I frequent r/parenting and r/beyondthebump and it astonishes me. Stay at home mothers complaining because their husband is providing for the family and in their opinion doesn't change enough diapers or vaccuum enough or speaks to her harshly in an argument that we are only hearing one side of.. and what do women do? Jump on the bandwagon of LEAVE HIS ASS!! THATS ABUSIVE!! TAKE HIS KIDS AND HIS CHILD SUPPORT AND GET ALIMONY! If you mention the possibility of relationship counseling, taking steps to save the relationship, you're enabling an abuser. Downvotes all around.

This is the norm in 2018.

It's no wonder the family unit is falling apart. No one is even attempting to fix their shit, if it's not perfect, get a divorce. On to the next one.

I hope some of these women get hit smack dab in the face with the reality of being a 30 something divorcee with two kids. Now you're not going to get help with your vaccuming AND you're going to have to get a damn job and raise your kids with no father in the house. How is that the better option than working out an imperfect relationship? I feel bad for kids in this day & age.