What are your thoughts on the height difference between gay couples? For me personally, there is absolutely no way in hell I would ever be comfortable dating someone taller than 6'1. I'm 5'11 and feel as though I'm much more comfortable being a top / playing "alpha". If the guy is too tall...I feel like I would need to submit to him and I have not done that yet.
Secretly, I think that's what I really want but I haven't met a guy that I think could fill that role. Being topped by anyone less masculine than I am just feels weird.
I'm also not crazy about people significantly shorter. It's "feminine" to me in some sort of way, and even though they're bottoming, I can't help but feel like I can do better and find someone closer to my height.
Dating people of a similar height feels more "comfortable". He can submit sexually to me, because that is the frame I am comfortable in, but it is not immediately obvious to society...because that would be feminine.
How tall are the guys you're attracted to?