Put another way: Men want sex. Women want fun.

"But," the fool sayeth "sex IS fun. Ergo... women want sex!"

No, simpleton. For women, sex is not fun. Fun is fun. Sex is the price they pay for fun. Fun is what they're after. And they fuck the guys who give it to them (alphas) in order to convince them to keep giving it to them.

Likewise for men, fun is not fun. Sex is fun. Fun is the price they pay for sex. Sex is what they're after. And the smart ones (alphas) offer fun to beautiful girls knowing full well the reward for doing so.

So if women want to have fun, it behooves them to be beautiful.

And if men want to have sex, it behooves them to be fun.

Well, we know what beautiful is, but what is fun?

Fun is that which an alpha male provides.

And what is that?

A plan.

And what kind of plan?

Any plan that gets her out of the house, out in public, trying new things, meeting new people, testing her limits, facing her fears, and accomplishing her goals.

That's what an alpha male provides: a life. a fun fucking life.

Can an alpha have muscles? Yes. But there are alphas without them.

Can an alpha have game? Yes. But there are alphas without it.

Can an alpha benefit from the sidebar? Yes. But there are alphas who haven't read it.

But what an alpha has to have in order to be an alpha, independent of all other things is this: Plans. And the will to carry them out. And his plans involve other people. Because alpha is a comparative term. It refers to the one in charge, the one who leads, and thus, without others present, he can't be an alpha.

So he has a socially-centered mind. He's the king of the world and all are his subjects from whom he knows he derives all of his blessings and power. So he loves bringing them together and making sure they have a good time because doing so opens him up to every single opportunity and possibility imaginable.

He's a facilitator of fun. And women are bored.

So...to MRP. I'm glad you're lifting. You should be. I'm glad you're avoiding arguments and reading the sidebar. That's great.

But if your marriage sucks and your bedroom is dead, let me ask you: What kind of life have you given your wife?

How often do you take her out? What kinds of things do you go do together? How often do you go somewhere new? Meet someone new? Try something new? How many friends do you have? What kinds of friends do you have? How often do you make new friends?

What kind of novelty, variety, and excitement do you offer your wife outside the home that makes you think you deserve the kind of novelty, variety, and excitement you crave inside the bedroom?

Oh! You work hard at your job. How brave!

Oh! You go to the gym, own your shit, vacuum your own room, and wipe your own ass. Super!

For those feeling like they got the marital bait and switch in the bedroom, how much you wanna bet your wife feels like she got the same thing with her whole fucking life?

What kind of life did you make her think she would have with you when you were dating? Did you do what you do now--she sits at home all day watching babies, you come back from work tired, hangry, and annoyed. Grab a beer. Watch a game. Then make a last-ditch grab for sex right before bed. Was that how you locked that shit down?

Probably not.

So go on and lift your weights. And comb your hair. And clean your room. And STFU. And learn "game." Be my guest. All that stuff is great and there's no reason not to do it. But without plans, without the will to carry them out, without a life that men can envy and women want to be a part of, you'll never be an alpha anywhere but reddit.

Plus that shit takes time. Sometimes more than some of you have left in your marriage. And yet the standard advice from the MRP manchurian choir no matter the situation is "lift, STFU, sidebar."

Which is great, but not one peep about what will buy you time TODAY. Improve your relationship TODAY. Improve your sex life TODAY. I'm all for the long game, fellas, but a good golfer doesn't just know how to drive. He can putt as well.

So...do you know what you're doing this weekend yet? Is it different from last time? Did you line up a babysitter? Have you called any friends? Have you made any reservations? Do you have any fucking clue whatsoever what you're going to do for fun with your wife this weekend at all?

Do you ever?

It's not rocket science. Men are horny and women are bored. Give her the fun alpha life she thought she was getting and she'll do damn near everything in her sexual power to make sure she doesn't lose it. Because that's all she's ever wanted.