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The Trope of the Beta Male Married Husband

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February 15, 2016
48 upvotes

I like browsing r/all sometimes. I'll usually find a couple of cute animal videos to show my wife. Inevitably, some incredibly beta male whining will always show up.

Case in point - https://np.reddit.com/r/AdviceAnimals/comments/45taqf/my_wife_was_very_surprised_on_valentines_day_this/

Never once is it pointed out that the guys bitching about not getting their dicks suck most likely aren't guys who's dicks are worth sucking. Choreplay, begging, blah blah blah. These guys get married and the first thing they decide to do is become incredibly unattractive.

Which brings me to my point. The reason it's so easy to fuck married women is the same reason it's so easy to fuck women with boyfriends. When a woman is single, your competition is everyone. When a woman is "committed", your competition is only 1 person. And I'd bet that that 1 person is most likely a gigantic boring turd. So when CHAD or Senile CAD (shoutout to 60year old+) rocks up and decides he wants her... holy shit. It's like eating Michelin star food after you've been eating frozen dinners for the past 9 years.

Which brings me to my second point. If your wife is fucking someone else or looking to fuck someone else, consider for a moment that you're a guy that deserves to be cheated on. If your wife is as high quality as you'll likely claim she is, then doesn't she deserve someone better than the sad sack of shit that you are? Now, if you're fucking awesome, then don't you deserve better than the lying, cheating, ungrateful harpy that is your cuntbag? In which case, why haven't you lawyered up yet? Because the truth of the matter is this, it's more likely the former instead of the latter.

You, my dear anonymous reader, are most likely the type of guy that deserves to be cheated on. Your wife, most likely, still for some god forsaken reason is putting up with your weak shit. So when your wife fucks another dude because you suck, why are you going to get all pissy at your wife? Why aren't you pissy at yourself? "She promised! Our vows!" you can whine. But I can guarantee you that her vows and her promises weren't to the sad sack of shit you are, they were to the great guy she thought she was going to marry. And I'm sure that your vows weren't to the harpy piece of shit that sits on the couch and eats potato chips all day either.

So take action. Either sit there, whine, mope, and complain about how it's unfair. Or go put in the time, energy, and effort to be the guy who isn't worth cheating on - the guy who can dump her ass and pick up that slut Debby from next door no problemo while your wife gets her shit out of your house.

tl;dr - most of you guys deserve to get cheated on.

Sidenote: tl;dr's devalue your efforts.


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Title The Trope of the Beta Male Married Husband
Author whinemoreplease
Upvotes 48
Comments 33
Date 15 February 2016 06:19 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit MarriedRedPill
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/200345
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/45v64p/the_trope_of_the_beta_male_married_husband/
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[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (8 children) | Copy

Man, you're like one of those infrared paint strippers. Scary to handle, but oh the results!!

This made me stand up a little straighter this morning. Nice one.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (7 children) | Copy

Good, you're one of the few guys in here that truly deserves attaboys.

il est tres puissant ousti.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (6 children) | Copy

Merci! Je crois que vous avez raison de la puissance. Moi, je le sais maintenant.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

lol, tout le monde l'ont... eventuelment

de fer aiguisez de fer

[–]bogeyd6MRP MODERATOR2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

really froggies?

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

Let me paraphrase- "if a man is tired of French, he is tired of life."

[–]ford_contourMarried- MRP MODERATOR4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Much like "If a wizard had grown tired of checking his food for poison, and his bed for traps, he has grown tired of life itself. "

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Old Canadian/Maine proverb:

You can always tell he's French, cause you can't tell him anything.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

As we say up here: "stubborn frenchman". I work around them everyday.

[–]FearDearg2015Married- MRP MODERATOR8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

"everyone gets what they deserve"

[–]cj_aubreyMRP APPROVED5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

consider for a moment that you're a guy that deserves to be cheated on

Before things got bad and I found a solution here, I freely decided to be blue pill in my life and my marriage. That was a choice I made. For me, one of the most appealing blue pill lies was that I could retire from the sexual market place on a defined benefit scheme and have a steady supply of contractually obligated sex without working to maintain SMV or her attraction. Marriage was a way to pussy out. I'll never know if she cheated, and these days I don't care what she does because of what I've learned here, but I don't think it would be reasonable to hold it against her if she did.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Funny, it's how I hear talk from most of my old sailor buddies. That pension allows for an easy life after 20 years of bullshit. Ignore the calwbacks to severance, pension terms, quality of life etc...

that life of ignoble ease, where you actually get to watch the goalposts moved in real time, and have to continually lie to yourself in order to believe it

[–]cj_aubreyMRP APPROVED0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

where you actually get to watch the goalposts moved in real time, and have to continually lie to yourself in order to believe it

Sounds like my marriage before mrp.

[–]red-pill-man4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't think the most guys if you look deep down into it have an issue with the cheating per se....it's the fact that she didn't leave before she did it or divorce raped him afterwards.

AF/BB is the core issue.

[–]dandar4600Unplugging5 points6 points  (7 children) | Copy

That thread you linked to is a comedy gold especially the replies to a comment about BJ being version of a gay handshake. Your post though is nothing more than a red pill version of a pussy pass.

Some women will cheat on an awesome guy for the thrill of it, some because the other guy is simply different. Don't excuse her cheating on you being a loser. I was a loser for 9 of 12 years of my marriage and she hasn't cheated on me...as far as I know that is.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

I argue cheating as a blessing in disguise. It cuts to the core of men, and forces them to make a decision, one way or another.

I imagine that the alternative is a life of quiet desperation, and that would scare me more. Like a neutered dog in a cage, no danger, no nothing. At least the one that was thrown in a pit to fight gets to live or die by his own hand.

[–]ZeeyardSAUnplugging0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I argue cheating as a blessing in disguise. It cuts to the core of men, and forces them to make a decision, one way or another.

This is the Gospel mate. If i never find out about her past(Technically not cheating but she lied to me before we got married) I would have never become the man I am today!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

can't hamster another dick in her ass, that's for sure.

[–]Chump_No_MoreHard Core Nuclear Navy Red0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yup, worked for me!

Its takes trauma (such as cheating) to break down those BP ego investments and make you open to swallowing the RP.

Nope, you can't make a horse drink, or lead him to water... he has to get there on his own.

[–]Sadbeary0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I was half hoping she was cheating when I last had "the talk" as a good BP husband. It would have meant "there are no rules" and unleashing a scorched earth policy would have been amusing and cathartic. Subsequently in recent learnings I know "there are no rules" anyway and I don't need cathartic I just need happy...I now live by my own rules.

You don't need infidelity to shock you out of a BP mindset, it will get you there quicker but I prefer the path I am on.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is true. Whether or not she cheats is irrelevant. It's very possible she won't cheat. It speaks to the quality of the woman. Ideally you're with a high quality woman.

The point is, if you're a loser don't get butthurt if the woman decides to fuck someone else.

[–]BluepillProfessorMarried-MRP MODERATOR5 points6 points  (5 children) | Copy

Let me chime in on this victim blaming stuff because I never liked it. I understand the utility of MRP having plenty of guys who engage in this victim blaming but I take the side of the slaves, not the masters.

Yes, men need to "MAN UP" and stand up to their wives. However, you are demanding that slaves revolt. You are practically a "free black" who walks onto a Southern plantation, sees all the "niggas" working under the whip and says:

It is all the slave's fault. All he has to do is stop working and take his extended bullwhipping, stand up to a lifetime of social conditioning, confront the culture, media and 95% of society, risk his life, livelihood, and the tiny fraction of happiness he has worked his entire life to create, reject almost everything he has been taught about women for his entire life, ignore the friends and family who abandon him and tell him how he hates women, jump into the abyss with a real possibility of losing the right to see his children and getting thrown out of his house ALL to pursue a completely illogical course of action of Dread and Abundant Confidence that should NOT and would NOT work with any sane human.

Before you do all this you have to take the pill and realize that your wife, the woman you love, is indeed insane by your standards, that she doesn't really love you as you have been promised, and that if you treat her dismissively and like a bratty teenager- the only woman you have ever loved- then her vagina will explode in fluids for you.

Also, she will LIE over and over and over and over again that this is NOT what she really wants. She will Shit Test you to oblivion the second you try to leave the plantation. She will tell you how she doesn't like your attitude. She will continue and accelerate her instinctual drive to use sex in order to control you. Your mother will call you to ask why you are ruining your marriage. Your sisters will tell you over and over and over again that you need to be NIIIIICE to your woman. EVERY SINGLE WOMAN IN YOUR LIFE HAS TOLD YOU TO "treat her with respect" and "do lots of choreplay" and "girls don't really like tatooed bad boy bikers, that is just sluts." No problem! Just do everything with total iron frame and a confident, IDGAF attitude of abundance.

Also, nigga, you need to stand up to your wife who has superior verbal skills and even though you have no close friends while she has the magic vagina that she slings around to get what she wants like a prostitute, and an extensive social network assuring her to "you go girl" and "you don't got to put up with no shit from a man."

Oh yes, she also has TOTAL legal and physical control over you AND your children. She can make a phone call and have you taken into jail at any time she chooses. She can take the kids and leave ANY time. She can file a piece of paper with no opposition that prevents you from even going into your house or seeing your kids. She can even steal all your assets and money BEFORE she throws you out She can attack you, injure you to the point blood runs freely down your face and then call the police.

TLDR: Man up niggas.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

You think the victim is the guy getting cheated on.

I think the victim is the woman having to deal with Joe Pansy.

Nothing disgusts me more than a person who views themselves as helpless, without choice, and as a perpetual victim. In every situation, we have choice. It may just be that the result of the choices are all bad.

[–]yestheman12 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I agree completely. I see the victim as the woman who has to put up with a passive, boring, out-of-shape beta with a shit job who probably whines about his pathetic life. Just as I see a husband as a victim if his wife is a golddigging complainer who gained 100 pounds and can't bother to get out off the couch to even attempt to do a little work around the house. I don't know why so many people set up cheating as the ultimate evil, when in reality living with a repulsive person on a daily basis is far worse.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I was thinking of it more as a St. Crispin's Day speech kind of thing.

[–]Redneck001MRP APPROVED0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Somebody recently watched Straight Outta Compton.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Oh yeah - preach it brotha !

[–]yestheman11 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

While I'll say some women are just going to cheat no matter what, I agree with this post. My theory is that women are so desperate to "nest" / "pair up" or whatever you want to call it, that they'll pair up with virtually anybody who isn't too horrible if the situation is right (and who shows them interest) just to be paired up. So, they end up pairing up with low value guys, or at guys who eventually become low value. Of course, that doesn't mean women suddenly stop becoming hypergamous, so they are still open a higher quality guy, and will gladly jump at that chance, regardless of what ring is on their finger.

I'm currently talking to a girl who was with a guy for a year. As they were celebrating their one year dating anniversary she was literally texting me all day even though we met only a few days earlier. Now he's history.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Solid post.

Sidenote: tl;dr's devalue your efforts.

I agree and have stopped adding them.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You are preaching to the choir. Consider putting a softer version of this in DB or even putting this as a sidebar in asKMRP.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You are a mean man. Dont you know that womens sexually strategy is sacred and must be kept secret?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

And the best part? If you are that high quality guy, and she still goes off and fucks the pool boy, you don't have to worry, you can replace her with another one, sans saggy tits and BPD.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Senile Chad. I think I like it. If I can remember it, I might change my username.

When a woman is "committed", your competition is only 1 person. And I'd bet that that 1 person is most likely a gigantic boring turd.

That is 90% correct. Always exceptions.

I can say for certain, I seldom took on a woman that had better at home.



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