self respect... not taught to disobey orders or shun loved ones if they treat you wrong. I was raised to never question my parents or other adults. I was shunned by women, I was taught sex was bad, everyone around me was ALWAYS angry and didn't manage their tempers very well and always took it out on me. I learned later that I'm one of the most dynamic, but even keeled people in my family.

So when you ask... how the fuck do people get themselves into shit like this.... it happens! You don't know anything else. You don't know or you think you have other options. You think "marriage" is a sacred bond that can't be broken and that another women would NEVER use that as leverage to do what she wants in the relationship... no.... you have to make it work, else you're a bad person! So don't rock the boat! "ah it's just a joke, my wife putting my daughters butt in my face" and it is, and it would be very hard logically to explain that it's disrespectful to someone... but here we understand subtleties and games of power and dealing with covert communication and even the way actions manifest themselves from unconscious thought (a lot of people don't realize they have emotions and assign thoughts to post rationalize their feelings later).

If you grew up the way I grew up, surrounded by the same external stimulus that I was, then you'd understand. You'd definitely understand. When I started to learn to become dominant years later, I wandered into it by complete fucking accident like 4 times, up a level each time until I got here. The last level was here and I fucking stumbled onto this subreddit by clicking the "random" button up top. Can you believe that shit?

The easiest way to explain it is this: no matter where you're born, 99% of the time you get your accent from that place. What does that tell you: we ARE our environment. Certain men encounter certain situations, have a certain chemical balance that surfaces in different ways... that's really all the explanation you need.

[–]mostly_at_work4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's called Learned helplessness. Pretty powerful stuff

[–]plenkton4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm gonna say I loved the "aww you're such a nice guy for taking care of a poor mother and her daughter" from her friends and family. I loved looking like a good guy because I felt like society had accepted me.

The more society accepts you, the larger the margin between what they are getting from you, and what you are getting from them.

It's best to keep your work associates and friends only mildly more interested in being associated with you, than with another.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy

I'm going to be completely honest, I believe that if this ever happens to me, I'd go berserk and destroy everything in my path, not even kidding, like I'm picturing a single mother shoving her kids ass in my face and I already feel like killing something.

[–][deleted] -1 points-1 points | Copy

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[–]Evilpagan1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The first day that went by when that cunt ignored my messages I would have driven to Vegas, dropped her kid off on her, and then moved to Canada.

[–]rockmasterflex4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

The fuck are you marrying a person with a shitty kid? Nothing is a better reflection of how awful you are than your own children.

[–]friendlysociopathic4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

We're not going to hate you because you accept that you're currently acting like a bitch. The majority of people here were, at one point in time, also acting like bitches. The second you decided not to be a little bitch anymore, you became one of us. Gonna be a while before you see the payoffs though. Quite a while.

Pick up some heavy things and then put them back down.

[–]6482629 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

A year ago reading stories like this would make me furious and nihilistic, but I've read so much weird shit that all I can say is that you're not alone.

Just an observation and some advice: you're doing dread from now on? You should be doing lawyer, finding an apartment, going to the gym and after all that; leave. Get the fuck out of that shitty situation you've built up around you. Even loosing half your shit is worth it at this point. Actually; start selling shit off and spend it on hookers before you slap the divorce papers on the table.

Anyways; funny story and best of luck!

[–]clint_bronson4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well for what's worth, this was one of funniest stuff i've read here. Thank you.

[–]Carbone2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

RIP : Wife has a lot of friends so there's a bachelor party almost every 3 - 4 months. Last time she went to Vegas and dropped off the map. Didn't reply to my texts or calls while I was taking care of her daughter for an ENTIRE week.

[–]UserNumber472 points3 points  (6 children) | Copy

Man that is some disrespectful shit right there. So tell us, what did you actually do in that moment?

[–]burbor290 4 points4 points [recovered] | Copy

I ignored and walked away :(

[–]UserNumber477 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Well, you see, that's precisely the reason she thinks it was ok to do it in the first place. She knows you're a pussy and won't do a damn thing about it. You should've done something, anything, that showed how disrespectful her behavior was. You don't just ignore something like that. Even if you do break it off with her, which you should, you can't act like that when women pull shit like that around you. Get that in your head.

[–]1OneTouchHowMuch3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

What's a good response?

[–]1throwaway-aa26 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

lol. What I want to tell you is this... more than actually affecting change... acknowledgment (just like AA preaches) is the first step. "You cannot lose what you don't have". You're sort of seeing the light but part of the process (or the journey which I'm STILL going through) is to acknowledge (or find, then acknowledge) the parts of you that do exist, even if you don't like them. I hope you understood all of what I just said on a deep level before what I'm about to say next:

You're a fucking pussy. You're a scared little pussy. You let other people manipulate you. You let other people humiliate you. All for the sake of "love". You tread carefully to save relationships that don't tread reciprocally. You are brainwashed by society to think that you are a good man for marrying a woman who has a single kid. Ask yourself: what is good about that? 2 part commentary: One, you know for a fact a big part of the deal is sex.. which society wouldn't be too happy hearing about. So you literally take solace based on society's word on the FACADE that you put up. The 2nd part is, do you think people don't understand that dynamic? They do, their small little brains don't ever think about it. You let people on a whole who are inferior tell you what to think, when to think, how to feel and how to act. What if I told you that you're not a good person for marrying some degenerate, and taking care of another woman's daughter? You could just as easily adopt a kid... but you didn't do that. The "goodness of your heart" only comes as a rush of dopamine from the idea of you doing good, and also is a side effect to you getting your dick wet. Get the idea of being a good person out of your head: there is only a facade of good people. Everyone operates off of vestiges of evolution and dopamine. Even someone donating to charity can have a perspective that the person perceives themselves BETTER than other people, and they pay to reinforce that idea and get dopamine for doing so.

You're a dude without options who was boxed in by society and by a woman into a relationship that isn't THAT fulfilling to you, because you were optionless and you believed you were locked into the relationship based on numerous unwritten social, relational, etc contracts.

You are no better than any of the so called "playas and assholes" on this form. Get it out of your head NOW. You want to have a fulfilling relationship with someone you enjoy being around, that makes you aroused, takes care of your dick, and has an enjoyable demeanor.

Admit this to yourself. Be in silence and admit and bask in this. Relieve all those moments where you did what you thought you wanted but instead did what you thought someone else wanted. Don't fight it, let it in. Do it as often as you need to at first. As you come to accept who you were (knowing what you know now) you will start to change almost instantly, but you must go through this process.

Now that you know this, act with ruthlessness. Don't be careless and emotional and loud like a woman.., act swiftly, ruthlessly & stoically and do what you need to do to get what you want.

[–]Oh_FuFu0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

At man, you need to stop doing that owning up to shit with the daughter. That daughter isn't yours. I'm married to a young milf, baby is 3. I don't do shit for the baby, but on occasion buy little toys, crayons and chalk. I teach her right from wrong, good from bad. I don't show her love like a dad, why? I just don't. She likes me a lot and at times begs for attention whenever I do see her. When I married her mom, I married her mom, not her and her mom.

I'm not here to save the day, that's not my job. My job is to get shit done on my part and that's it.

Good luck dude.

[–]Limekill0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks for your thoughts.

+1.

[–]omgimbackagain2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

This is the most bizarre red pill post i have ever seen, from the snooping colleagues computer to the butt in the face.

Lots of friends, dropped off the map in vegas for a week while you looked after the kids. REEEDDD FFFLLLLLAAAAGGGGGSSS

I really want his coworker to see this and figure out who this weirdo is.

[–]Gawernator0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That flag was red enough to cover all of communist China.

[–]fit_to_fight1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Sooo.. what are your next steps? You're married so ending it has risks. Have you thought it through?

[–]drqxx1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Congratulations you sound like the beta bucks.

Edit: you swallowed the pill may you break free from this crazy woman.

[–]trpfieldreport1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

DUDE.

You are buxxing it BIG TIME.

Cut and run with the losses you already will take on. Holy shit.

Please escape for the great justice that very few men in your position ever get. Report the The Red Pill regularly with progress.

You need a call a lawyer ASAP and get this shit on the MOVE.

[–]frys1801 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Wife has a lot of friends so there's a bachelor party almost every 3 - 4 months. Last time she went to Vegas and dropped off the map. Didn't reply to my texts or calls while I was taking care of her daughter for an ENTIRE week.

What I want you to do is look at yourself in the mirror and say, "when my wife was in vegas during a bachelor party, even though she didn't contact me for a week, she didn't have any sex at all while she was there."

Her telling you to kiss her daughter's ass was a projection of how she sees you in her mind's eye. To her, you're a joke.

The only reason they divorced is because he cheated.

This is the reason she gave you. Right? I'm sure this is the only reason...

She already has a father, he's around.

I'm sure he is burbor290. I'm sure he is.

[–]1throwaway-aa20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

/hamsters would have told you that it was just that one girl, not every girl is like that, sex is not that important, yada yada yada.

I guaran fucking TEE you will get better sex. You can bet your ass the mom things you're terrible even after all the positive things you've done. She might even hold that was just a joke... but I've always loved this line from Eminem: "I joke when I'm say the best in the booth, but a lot of truth, is said in jest".

I'm not cringing for you at all dude. You've awakened. Keep thirsty for knowledge and you'll stay on the right track.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Literally a shit test.

The question is now, do you divorce her or put their shit in order?

The rule around here is never marry and don't date single moms. Unfortunately for you it's a little late on both counts.

If I may offer some unsolicited advice I suggest reading the side bar and practicing your RedPill in your life and see if that improves anything. You might find you get everything you want.

However, you may also find that she's resistant to being a decent human being or you need more practice outside the marriage to make your transformation.

You may also realize what your worth is and that you have gotten a partner which is far beneath even your beta self.

For me, I just can't see myself raising someone else's kid. That would stab at the heart of my self-esteem forever. My efforts and sacrifice should be given to my own flesh and blood and not someone else's.

Good luck. Keep us posted.

[–]kaljanas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You can read all of the theory pretty quickly but it takes time to understand it and only then to start using it.

Swallowing the red pill faster than many of the kids here.

[–]1Reddthrown0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How should one respond to that? If that happened to me, my mouth would drop and I'd be speechless.

[–]The-Ban-Hammer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The only reason they divorced is because he cheated.

Somehow I doubt that's reason or, at the very least, it's far more complex than that. Maybe he cheated because he wanted a woman who didn't shove a child's ass in his face.

Last time she went to Vegas and dropped off the map.

She was cheating. Maybe this is the reason she got divorced.

Time to get rid of her. No redeeming qualities.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Breaking up with a single mom is tough I have no idea how to divorce one

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Seriously dude. You get attached to the kids (if they are not shit heads) and feel bad leaving them with such a wreckless person.

[–]Kyrile-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You punch them in the arsehole and when they hobble to breakfast next morning give them dv papers.

[–]RPAlternate420 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Last time she went to Vegas and dropped off the map. Didn't reply to my texts or calls while I was taking care of her daughter for an ENTIRE week.

She must know some Chads in Vegas.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

sounds like a fetish, doubt it happened

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't know whether I should admire your restraint or pity your weakness in literally not throttling your wife for such contempt.

[–]wont_tell_i_refuse-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dude, your whole life is an AMOG. And the man who AMOGed you, is named God.

[–]iSnORtcHuNkz69-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I would've slapped the mother in front of her daughter and called her out for harassment



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