One of the changes I made after swallowing the pill was to only text my wife for logistics. I rarely ever talk to her anymore when I am at work or traveling, or doing anything where she isn't there unless there is a legitimate reason to contact her. Today, I made an exception and it worked out. There is also a good example of how disgusted women get by men complaining or doing anything that is a sign of weakness. She is visiting her family.

 

Text conversation:

 

Her: My dad is bitching... such a fucking whiny sissy lately. Sorry had to vent.
Me: (.)(.)
Me: Boobs
Me: (.) (.)
Me: Fake boobs
Her: Hmmm
Me: Hmmm
Me: Send me a boob pic then I can move on from this thought
Her: Wow! So this day is starting really badly!
Me: I can google boobs if that's easier for you
Her: I'm going to get you that picture you want

 

then.. nudes

 

Basically just an example of letting her talk and not engaging the feelings. Both of us ended up having fun. Turned a complaint from her into a boob pic for me.