I'll give a bit of background.

  • She firmly follows my Captain/First Mate dynamic.

  • Backs my opinions in public.

  • Sex all the time.

  • Knows I'm the prize.

  • Cooks, cleans, shops for my home. (Does not live with me.)

  • Knows I won't ever marry. Cool with that. (Says she believes in that as well.)

  • Wants kids, is mother material.

  • No social media of any kind.

  • No orbiters.

  • She is 28.

She is basically a Red Pill Women. We have a great relationship. No drama. (Any other questions, feel free.)

To expand on my question:

She said to me over dinner last night that she is getting antsy (in life), and wants to travel somewhere to volunteer, to do some good in the world; eg, help people in Africa, help animals, etc. Roughly for about a month, depending on the "course" she chooses.

It's possible this is because her clock is set to have kids, and this antsy'ness is based from her biological instinct to be raising children right now. And for the moment, has no goals set or direction.

I'm automatically going to assume a loaded gun here. If she goes, she's away from her dominate male, and might find comfort in another man while there.

My question is:

Should I silently demote her when/if that happens, and sleep with other women? Or should I tell her we are non-exclusive while she's gone?

And then when she comes back, would putting her back in LTR status be okay? Even if she potentially slept with someone while away?


Any feedback greatly appreciate from this beautiful Red Pill universe of wisdom.