Why are blowjobs indicative of higher interest?

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January 24, 2019

I hear about how betas very rarely get the pity sex and never a blowjob. And also in /deadbedrooms their wife will never give them head.

But then when Chad comes in the picture, the girl wants to suck his juices out and swallow. So from a red pill perspective, why do girls enjoy giving head to alphas?

I’ve heard that girls that give head are more often than not high interest. Some guys don’t even unlock head from some girls, but only sex.

So why do women put giving head above sex? Is it just an effort thing, a power dynamic thing, or do beta cocks repulse them lol

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Title Why are blowjobs indicative of higher interest?
Author FuckMichaelMcCoy
Upvotes 129
Comments 159
Date 24 January 2019 05:32 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/196682
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[–]SICFJC231 points232 points  (2 children) | Copy

Sucking dick is “slutty” and girls will only be slutty for the right person.

[–][deleted] 48 points49 points  (1 child) | Copy

In some other cases, they just dont want you to think of them as "yet another slut". You gotta make them comfortable around you.

[–][deleted] 20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

Without simping

[–]OilyB72 points73 points  (14 children) | Copy

Giving head is a sign of surrender to you, and to their feeling of attraction to you. Blowjob means your smv is high enough for her: she admires you. Or she just wants something from you.

Blowjob and anal are women's highest physical bid.

[–]trp2828712 points13 points  (8 children) | Copy

Blowjob and anal are women's highest physical bid

In my experience blowjobs are way more common than vaginal sex. Probably because girls want to be able to claim that they’re still virgins

[–]FKaroundNfindOUT30 points31 points  (4 children) | Copy

This changes when the climate changes. In this case, usually when you leave primary school.

[–]KaiSmashSmashSawmash 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

I can agreee to this. I fucked this girl with a boyfriend she claimed isn’t essential even that bad of her “at least I didn’t suck your dick”

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

i've experienced the opposite of this, where a girl will claim to have only "been with n amount of guys" because she didn't have "sex" she just blew the others

[–]KaiSmashSmashSawmash 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

True, I’ve met an Arab virgin who thought anal didn’t count. And she would announce to everyone she is a virgin.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

i've experienced the opposite of this, where a girl will claim to have only "been with n amount of guys" because she didn't have "sex" she just blew the others

i mean it doesn't if you want to get technical.

I'd just say that individuals view blowjobs / anal / vaginal sex as more or less intimate. Not genders.

[–]askmrcia7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yes I say there is two sides.

In the case of op's question, if you're dating a girl pretty seriously or in a ltr and she refuses to give you a blow job then yes she don't view you as an alpha.

If you just have a hook up with a girl, particularly one who comes from a very religious or traditional background then yes she will be willing to give you a blow job over intercourse.

That is because she's attracted to you, but don't want to come across as a slut since blow jobs don't count when you ask them how many guys they been with.

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[–]PM_ME_SPONGEBOBMEMES0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

this girl i’ve been seeing let me stick it in her butt but still hasn’t sucked me off for more than like 10 seconds...

is it possible she just really despises blowjobs that much? or is there something else going on here?

[–]OilyB0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Make sure your hygiene is okay (showering as late as possible just before hoochie time). Furthermore, talk to her. Also, check if she's slightly sub in other areas.

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper245 points246 points  (28 children) | Copy

Blowjobs are submissive in nature.

If she doesn't want to suck you off, then she doesn't want to submit to you.

[–]handfulofnuts25 points26 points  (3 children) | Copy

This is the answer, OP.

Also, a load in the pussy is felt (a bit). A load in the mouth is felt (with much more “resolution”) and tasted, and probably smelled. Two to three senses. It’s a much more visceral experience. Girls want that if they’re into you. They’re grossed out by it if they’re not into you.

The most intense sexual relationship I ever had, the girl worshipped my cum. I’d shoot it on her face and in her mouth and she’d nearly cum just from that. Said it made her feel insanely sexy.

My ex wife, on the other hand, was completely put off by it. She was a prude and I was a beta faggot at the time. Of course she didn’t want my cum anywhere near her. On the rare occasion she gave me a (shitty, half-assed) blowjob , she’d spit it out ONTO ME even though she knew I hated that.

If she’s into you, she’ll want your cum anywhere she can get it. If she’s not...

[–]Pascolino 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Hahahahaha haha.

My ex wife would wipe it all. On me. And scold. And tell me I was disgusting. I feel you bro. What a fucking disaster my marriage was. Holy shit am I happier now. Now they insist on giving me blow jobs and swallowing. Night and day.

[–]handfulofnuts2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, my girlfriend now gulps it down. Actually a few weeks ago I blew it on her face unexpectedly (to her). She yelled out in surprise, then started laughing, then took my dick in her mouth and sucked the rest out and gobbled it down. “I felt like I was drowning,” still giggling. Good girl.

[–]SuperCrazy073 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Wow. I can’t imagine my wife spitting it on me. I’ve never had any girl do that (and I’m not SuperChad). I’ve never even thought of that.

That’s just hard core harsh. On the other hand, it should have made the decision to make her an ex easy.

[–]TopOccasion2930 points31 points  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly this.

[–]cudder1717 points18 points  (15 children) | Copy

So wouldn’t eating pussy be submissive too? Does that mean she will think less of you if you eat her out?

[–]GGrub835 points36 points  (2 children) | Copy

Depends how you do it.

If you ask her then it's a submissive act, if you just take it (as long as it's consensual) it's not.

This is something you should do with LTRs only, because with a plate it shows scarcity mentality (she'll think: "Why is he even interested in eating from a plate dozens of other men could have recently eaten from?").

[–]ChadTheWaiter10024 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy

Omg! That last fucking sentence. Holy fuck shit I’m dead. god dam

[–]bobbilly6412 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

(or dug out)

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes it is

Learn to fingerblast a gal. Keep your mouth for stimulating other areas. I like biting gals myself

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

So wouldn’t eating pussy be submissive too?

Could be.

Does that mean she will think less of you if you eat her out?

If she sees it that way.

[–]BluBlac591 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's in the way you do it. You can eat her pussy and make her feel like a bad girl or slutty. You need to do it aggressively. Push her legs way up and talk to her. Tell her how good it is. Don't be grateful or nice say things like, give me that pussy ! Your wet and sweet now. Eat it like you can't get enough. Push her legs far up and lick her ass crack as far as you can, nibble on her taint. If you've got any precum dripping out put it in on your fingers and stick,it in her mouth let her lick it off. And when she's cumming keep going and talk her through it. Just as she's coming down start banging her as hard as you can tell her how hot she is and kiss her with your pussy soaked face and use your tongue. Thats as good as her licking her juice off of your cock. When you know she's had enough tell her my turn where do you want it ? Then roll on your back and push her head toward your cock. She'll know what to do.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes, it is.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

Yes it is submissive. And there is no rule in RP that says that men shouldn't submit to eat a pussy. Just do not do it as frequently as she sucks your dick and you're fine. Pussy eating should be a reward for her for very good behaviour even if you are horny and just want to taste her you must only give it to her when she's earned it. Otherwise it loses value and she will feel entitled to pussy eating.

[–]tameloopzoop 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

are you fucking serious

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[–]tameloopzoop 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

ah that's sad, goodluck with the rest of your life

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

thanks, good luck growing up, champ

[–]handfulofnuts0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

As Patrice says, if you’re going to eat pussy, don’t do it for her. Do it because you like to eat pussy. You’re a pussy eater. If she says “I’m good, let’s do something else,” you say “wait, I’m not done yet.”

I love eating pussy. And ass. I eat it like it’s my last meal on death row. Chicks love it, but that doesn’t matter so much because I love it.

[–]Big_Daddy_PDX0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Not if you know what you’re doing with your tongue. If you can give her so many orgasms with your tongue that she can’t think; who is in control at that point? But if you need to ask her if she came or if it feels good, you don’t know what you’re down there.

[–]tameloopzoop2 points3 points  (6 children) | Copy

I don't think it's submissive in nature, when I do it I feel pretty much in power

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

I'm not trying to teach guys about you in particular, I'm trying to teach them about how to appeal to women. Like, the vast majority of them.

So, your personal preferences are relevant to your sex life, and you should probably share them with whatever men you are going to blow. But that doesn't include us, so we don't need to know.

[–]tameloopzoop2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

who is "us"

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

/r/asktrp is designed to serve the needs for a specific group of people. Not quite so much like most of the rest of reddit.

You kinda wandered in here by accident, yes?

[–]MisterMarbles19880 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Like Patrice O'Neal, I get down eating a girl. That's just who I am. If you do it because YOU want to fucking do it, and not to "please" anyone but yourself, that is not beta or submissive.

[–]organicfluxx0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why are you here?

[–]csawyer8626 points27 points  (10 children) | Copy

In my experience, a girl who is willing to give you a blowjob , especially without having to ask for it, is super turned on by you. I’ve only had this happen to me when I’m feeling “ in the zone” so to speak. ( acting like a man, showing confidence, being funny, ect) .

Giving head I imagine is the ultimate sign of submission. She’s literally kneeling before you with your dick in her mouth. Can you be any more submissive than that ?

When I’m in a relationship and the blowjobs stop, I tend to lose interest because it’s a sign she already has.

[–]ChadTheWaiter10013 points14 points  (6 children) | Copy

I’m in a 7 year relationship and still get BJ’d every time before and after sex. It’s a you thing when she stops. I also was in an earlier relationship where I was a sad beta and my ex demanded I give her oral every time we fucked.

[–]csawyer862 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

What is it that keeps her wanting to do it after 7 years? What are you specifically doing to keep that going ?

[–]pridebrah14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah this would actually make a good post for new guys and for guys like me to review u/ChadTheWaiter100 .

Heres my 2 cents I can offer...tldr: be attractive, be sexual in a non-needy way:

If you look at my history I just got out of a 7 year LTR and I was still getting head, facefucking her, and cumming on her face sometimes etc. She cheated and i slipped up in other ways as others pointed out, but our sex life was always really good and even after she cheated she's still trying to hit me up just for "one last fuck." For that reason I believe I can offer some of my experience

The positive things I can pick out that I did was sexualize almost everything all the time in a subtle way. Always had my hand on her hip/ass, smacking her ass, making comments about how good her tits looked, would randomly crank it up and get more blunt with things like telling her at a dinner party that the dress she was wearing was going to get her fucked in the dirtiest way possible later etc. I made it clear that this relationship is built on a foundation of us having an amazing and frequent sex life.

Being physically attractive is huge. Girls might blow some fat ass or skinny dude (see my thread) but ultimately those one-offs aren't a solid long term plan and you don't feel good looking that way anyway. Be fit, be under 15% body fat, always lift, and eat right. With me there were times where she would just get that look in her eye, lift up my shirt, rub my abs, and make her way down to her knees telling me how she loved my body (no I'm not adonis but I've lifted for a decade, eat right, and I'm lean).

Seek to add variety to keep that sexual spark burning and limit things that could kill that. For example, we had used handcuffs in the past to restrain her when we fucked and I knew she wanted to be tied up to the bed at some point. So one day she came home and I had bought some restraints and put them on the bed, blindfolded her, took her clothes off and threw her on the bed. Next thing you know she was tied up and told me to "come up to her mouth" aka facefuck her. I also bought some toys here and there and would take her random places to fuck in the car etc. Always made it an adventure.

Limiting things that would impact the sexual spark means don't shit/piss with the door open, don't be a messy or lazy fuck, always smell good and keep yourself groomed, never self deprecate in any way, don't cry about your problems to her etc.

When you're talking about sex in an LTR it's about the all encompassing picture and what other guys here are saying about blowjobs being submissive. She has to not only submit to you in general, but genuinely want to submit to you. That means your alpha/beta is balanced with shit tests and comfort tests being passed with flying colors, and everything is ultimately operating in your frame.

Attraction is not negotiable. You never say a word about it, you just do it and be attractive. You never ask for a blowjob, you get your girl soaking wet and you guide her toward it. And for the love of god, never ever ever complain about not getting sex or turned down.

[–]DeatCoreBoy10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks for that! Notes taken! ;)

[–]ChadTheWaiter1002 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I’d say the reason that she still wants to do it is that she enjoys it. From the beginning I framed her giving me a blowjob as a treat for her.

Ok. Understand that I first got with her during pre-trp days.

Initially she was the one who first asked me if she could suck it. Instead of celebrating like I just won a super bowl I just remained stoic and said ok. She was asking- can I worship your body? So I blessed her.

First few times I didn’t come. So then she said- I want you to come. Time passed. Blowjobs continued and anytime that I couldn’t come, whether that be from (stress, drugs, fatigue, you know- blue pill shit) or whatever, she would feel upset. The money shot was her validation that she did a good job and pleased her man.

[–]pridebrah0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Very smooth. Noted.

[–]teearrpeer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Read Daniel Rose's Sex God Method. It has worked wonders for me. I still have to keep brushing up on it every so often though, because it's easy to fall into a routine. And sex for the woman should be anything but routine.

[–]rpmc8311 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

"She’s literally kneeling before you with her dick in your mouth."

Um, what kind of women are you dating? 😆

[–]csawyer863 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lmfao oops

[–]the-truth8880 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I can testify for the first part. Yesterday, I was playing video games and my LTR loves (she really does) to watch me play and she usually plays with my dick while I play. She unzipped my pants and moved my arm away to suck it while I played. I was honestly shocked. She can’t keep her hands off it. Not to mention, my roommate was literally 4 feet away playing games too. She is risk it all just to suck your dick, even if there’s people around (she’s the type to make her the binds are all closed before we fuck, but sucked my dick 4 feet from my roommate).

[–]SkankHuntL8963 points64 points  (9 children) | Copy

I’ve had hot girls want to blow me and munters that just wouldn’t so I’d say this isn’t always a huge indicator of interest.

I think some chicks shy away from sucking dick because they know they are shit at it.

[–]FuckMichaelMcCoy[S] 19 points20 points  (8 children) | Copy

I am a firm believer that you are on more A-Game around hotter women, this may be it.

Around fat ones you just don’t put in the effort to push their buttons

[–]TheGoblinTurkey40 points41 points  (4 children) | Copy

I agree, I've been on tinder dates with girls who are like a 5/10 and I struggle to convey all the good parts of my personality. It's almost as if subconsciously my mind is like "nah not worth the effort".

Whereas when with attractive girls I feel so much more energetic and enthusiastic about life.

[–]ChadTheWaiter1001 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Do you find that the fatties are more down to eat dick?

[–]TheGoblinTurkey1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Nope, only been with one real fatty and she wasn't interested in it. She liked me choking her though. But ultimately it was one of the more disappointing sex experiences I've had.

[–]ChadTheWaiter1008 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

In my book, fatties are only good for one thing: getting their faces fucked. I’m good on that stank ass pussy. Pop your tiddies out but leave your shirt on bitch. You stink.

[–]shitinhermouth230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Spot on bro

[–]Velebit5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Probably. I can't even get it up if I notice knock knees, facial hair or she is fat and oh man... I have tried.

[–]orangebudd2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not mayb, it is it.

We are all like that, why put the effort in if it doesn't float your boat.

[–]FKaroundNfindOUT2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I am a firm believer that you are on more A-Game around hotter women, this may be it.

Around fat ones you just don’t put in the effort to push their buttons

Something I live by that has served me well is, with woman and some other areas

"it's FUCK YES! or it's NO".

This keeps me driving forward and to some degree, protects me from all sorts of possible social/legal issues.

[–]bsktbll13 points14 points  (14 children) | Copy

I cant comprehend how you have a gf and not get bjs that's insane

[–]GilbertoCarlos12 points13 points  (12 children) | Copy

Some betas are content with just having someone who give sex once a month, see DeadBedrooms subreddit.

[–]bsktbll9 points10 points  (10 children) | Copy

Yeah I know but dam it's your gf/wife and she's not willing to do one of the most pleasurable things for you? Yeah I shouldn't be surprised but it's hard to understand why you would tolerate that.

[–]adonis_syche6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

They tolerate it because they see that as a pocket money, as if they haven't really earned it (most time that IS the case) while it is in fact your salary. It is yours.

[–]KaiSmashSmashSawmash 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

Take some estrogen pills you’ll understand

[–]bsktbll0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

But it's like don't they ask hey honey I really want a blowjob.. and what she's like nah and you're like o okay? and your whole relationship continues like that? I think I can take a whole bottle of pills and still not comprehend, why even have her around then.

[–]clausternn0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

See the rest of this thread, you don't ask for a blowjob, you guide her toward one.

But yes, I agree with you, I would never be in an LTR without frequent blowjobs. Then again, I wouldn't be in an exclusive LTR anyway, I'd rather just fuck multiple plates.

[–]bcitman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How do u guide them if they are on their period

[–]StopGaming12342 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

Unpopular opinion: I hate bj's. Probably because I never had real good ones. So many girls just suck, sadly no literally.

[–]friendandadvisor0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

I don't hate them, but, I can't really see the big deal about them. If I'm sitting, I have all of my weight on my ass, so, it takes away much of the thrill. If in bed, well, it makes groping her more difficult. Still, the awkwardness of groping her while being blown is a turn on, but...

[–]StopGaming12342 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

I don't see the big deal either. I had a girl play like it with a toy everytime we would hang out, watch movies or lay in bed. I honestly do not care.

[–]handfulofnuts0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah, you guys just haven’t had good head. A good, proper deepthroat blowjob will fuck your mind up. It’s like crack or heroin. I was with this girl for three months and we broke up a year ago, and I still fantasize about her mouth. Literally the most pleasurable sexual experience I’ve ever had, and I’ve had some good ones.

[–]StopGaming12340 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Wouldn't have an effect on me anyway. I deathgripped myself in the past. Rip.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I made a post there about just ending it if you arent getting what you want. I got flamed, "relationships are more than just sex" LMAO

[–]Melanoma_man24 points25 points  (10 children) | Copy

Make sure you always wash your cock.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (9 children) | Copy

We're not talking about hookers here...

[–]Melanoma_man31 points32 points  (8 children) | Copy

Girls don’t want cheese dick. Would you give head to a girl if her pussy stank?

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Oh I thought you meant for other reasons nvm

[–]friendandadvisor0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, I think he meant 'before' the fellatio.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy

If you have cheese dick you have other problems. Like some infection or something.

[–]dons902 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

'Cheese' forms continuously, only washing keeps it off. Not talking about excessive cases but it does happen, and also is more common for uncircumcised guys.

[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Nope, washing once a day does not a cheese dick make. Maybe in a week or so, especially if a guy was masturbating and didn't wash his dick for days. But overall, cheese dick is more serious problem than "not washing it". It may be an infection.

[–]KobayashiDragonSlave2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Just wash it, man. There's no harm being done to your member by keeping it clean

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

You misunderstood me. I meant the excessive thinking that only not washing your dick makes it cheese like is a problem. Washing once a day is perfectly fine, unless you had sex. Then you should wash after sex too if you expect your dick sucked next day.

[–]friendandadvisor0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Hey, man-Just wash it!

[–]SmamelessMe6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Objectively, blowjobs are indicative of woman putting her lips around your reproductive organ.

Subjectively, it means whatever you or she chooses it to mean. If you make oral sex (on both parties) a rudimentary part of everyday sex life, then that is what it will mean. If you will make it a high-value sex act, then that is what she will see it as.

[–]GGrub847 points48 points  (2 children) | Copy

Not giving head strongly implies she's disgusted by you and she's putting just enough effort to keep you around for your commitment.

If she was really into you there wouldn't be any part of your body she wouldn't want to kiss/lick/suck.

Edit: as others have said, how long you've known her also matters. It's understandable if a girl doesn't want to give head on the first date, but if it's a LTR then it's the first sign you'll end up in a deadbedroom.

[–]cornylamygilbert0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I like this but wasn’t aware that no head on the first date was a standard indicator

in this mindset, any girl that doesn’t put out on the first date is nested right?

[–]GGrub80 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Holding herself back on first date might be ASD because she doesn't want you to think she's the kind of girl who gives herself to people she just met.

[–]SweatingOutThePoison7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

What about when a girl licks your asshole? Where does that stand in this conversation?

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[–]IvyExcess0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The most attracted and devoted she can be. Getting girls to do it is my specialty and my favorite. Im a freak.

[–]adonis_syche55 points56 points  (25 children) | Copy

Shortest possible answer,

Betas ASK for blowjobs, while alphas, like yours truly, gently guide their head down south in midst of a french kiss.

You take your women and what you want from them. Men don't ask for things, women do. Men take what's theirs.

Edit : I am not condoning rape here jesus christ! Notice the word "gently"...and if you're french kissing naked, without her screaming for help, it is more or less a consent. CALM THE FUCK DOWN!

[–]MisplacedSanityP18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, there’s such thing as implied consent. God the most cringey thing is the idea that you must ask for consent before moving onto any next level. “May I take off your bra” “May I finger your glorious pussy” “May I bow down and lick your boot”. It’s like anything with a girl. You don’t ask a girl to come with you, you grab her hand and tell her where you guys are going. You don’t ask a girl for a kiss, you go for it and see if she resists. To the same point, you don’t ask for a blowjob, you pull out your cock and put her on her knees. She can always speak up and/or physically resist to show she isn’t into it. If she doesn’t say anything, the implication is naturally she’s into it.

[–]DatingTank16 points17 points  (5 children) | Copy

Describing how sex happens, and always has happened, and always will happen - is condoning rape to some. I can only conclude that type of people has never had sex.... or are simply having double standards. The man needs to take initiative and control, or else 99% of all sex in the world stops happening and we die out as a species.

[–]adonis_syche12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

We are doomed! It started when men started asking women for advice regarding how to have sex. Women themselves don't know what they want! The most innocent one likes to be choked while being dick slapped. I hope this trend doesn;t become the norm, or women will visit our Ape cousins for 'Da Meat'!

Italian men threaten your masculinity? Try dick wrestling with a fucking Gorrilla!

[–]trp282872 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

It’s probably because 90% of this sub is a bunch of aspies who will understand him wrong and rape a woman because they thought “that’s how alphas do it”

[–]adonis_syche2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Couldn't have said it better myself!

[–]EdvardMunch 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah, thats why I hate this current climate. Its true there are guys who push past their rejections but ive also met a lot of girls who are shy, insecure, nervous, etc. If you cant take charge they surely dont want to risk rejection by asking you. Also many girls don't want to come off as slutty and you could see how eagerly going for your dick could be.

If this was a business deal business deals would never happen because no scenario is perfect, somebody needs to say its going to be fine despite your fears. Is this complicated ground? Oh hell yes. We live in a complicated world.

[–]adonis_syche0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Stale mate...bad for chess, and bad for sexpress

[–]1redhawkes24 points25 points  (5 children) | Copy

Edit : I am not condoning rape here jesus christ! Notice the word "gently"...and if you're french kissing naked, without her screaming for help, it is more or less a consent. CALM THE FUCK DOWN!

Be aware that the aspies here have hard time understanding context. They don't get social cues and operate in data mode, not subtext.

You do sex, you don't talk about it or try to verbalize attraction. Calibrate thru feedback.

[–]adonis_syche7 points8 points  (4 children) | Copy

You've prompted me to deep dive in ape's sex psychology, or the lack thereof. Any book/documentary recommendations? For science reasons ofkors

[–]1redhawkes6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

The fucking sidebar/ Sex God Method/ Book Of Pook/ TRM.

Basically, TRP classics.

[–]adonis_syche3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

For ape sex psychology? I doubt it, but I'd take a took anyways...

[–]1redhawkes7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Humans/apes, same bullshit.

[–]adonis_syche-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fuckin hell, i read aspies as apsies...tthought you are talking about apes....fml

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Aha, great edit.

[–]GGrub84 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

if you're french kissing naked, without her screaming for help, it is more or less a consent

Not if you live in Sweden, because he can't verbally express her consent while she's french kissing you.

[–]adonis_syche4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Even if naked??? Jonas Jerebko is focked! Go warriors

[–]Kpwn885 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy

What's this gently, bullshit? I tell my own wife to get down on her knees and suck it. Hell, when she says, "fuck me harder" I slap her across the face while I'm railing her and say, "shut the fuck up, you dirty little slut, daddy's in charge"

Women want to be treated like cum dumpsters. Act accordingly. YMMV

[–]adonis_syche1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lmao I'd do that to my wife too, but not the girl I just met. Gotta escalate one step at a time. I personally enjoy the tension more than the act, but maybe I'm not in the majority here. But good going with your wife man, that'd be the level I wanna be with TRP, to have wife while on it. cheers

Edit : Just looked up what YMMV means, nvm

[–]ChadTheWaiter1001 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Lmfao! Is your wife still in good shape for her age

[–]Kpwn881 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Health & Fitness should always be an important quality to look for when vetting for a LTR. If it isn't, you're doing it wrong.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Men take what's theirs.

What makes you entitled to a girl?

[–]Andgelyo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

“Gently” lmao nope, I’m grabbing the back of her head, and holding my dick up so she knows wassup

[–]redaftrp-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I usually tell her I want mouth hugs...

[–]Andgelyo15 points16 points  (7 children) | Copy

Damn well I must be a fucking Chad to these land whales tinder hoes because nearly all of them gave me head first. Some even just sucked my dick without fucking.

[–]ChadTheWaiter10010 points11 points  (6 children) | Copy

Nice. That’s always nice to get a bj with no fucky involved. I remember those days. Some times on a 30 min drive I’d end up getting domed off twice.

[–]apost546 points7 points  (5 children) | Copy

2 days ago a girl gave me head in her car. Paid for my movie and Chipotle too. 9/10 except it was cramped :/

[–]ChadTheWaiter1004 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Nothin like a chipotle on her. Esp when you order extra meat. Always nice to get a bj in her car.

[–]apost540 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

True - I’m a vegetarian tho. I ended up coming all over my shirt... which was a pain to cover up :/

[–]friendandadvisor1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

2 days ago a girl gave me head in her car. Paid for my movie and Chipotle too. 9/10 except it was cramped :/

Please, please, please tell me that the car was parked!

Failing that, please, please, please tell me how to do what you did!

[–]apost541 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

It was parked. And idk... sidebar?

[–]friendandadvisor1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

nm, jk.

[–]Naebany5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because they are awesome. If you don't wanna give it to me then you don't care about me.

[–]Whatdoin279 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

Wow, I didn't even think about blowjob's like that. Not even trying to to brag at all here but my LTR will give me blowjob's without me ever asking. It's weird.

She has this thing where she likes to randomly give me head and it's kinda cool! But here's something I'm going to admit. I actually don't really like getting head. It feels okay, but her vagina fucking feels way WAY better. She's good at it but it takes too long for me to cum. Most times I won't even cum lol. It has to escalate into sex. And no guys, it's not because she sucks at it. I was always like this. I've had girls shit test me because of this shit ever since having sex.

While I'm feeling this way, in her head she sees me as someone out of her league. Maybe slightly, if I assume that my SMV is quite high to her. I never thought to realize this at all though, because I thought girls give head because guy's like it.

[–]frontyer00770 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

My LTR does the same. Sucks me whenever I want and always before I sleep, without me asking. Its great.

[–]Dash_of_islam5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

They are germaphobes.

They think it's gross if a guy doesn't wash his hands after pissing.

So for them to put dick in their mouth means they want you more than their concern for cleanliness

[–]GGrub84 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

You'd be surprised at how unclean they become for the right guy (re: alpha).

Anb by unclean I mean things like giving head after unprotected anal.

[–]adonis_syche1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

....in a threesome....with a guy. Bitches go to extreme lengths for alphas

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I was with the same woman for 7 years and she only swallowed ONCE. I wish I were kidding -- while I absorbed her cum juice from her vagina.

[–]Melbourne919 points10 points  (8 children) | Copy

I practise semen retention, I notice I get offers for head when I am around 2 weeks in on a streak. For some reason I must come across more ‘ripe’. I feel it too btw, I feel more sexually primed with higher vigour and vitality. For me I feel it has something to do with it.

[–]ChadTheWaiter1006 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

Lmfao! Where did you get this idea from bredda? If I held a 2 weeks load I would shoot a fuckin cup of jizz down her throat.

[–]Melbourne910 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That's what she wants

[–]noflip20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yow are u jamaican

[–]goblinboglin4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I do SR too and it sucks when she wants to give you a head but you know you wouldn't hold it. Dry orgasms much.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

If I go more than 7 days I started fiending for cocaine

[–]ReformSociety6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

weird flex

[–]adonis_syche4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Women can smell rise in testosterone...which is one of the direct consequence of SR. More power to you...

[–]Atheist_Utopia1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I hear tons of stories about SR, but is it actually legit?

[–]SwoleyMoleyFrijoley3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Same reason it's more intimate to shove my face into a pussy than my cock.

Head requires effort. Starfish sex requires a vagina.

[–]InvictusDO3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

They don't derive physical pleasure from giving head.

[–]FKaroundNfindOUT2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Some do. Probably 50% I've been with have gotten very wet from it with 5% of those actually climaxing or squirting from it.

I'm ok with it.

[–]friendandadvisor1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

When chicks have high enough interest to blow a dude, it's because they think he is high value and cannot be obtained any other way. Once she snags him, just see how the bjs drop off, as if by magic.

I had one chick that was wanting a commitment from me, that just started unzipping my pants, etc...while we were talking. At the time, I didn't want to commit. As soon as I acted like I wanted a commitment, and asked her for a bj, she hemmed, and hawed, and said 'Well, I'm not very good..." Indicating to me that the more interest I showed, the less frequently the bjs would occur.

[–]1DubbleFUPAwitCheez1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Blow jobs might be my favorite thing to do with a woman. I'll simply say if you don't get blow jobs on demand you aren't that important to her.

[–]User-31f64a4e1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

And handjobs indicate low interest

A handy is essentially a stall - maybe she'll want actual sex with you at some point, maybe not.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Same reason since the beginning of time. Alpha males are good for reproduction and for protection from other dangerous males. Just part of nature.

[–]gitpullhoes0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I had a girl once that would rather lick my arse than suck my dick. I never cared too much cuz her lips were thin so the head didnt even feel that good.

[–]goudamac0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

M6 I

[–]BluBlac590 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

See my reply to whisper. Imo women want an aggressive lover not an abusive one but one that will take the lead and push her boundaries a little bit. Watch some real milf porn and pay attention to what gets them hot. Let me tell you it's not guys that timidly bangs them. Or acts like it's her that's doing them a favor as they breathlessly tell her how hot she is and they can't believe she's sucking his cock and all of that kind of stuff. You can even watch some cuckhold stuff. Look at her response to the guy that's banging her and how quickly she wants to suck his dick. The cuck can't get any attention and she barely noticed him in most cases and oftentimes considers him a nusiance. She's banging that guy in front of her cuck because he doesn't give her what she wants. So give her what she wants. Quit thinking she's a princess and quit being grateful for her giving you pussy. Don't watch professionally made porn (the worst kind) watch the real amature stuff with real people. I don't normally advise watching porn but if you watch the real amatures and watch it to learn not to get off (I think it can be done) you might get it. The people won't be the best looking but they're real and they're kinky enough to post it somewhere. Don't mistake treating a woman poorly with being the leader. Imo some let themselves get treated poorly because they mistake it for leadership. It took me a long time to learn this.

[–]good-look-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

what ab when a girl will suck your dick but won’t fuck (christian girl)

[–]adonis_syche1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

crucify her

[–]mrHappyPotatoe-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Your assumtions are correct. What else we can add.... I dont know.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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