A few months back I was at a social gathering with work. I met a girl there who works at the same company. I sat next to her and I must have been in the zone while she was ready for some fun I guess, because whatever I did; she loved it.

We made out and I took her home to my place that same night.

She tells her heartbreaking story of her going through a divorce and how her ex is a pure blooded villain. Her description of him? Text book dark triad, but with some violence issues. They have two kids and he is making big money in finance.

She becomes a plate and we both agree that relationships are not on the table. She is a fun girl and intelligent, but she could use some hours in the gym.

Over a few months I get front row tickets to a bloody and brutal divorce rape that I wish upon no man.

He beats up his new girlfriend and the neighbors call the cops. The guy is obviously an idiot, and she plays him hard. My girl suddenly has the best cards on the planet. She gets half his shit and the kids full-time, and he has to dance to her tune at all times.

At some point I become worried.

She is sweet and good to, me but she wants to break this guy to pieces. What if the heat turns towards me? I work in the same company as her and you know how the saying goes. It's not the US so it wouldn't be crazy times, but it's not a good thing to have on your internal resume.

Anyway... She gets the money from her ex, buys a little palace for her and the kids and decides she now wants a relationship. She knows my view on it so she ends it with me and says she's happy for our uncomplicated time together.

I never really had a plate before so this was a trial in many ways. There were so many things that could have went wrong and I came out of this perfectly and just the way I wanted.

This was nothing advanced so anyone could do it. But for me, on a personal level, there was a lot of small things I learned - all basically related to frame control. She reacted to it like a script.

And with her ex and that whole story; like a script. It was a fascinating experience and even though it was brutal and numbing to watch; it was so much real life experience to soak up.

Is she a terrible person? Not at all - she is a woman and All Woman Are Like That.

Accept it and play with fire. Or go your own way. We are all just prisoners here of our own device.

It's so delicious to see how the matrix unfolds and how it flows around us like a brutal, mechanical butterfly.