Weird dudes always fall in love with me. Help.

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June 3, 2017

So I've been posting a lot but again I really don't know where else to go...?

This is short and if you could spare some thoughts that'd be great.

I am mostly straight/bi/idk. I have a feminine side I am 'pretty' and not super masc though I am masc. I have a certain artist Kurt Cobain look or something and I just find that weird dudes fall in love with me. Dudes that are kind of awkward, in to weird stuff, have a lot of ideas, are maybe gay or bi without knowing, but basically are clearly enthralled by me.

This doesn't really work on girls. I guess I have to own myself more and show more masculinity for it to work (and the cool artist side is just a plus). I don't really know.. thoughts?

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Title Weird dudes always fall in love with me. Help.
Author Sbdaq
Upvotes 7
Comments 4
Date 03 June 2017 09:05 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

You intentionally try to look alternative and then complain when other people who are genuinely alternative think you have something in common? How about you drop the act and dress like somebody you actually can relate to. I'm thinking Nikki minaj or Kim Kardashian would suit you based on the quality of this post.

[–]Sbdaq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Classic response. This is really great. But nah it's not accurate, i am genuinely alternative whatever that means. I'm more like talking about a specific sort of subgenre of dudes and I'm wondering if any of you notice it/identify with it. I partially identify with it (which I don't really like)

The kind of dudes who might be gay when they're really high/drunk and an attractive dominant guy makes a move on them. More concerned with ideas and beauty or whatever than the sex and power that has been kept from them they're entire lives and have somewhat given up on. Not to say the former aren't legitimate interests , but yeah anyways

Wondering if anyone has any thoughts on these dudes. Are they straight? Gay? Does their sexuality have nothing to do with it? Are they leaning more gay because being straight isn't working out for them? Etc

[–]hatessw2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you're into guys, you can let them swarm you.

If you're into girls, you're going to have to do the work, most likely. Otherwise, you'd have to rely on luck.

Complaining that weird dudes are into you suggests to me that you're just not putting in the work w.r.t. girls. If you think you are, I wonder if you've just gotten a warped view of how easy it should be due to your 'idk' interest in guys.

Note that by 'work' I don't primarily mean going to the gym, cultivating interests against your wishes, styling your hair, whatever... I just mean putting yourself out there a lot. Bars. Dating apps. Talking to friends of friends. All of those, really.

[–]davmpls0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You've learned what your look attracts. Can you change your look?

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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