I'm convinced that what often throws newbies off track from the mrp journey, often right from the start, is an inherent incongruence between what Newbs initially think MRP is... and what it actually is.

The discordance stems from how MRP is typically encountered by a newbie desperately seeking a "Sexual Strategy" (aka, "how can i make her fuck me??")... as opposed to its actual reason for being and true value: an unparalleled resource providing education and practical training manual for improving one's life, body, mind, and masculinity.

Which is the more attractive proposition to a Desperate Noob?

  • (Sexual Strategy positioning:) "If I do this stuff, it'll finally get her pussy all quivering and dripping all over me, every night, without me ever having to ask or pester? Who do I make the check out to?”

Versus:

  • (Self/masculine improvement positioning): "Do a shitload of hard work than I'm used to doing, or want to do, every day, forever. And after all that, have “OI” where I don’t care whether or not she fucks me.”

And it's here that the two species of Newbs diverge:

Eyes-Opened Newb, and the Forever Beta.

The Open-Eyed Newb at some point grasps that the 'sexual' part of the strategy is a side-effect. A bonus. An add-on, a nice-to-have, but not the main game. Even if that was the main (or only) game that brought them here.

The Forever Beta on the other hand, having placed that pussy so high up that pedestal, doesn't realise that the main game is about something so much bigger than whether you can trick her into stomaching the thought of fucking your fat ass yet again.

The crucial distinction: the Open-Eyed quickly (or slowly) gets that this so-called ‘sexual strategy' really isn't. A side-effect of undertaking all this boldness, risk, work and effort may be more/better sex with your wife.

There is no guarantee whatsoever that if you're owning all your shit, leading everywhere, lifting to Strong + Ripped status, happy with yourself and in charge of your life .. nope. Even then. There is still no guarantee that your wife will open wide and say Insert Cock Here.

But-- it sure as fuck is likely to be a side effect. And even if it's not - and this is critical - it's all OK. Maybe she'll come around later, maybe she won't come around at all - if she doesn't, i have more options than I've ever had, regardless. If she fucks me, great. If she doesn't fuck me: I'm still good.

In exactly the same way, hitting the snooze button 3 times in a row and X-Box'ing and Craft-Brewing and Stained-T-Shirting your days away ... giving up responsibility and leadership at home (and not even noticing that you have) ... and generally sleep-walking through life as shit-eating schlub ... none of that guarantees that your wife will never, ever fuck you again -- but it sure as fuck is likely to be a side-effect of doing so.

The real value of MRP... the value that Open-Eyed Newbs start to sense (and yes, quite likely with some disappointment that this shit isn't going to be anywhere near as easy as hoped)... the value that becomes clear to them, while the Forever Beta goes back to the locked bathroom, furiously slapping his cock back and forth, staying pissed off and sad and lost...the value of these 'strategies' isn't the side-effects.

It's the effects.

TL/DR: Every man has a sexual strategy, and the results indicate what matters most to him in life. Interestingly, the potentially most effective one, isn’t really predicated on sex at all.