It's been 2 or 3 weeks since we haven't fucked (vacations and stuff). She might be an alpha widow (broke up from a ltr not so long ago, still coping from it) , and is feeling in a bad mood today. She was supposed to come to my place tonight for a little f-time, but canceled because of this.

I proposed her to get a drink in a bar, because I think I can escalate things from there, and made a little joke to get her back to my place.

She answered we could get a drink, but that she didn't promise anything more and that if I expected anything specific it was useless.

Now, question : should I get that drink with her anyway? Is it worth trying to make her tingles or should I just eject? I've two other plates spinning, but it's a long time I haven't fked her, and I'd like to reinforce her plate status. Is rescheduling or soft nexting her better?

Just shoot whatever you think, I'm more asking for a brainstorming than an answer. And feel free to ask any questions if needed.

Thanks guys.

EDIT : Just sent her a text : "Is it me or our "deal" doesn't fit you anymore ?".

Hoping it'll settle the things. If she says yes, i'll tell her to come over, if she says no, i'll know the plate dropped. If she doesn't answer, I guess i'll softnext her. I'll keep you up with that.

EDIT2 : Well, plate fell, deal's off. Next.