I hopefully won’t be mauled by the moderators, but I want to share to the newbies. I had a lot of experience as one. Not an expert by any means, but this is what I learned and has been working for me. Do your own research, there’s a million videos online, weed out the BS, practice the basics. Few fundamentals practiced every day.

Thinking back, my parents never showed much affection to each other. Never touched or held hands as much as I can remember.. But they never fought and still happily (?) married, and still do daily crossword puzzles together and other activities. More like the kind of love my grandparents had.. But that type of love is over these days. I got my ass handed to me in my marriage. I guess that’s where I modeled my behavior… but that sh$t backfired and kept me in a dead bedroom for 10 years. It made me boring and predictable. When I started to apply Kino and learned its concepts, it felt amazing. Still does.

Girls like my wife have responsive desire. They respond to certain behaviors and the buildup of tension overtime. We see a hot girl and we automatically get a hard on and ready to go fuck, they see a d$ck and get disgusted. But GAME them for a few games (your wife) and then she is primed ready to go. You have to build the tension up in her mind. They love the tension. You have to let her know that her body is turning you on so badly and eventually you can’t take it anymore and just have to fuck her..You have to Game your wife. Build the tension. Push/pull her and use kino during the week. Search for "Creating your slut" by the family alpha.

Always be touching her: Looking back, I only touched my wife when I wanted to have sex…at night time. She saw it coming a mile away. I didn’t know what I was doing. I rarely hugged, kissed, put my arm around her shoulder, picked her up, held hands, guided her through the door, etc. I prouded myself on being the “perfect” gentlemen who never “bothered her” and always “treated her with respect”. – but who also never got laid.

Need to make it a point to touch her every day. When you do kino it doesn’t, and shouldn’t, always lead to sex. You doing this for yourself. Keeps you unpredictable.

-When walking through the threshold of a door (restaurant, etc..) lead her, but let her go through first, & put your hand on her lower back and guide her through the entrance way. The hand on the lower back is a great move to use. When out to eat with friends, double date, walking around, etc. She can feel it. Put it there likes it no big deal.

-Ass slap. Everyday. Use it playfully, especially if you just did AM, bonus points if you get “asshole” with a punch in the arm.. but keep on moving, don’t wait for a reaction. I slap her ass everyday now, it’s almost a habit. That’s called a Drive-By. She’ll eventually start doing it to you. Just yesterday, she said , “ wow, you already took out the trash? thanks.”. I simply said, “of course (ass slap…keep walking)”.

-Touch her anytime you pass her in the hallway or in a room, etc. You can also do the fist bump, pick her up and spin her a few times, pick her up and pin against the wall, counter, etc. kiss her, sometimes grind her hips or ass, etc. Doesn’t always have to be sexual. Mix it up. You can also do the cheers (toast) move at dinner time with glasses. Just fucking touch her.

The point is, you have to remind her that there is a man in the house at all times who wants to FUCK her. Not by words, by actions. I also want my boys (3 boys: 8, 6 (twins)) to see what a healthy marriage is supposed to look like so they can model themselves after me when they grow older. Of course, leave the sexual drive-bys out -in front of them... But they do see me gently spanking (patting) my wife’s ass in a light hearted way, or hugging her, or twirling her around like we’re dancing, or picking her up. Etc.

Other good moves that I do:

  1. I sit on the bar stools in our kitchen – mainly when I help the kids with homework- but also because my wife is short and I can pull her into me for some good kino moves. Sitting down at the stool, wrap your arm around her as she walks by for a short hug. If she is facing you and talking, sometimes I put my index finder out and put it into the top of her jeans and pull her towards me. Maybe a little ass grab or kiss, and then she’ll stop all the verbal intercourse she was spewing about her “bad day” at work. Kelly is such a bitch at work, Terry did this and that,, and you will also get credit for “listening…”. If kids aren’t in the room, pull her onto you like she is straddling you..while on the stool. Grind it. Have some cocky sayings..

  2. Have the radio on, and for no reason start spinning her around like an impromptu dance lesson. Is she starts dancing with the kids after that -bonus points.

  3. Pick her up like a little child, show her your strength, spin or carry her to a different room, put her on the sofa and kiss and maybe a little grind. But immediately get up and walk away acting all confidently and cocky. Have something to go do though. “I’m going to check on the kids..” don’t let it lead to sex.

  4. In the kitchen, go up behind her and kiss her neck, ass slap, grind on that ass, etc… I pick her up a lot and put her on the edge of the counter for a few seconds, having my way with her. Then immediately put her down like it’s nothing to you. Be cocky & playful with her.

  5. When passing her in the living room, if she’s sitting down finger fucking her phone, put your hand out and just graze it over her shoulder as you walk by. Let’s her know you are there.. Tell her your going to the garage to lift and to have these panties on when you get back.. Don’t look for a response. Eventually, she'll have them on for you.. :)

  6. By fun & flirty. Ask yourself ,” What would the guy – who’s she secretly cheating on you with- do in this situation?” and then do that. I was never touchy flirty with her, so that’s easy. Chad would be flirting with her, touching her in all different ways. It’s like cat nip for them. He would be cocky and playful.

  7. Kino has to be timed with her cycle though. I never do it around days 22-25. She gets pissy around that time. It backfires on me. I’ll keep the sex undertones low and just do a hug or something. Also never on days 1-3. Shark week, at least on the first 3 days, I don’t touch her at all. Let that sh$t bleed out. But days 4,5,6 I ramp it up big time. On Day 6, I always fuck her. Never fails. The night of day 5 and early in day 6, I’m telling her that I can’t wait to pull her panties off later that night, I’m so f$cking horny I can’t take it. Tell her you can’t wait to get home to fuck her hard. I’ll even send a sext during the day about what color panties she’s wearing, etc.

Coupled with good kino, her knowing that you are a touchy feely type person now whose all about sex, & when your social value starts to increase and dread kicks in…when you go out with the boys to the bar one night for a drink or two, she’ll make it a point to please you and beg you not to go…. Trust me