So now it is my turn to get exposed.
I think my last FR was not about her having heard that I was trying to sleep with other women - she'd found out about MRP and she came up with that lie to fuck with me, and give her an excuse to yell at me and threaten to leave in front of the kids.
A little twist here is that we talked a few times about the time she saw me spend on reading and writing on the internet, and I never said that it was the red pill just some "male space stuff" but I told her exactly and several times that it was private and that it wasn't a closed forum so I relied on anynomity. Any attempt on her part to read what I wrote online I would consider like her recording my private conversations or reading a diary, so she really shouldn't do that.
So when she did find it, she read my stuff for 4 days, in secret, and on top made up a story about an infidelity rumor so she could bitch about something. This is of course about her getting her feelz out, not actually dealing with a problem, or even protecting the kids.
As expected, she got just about everything wrong. She doesn't understand what dread is, she thinks it is literal dread. She thinks IDGAF is not giving a fuck about her instead of shit tests and rejection. And so on and so forth.
She's really confused. She's threatened to leave, she's begged for another child in 3 different ways, she's mentioned having a joint RP blog, she's kissed and hugged me and been tense and rejecting, she's sucked dick and been fucked.
I've explained a bit of the MRP way and I've given her MMSLP to read. She's shit testing a lot, especially if the talk even suggests how little she did to get our marriage working again she yells "then leave and go find a girl in her 20s to fuck" and my patience is getting worn thin; but it is probably a good idea to get some of the worst misconceptions out of the way. At one point she even used as an argument what she had read on the Huff Post, haha.
I'm really getting to study the hamster here. Our marriage is working. Everyone is happy. But now she's snooped in her husbands private communication and read the very stuff that fixed things, and that has to be made into a problem.
One of tonight's favorite conversations:
Her: (we should do things my way)
Me: One of the main things I did wrong before was listen to you.
Her: No, I always told you to initate sex more often.
Me: And when I did, you said no.
Her: Yes, but you should have just pushed through that, like you began doing.
Me: So I shouldn't listen to you?
Guys, I know, I know, this doesn't register with her, but it was funny. And damn I wish I had it on tape for all the bloopers.
We'll see what tomorrow brings.
UPDATE
Batshit crazy morning, followed by some reconciliation. A few more misunderstandings to clear up during the day as she kept reading. She was still frosty most of the evening, but we ended up watching some TV together, deep kissing and exchanging "I love you"s. Oh and shark week just began, that's some great timing.
She's been reading some RPW, though she thinks they're silly and weak. She says they only talk about being better at house chores like that is the most ridiculous thing ever, though she had to admit that it was very high on her wish list that I did more around the house, but that is different because feminism. Afterwards I though about why she's focusing on the most trivial stuff that is easy to make fun of and skipping all the feminine demeanor stuff that is the most important (for her at least, she's very neat and hard working). I guess she felt she should do something constructive but soon realized it would require work so she looked for a way to dodge responsibility for contributing to a happy marriage. Who would've thought it?
UPDATE 2
She read about TRP and MRP in a magazine, so it wasn't my OPSEC that failed.
UPDATE 3
Looks like the storm is over and things are good again.
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