So got a throwaway. Don't like the idea of doxxing, especially not with personal stuff attached.

7 year LTR, she is a Mexican national 28f, parents were Canadian snow birds, her first 13 years in rural Baja. Fairly non fem.

Not NAWALT, but never had the red flags I've nexted. Others for

Me? 12 years navy, 35yo, been catch and release until I was 29. Always been pretty good at rp, raised on a ranch, abundance mentality etc

Relationship has had a rough year, though not nearly as bad as what e seen here.

Bout of depression, anxiety and borderline alcohol problems. Work related, CO tried to flex his muscles, tried to get me charged with some espionage level shit, had to engage this prey high up to get some justice... Won't get into it...

Either way, managed to keep just enough of me together to keep us together. She put up with more than most, though were some serious shit tests and hypergamy, details if you want...

Either way, pretty much in the clear now. Nuclear dread about a month ago, she kept getting worse until finally I pointed out I was better, and bring her back to the captain first mate or end it now, not going to be disrespected in my own house... Now, switching back to private sector, financially solid setup. Back to normal and handling my house (or not apparently)


She has her old friend from home town bachelorette party. Calls me two in the morning, tells me she ran into old friend... Long story short, ended up holding hands and kissing him, he's married... Will never know if this is trickle truth or not...

Not sure how to process this. Financially, we are good, no kids... Still logistically a hassle to separate... Provincial government doesn't recognise common law, and there's no pension to go after...

So she came clean, right away, racked with guilt. Obviously the apology to alleviate her guilt, and not for me. At the same time, started 10m later with her needs. Wants a kid in 5 years (I've never lied, not for me, and if she's that passionate about it, I'll under stands and good luck)

Either way, pick get up from the airport tonight.. I personally don't care, which is weird, but at the same time, I see this for the watershed moment it is...

Either way, posting because I'm at Physio, and my good friend I usually talk to is in a classified space, so he's not reachable until tonight