I read a comment on another post by one of you saying that you pretty much disregard any advice when it comes to transferring from the hetero world and applying it in your guy/guy personal lives
This is a post comment I'm talking about:
"Well that's a rule for Hetero and I can see why it exist.
I HATE ( I generally try to stay away from Hetero ways of doing/thinking) to say this -- I some what apply this to bottoms. I don't think it's right or good for a guy I'm interested in to be taking dick like that on the regular. The ideal/fantasy guy is one who never though to much about bottoming -- until they meet me. Your booty hole is supposed to be a special place that only 'worthy' men have access to."
I really like this a lot because I've been trying to apply the coach corey wayne teachings of understanding relationships but he is pretty emphatic "the phone is for setting dates only"
So in 2016, no banter, no chatting, no trying to connect over the texting medium is getting pretty cold, quiet, dare I say lonely. Is that the point? Become a strong man but never talk to any potential relationship partners simply because chit/chatting over text can only devalue your attractive mysterious persona?
Honestly I wish there was a better resource for relating and becoming more successful with guys.