The wife and I were in bed this moring cuddling. [Edit: After caressing her all over for about 15 minutes...] .....I pull down her shirt and begin to suck on her tits (which she usually responds positively to). She just lays there (not moving away but not moving towards me - so starfish).

I stop (as I am annoyed with this total lack of involvement) and she slowly turns over with her back to me. Now I could have escalated and fuck her (which is the norm in this scenario) but I was not in the mood for table scraps. So I got up and left the bedroom to start my day.

She eventually comes into the kitchen and asks "So, what did I do?". My response, "Absolutely nothing is what you did." She then stomps off as she was not satisfied with my answer.

So I then fucked up and "talked" with her about our exchange later this morning. Bad idea - fuck me. I'll spare you the details cause as you can guess, nothing was resloved.

As I improve myself and my standards, I expect more. I was not asking for porn star sex, but I am not into fucking a warm but lifeless body anymore. Gents, thoughts? [BTW, we did have sex on Thursday night which was enthusiastic and started with a bj. She used that as one excuse to mail in the starfish this morning.]

TLDR; Wife mails in starfish. I turn it down and then fuck up by talking. Advice?

EDIT: Okay. Sooooo, I probabaly should have added more details between cuddling and titty sucking. MY BAD. I am not a retard and don't just pull out my wife's tits and start sucking - was going for brevity in the post. This was also an attempt at a morning quickie - not a 2hr sweaty fuckfest. Thanks for the responses so far - especially the gents with advice on responding to statfish.