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My sister wants to propose to her girlfriend, both of whom are 21. I think she's going to do it within the next year. I don't think it will work out in the end.

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December 14, 2014
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Oh boy...I hate to be Debbie Downer here, but observing the way my sister's girlfriend (let's call her Taci) treats her makes me feel a little uneasy.

It's not that Taci treats her badly, I just don't think she takes my sister very seriously. Besides that, I caught Taci checking me out at one point. Not that it matters, but I just feel that someone who apparently doesn't know which way they swing, someone who is still searching themselves, would be highly unsuitable for something as rock-solid and binding as marriage.

In all, my sister is definitely a beta-esque individual. She says that her relationship with Taci caused her necessity for anti-depressants to dwindle. She makes decisions that revolve around being with/near Taci as much as possible. She literally said that she had to compulsively paint while Taci went away for a week because she didn't want to lose her mind.

It all just seems very shaky and uncertain for a reliable marriage, and god forbid my sister go through something as painful as divorce. But then again, this is what I observe from the outside. I could be way off about how things actually are, and I need to know my place before suggesting anything, if I can even do that.

Please tell me if I'm being rational or not.


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Title My sister wants to propose to her girlfriend, both of whom are 21. I think she's going to do it within the next year. I don't think it will work out in the end.
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Date 14 December 2014 03:23 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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