Oh boy...I hate to be Debbie Downer here, but observing the way my sister's girlfriend (let's call her Taci) treats her makes me feel a little uneasy.
It's not that Taci treats her badly, I just don't think she takes my sister very seriously. Besides that, I caught Taci checking me out at one point. Not that it matters, but I just feel that someone who apparently doesn't know which way they swing, someone who is still searching themselves, would be highly unsuitable for something as rock-solid and binding as marriage.
In all, my sister is definitely a beta-esque individual. She says that her relationship with Taci caused her necessity for anti-depressants to dwindle. She makes decisions that revolve around being with/near Taci as much as possible. She literally said that she had to compulsively paint while Taci went away for a week because she didn't want to lose her mind.
It all just seems very shaky and uncertain for a reliable marriage, and god forbid my sister go through something as painful as divorce. But then again, this is what I observe from the outside. I could be way off about how things actually are, and I need to know my place before suggesting anything, if I can even do that.
Please tell me if I'm being rational or not.