I was like many of you, finding this place on my way to the dead bedrooms sub.

My stats: Married 16 years, 2 kids. Both wife and I are in our 40s. Took the red pill about 2 years ago. I read the sidebar here, I took responsibility and I GOT TO WORK ON ME.

End result? Marriage turned around. I have the wife I want, and I like the man I see looking back at me in the mirror.

Yes, there is always improvement to be made... and the work never ends.. but I think some of you need to hear that this MRP stuff works... if you do the work.

And that is the kicker. I come back to this sub to find posts saying how SHE is the problem? Arguing that being alpha or red pill isnt what is most important... and even making a case for the dad bod? Posts here where people are looking for shortcuts or another way....

bullshit.

Do the work. Read the books. Make your MAP. Post in the "Own your shit" thread. Take ALL the responsibility and fucking LIFT.

It really is that simple.