Having a kid soon. Any of you experienced with picking a school? Is montessori bulshit?

LawyerInTheMaking · 2018-01-20T02:19:20+00:00

Your profession doesn’t get a mans dick hard (please excuse the crass language but I hope you see what I’m getting at). What does however is your attitude, personality, demeanour, physical attractiveness, etc. In general, a girls profession really doesn’t matter because what we take away is that she has a job and that she make for good conversation. A girls profession can be a negative sometimes though because many women overemphasize the value of their profession when it comes to dating men. For those women, profession = high status = entitlement towards a certain caliber of men. This creates a lot of negative connotations which affect women in similar/same profession who are not like those women because men don’t want to deal with the possibility that a woman might exhibit those connotations.

NubianIbex · 2018-01-11T07:12:21+00:00

I think it has more to do with having a career you're enthusiastic about, doesn't really matter what it is. Having some career goals and success (whatever you define as success) helps you be less dependent on emotional validation from your partner.

Blueeyeddd · 2018-01-11T10:53:03+00:00

I think it might but it might not. I’m incapable of too many things. Too many details or responding to too many bosses or managers. As a result my homelife struggles.

Some women, many, can be a domestic goddesses and have good work and keep it in balance. ie. don’t bring your work home.

Also having passion for the right job could mean you can do it with little effort or grind, because you love it. So if your skin glows because your happy, your apt to put that effort into your domestic responsibilities.

Make sure to put your man first and see if you can handle both. Home first, career advancement is lower on the totem pole after kids, home and aging parents.

Title	Having a kid soon. Any of you experienced with picking a school? Is montessori bulshit?
Author	zopiro
Upvotes	16
Comments	20
Date	December 29, 2015 5:00 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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