10 year dead bedroom. 3 years into MRP now. Totally transformed my life fellas. Thank you to everyone.

This is for intermediate level MRPers who worked through the sidebar, worked through the anger phase and internalized most of the tools here. This tool, really a hack, helped me to take my game to the next level. Newbies, you have NO HACK. You must work through the sidebar. No shortcuts. It’s only once you learn the rules do you get to break them and make them your own. You must unfuck yourself first.

If you did your homework up until now, you know that the best DREAD is to have other women hit on you in front of your wife. How do you do this? - Become the man who gets hits on.

Obviously. Ok. But I always struggled with the logistics of this though. With 3 kids and the constant running around to different sports and events after school, my wife and I are always crossing paths, most of the time my wife isn’t around to see the other soccer moms "hitting" on me and melting in my arms while their dad bod beta husbands are finger fucking their I-phones playing fantasy football…. Even though it gives me great abundance mentality and I probably reek of that sweet pussy when I get home later in which my wife could indeed sniff out, I figured out a way to really cash in on my new found gaming ability. Side note: I recently came across an Arnold Schwarzenegger’s 5 min motivation video the other day about the breaking the rules, but not the law, and I got a lot out of it. Being a BETA my entire life and engineer as a profession, I was (am) always following the rules to the TEE!. No deviation. Straight and narrow path. But when you do that, you box yourself in. Don’t be so god damm rigid. I was a good little boy my entire blue pill life, but I’m getting pussy now. Play to your advantage for fuck’s sake. Give yourself a fucking break. This is why I came up with this hack.

I used to love Magic when I was young, so I was always aware of the 7 basic skills that magicians implement.

Palm: To hold an object in an apparently empty hand. Ditch: To secretly dispose of an unneeded object. Steal: To secretly obtain a needed object. Load: To secretly move a needed object to where it is hidden. Simulation: To give the impression that something that hasn’t happened, has. Misdirection: To lead attention away from a secret move. Switch: To secretly exchange one object for another.

The grand slam of marriage game is when your wife sees other women openly hitting on you. By using the Simulation principle, you can give the illusion that a woman is hitting on you. You can get your wife to perceive that other women are hitting on you when, in fact, they didn’t. It’s a fun little game to play. See if it works for you for this weekend. Of course, you need to become that man who gets this naturally, but use this as a tool until you actually get there. To get this to work, let’s redefine “hitting” on you. All your wife needs to see is that a woman is “talking” to you. That’s it. She doesn’t even need to know what the conversation is about. Just the fact that you two are actually talking- and she is smiling and not repulsed by you will do. If you do it right, her imagination will fill in the blanks. It doesn’t even matter if you started the conversation first, you can make her believe that the other woman started it.

Just strike up a conversation and start fucking talking. That’s all it takes. Perception is REALITY.

Here’s 3 examples:

1)Went out with wife and her teacher friends to a bar venture, she goes to the bathroom. I’m standing there by myself like a duesh bag. There’s a good looking chick in the group right next to me by herself, so I strike up a conversation. I just asked her about what grade she teachers, what subject, etc.. She tells me.. and then she throws out some bait about where she originally came from and how it’s so hot here in the summers, etc... So I follow up about that part of the country and how it’s really cold there.. yada yada yada.. (thank you “DayGame”. I got a lot from reading that book. I was an extreme introvert growing up, so it really opened my eyes to how really easy it is to have a conversation). We were just having a normal boring adult conversation, she even says that she knows my wife from the school, but I could tell that she didn’t mind talking to me (really, about herself..). I made no sexual comments, no “flirting”, just fucking talking. It doesn’t matter. My wife comes out of the restroom and sees me (a lifelong BETA) talking to this fucking hot young teacher, then holds onto my arm and squeezes. Never does that. Conversation eventually ends and my wife asked what we were talking about? Time for you to fill in the blank and use SIMULATION. I Played it cool. Like it happens all the time. Told her that she just started talking to me and I also made sexual comments about how much she was into me and asked me a ton of questions about myself… what I did for a living, etc. -even though it wasn’t true. My wife was like “oh my God, what a slut!. I have to keep an eye on you tonight! she probably waited until I left for the bathroom to start flirting with you”. Wife is all flirty with me the rest of the night.. Anyway, great night when we got home. She still talks about that night few months later.

  1. Leaving a nice restaurant bar one night, and I accidently bumped into this one chick and my drink spilled on the floor and probably splashed on her foot- judging by how she recoiled her foot. The music was loud, so I just leaned in and told her I was sorry and kept walking, my wife turned around to see why I suddenly stopped, and all she sees is this woman talking to me with a smile on her face. All this chick says back to me was “no problem” but she had smile on her face. But that’s all it takes fellas. Perception is reality. Wife asks me wtf was that all about? Simulation. So I bent reality a little more and told her that she grabbed my wrist as I was passing her and she wanted to know if I was leaving for the night and if that girl (her) was my wife.. Be subtle. Wife totally bought it ! she literally grabbed and hugged me the entire way back to the car. She was giddy, playful, submissive, totally under my control. Kept saying that I was too dangerous to go out on the town by myself – because of strange women hitting on me. It didn’t even happen but I made her think that it did happen.- only because my SMV is higher than hers now. It didn’t even actually happen that way, but I made her BELIEVE that I am too dangerous to go out by myself.

  2. Went to lunch with my wife yesterday, we get up to leave when I tell her I need to take a piss. She’s waiting outside the door for me. The restroom door leads to another room where there are two additional doors – men’s and womens. After I piss, walk out the mens door, this good looking woman was leaving the women’s bathroom but walking into the men’s door, instead of the main door. She almost runs into me, I tell her that this is the men’s door, not the main door out to the restaurant. We head out together but I say something- just as we were opening the main door- about how I can’t believe she was trying to walk into the men’s restroom and I’ll won’t tell anyone and keep it a little secret between us - in a funny way, she started laughing. All my wife sees is the both of us walking out the door with smiles on our faces and talking and laughing.. Wife looks so confused and asks what’s so funny and wtf we were talking about? Bent reality a little and told her that she asked me if there was any cool bars to go to around the city and if I liked my food, etc.… or some bullshit like that. Wife tells me to stop off at home before I drop her off back at work… lunch time sex has never happened before in my 14 years of marriage….until now. It’s now on the menu.

It’s so easy guys, don’t over think it, just practice talking and striking up conversations with anyone. Change the success criteria, success isn't defined if you can get her number or if she flirts with you. Define it was if you can say hi without feeling nervous. After that, define it as if you can hold a normal adult conversation for a few minutes. After that, try some catch and release and see if you can number close. If you were a hard case newbie like I was 3 years ago, Realize that you don’t have to “flirt” and do anything crazy, just talk like an adult, be cool and playful, be curious. Throw out bait and see if they follow up. If they throw out bait, simply follow up. Eventually get enough to do it in front of your wife. Then bend reality in your favor a little when your wife askes you what you were talking about.

I choose to bend reality in my favor all the time now. You were BETA and completely honest your entire life, use it. You NEVER would think about lying to her, right? Be cocky and funny. Double down when the odds are in your favor. Like blackjack, it’s the only game where you can increase your bet when the odds are in your favor…by double down by using “small white lies”. When you come from such a BETA background and long history of being a honest, caring, and hardworking BETA husband, you can totally play this to your advantage! But you can only do this after you work through your MAP, take control of the dynamics at home, and increase your SMV, and increase the DREAD. After all, a BETA never lies.. he is completely and utterly honest. He always cares about feelings and is very vulnerable.. He never lies.. Recovering BETAs out there, That’s your advantage. Play to your strengths. Bend reality. Up until the point when you don’t have to anymore. Have Fun. Break the rules, not the law. Stop being so fucking rigid.