I grew up with a man, whom is now 22, who I consider family and a brother. A year or three ago he obtained his first ever LTR and I suspect he lost his virginity to her as well. I am interested to know what the correct advice would be coming from a redpill perspective.

Her:

5"3, Portuguese

Slightly overweight

Low number of relationships in the past

Carousel #: Unknown but I suspect low

Lives at her parents house

doesn't drive

Him:

5"9

Muscular

Decent trades job

Practicing martial artist

Bodybuilding enthusiast

Rents own place with is mother

drives

Things seemed to go well and although initially happy for him for experience his first LTR/sex, red flags started going off slowly over the course of the months and years. In no particular order:

  • Will call him every single day to arrange to hang out either that day, or for a future date. Will not hang up the phone until she gets a clear commitment from him.
  • Will now come over to his house without asking
  • Will accompany him everywhere. She doesn't have a gym membership so will walk around the mall while he's chilling with us inside the gym.
  • If angry enough will try to punch him in the face
  • Friend comes out to hang out with the group of us, she knows this, comes anyways; has faked illness or injury in order to refocus his attention on her, or to leave.
  • Acts as if she has very high SMV
  • Possessive, freaks out if friend talks to other women
  • Has waited inside his house for 6 hours while he's hanging out with us

She's not the worst person in the world, but my friend definitely doesn't know how to stand up for himself. A typical situation is she will challenge him with some bullshit arguing, he will initially act unphased by it or defend himself until she escalates by nagging or crying and he always, without fail, acquiesces to her original demand. He told us he has an open relationship with her now, but he's too much of a pussy to hit on other women if we're out at the clubs and his ltr is with us. She latches on to him while he's driving like a clingy piece of tape. Her presence, attitude & personality disgust me deeply and her behaviour combined with friends lack of action is a deep drain on our group energy.