Before I get to the point, I just want to say how weird it is that I found this topic. I started to become "game aware" a few years back. As a gay male, the first piece to click was straight relationships. As I began to master them, understanding gay men became easier as a result.
Prior to finding this reddit community, I was constantly searching for the "manosphere" and how it applies to gay relationships. I could not find it anywhere. About a year and a half ago, I wrote the letter into Rolo at the Rational Male. There was a topic here with a discussion around it.
At the time, I was planning on the letter to him being completely anonymous. It's strange to be establishing an identity within a new community on the basis of something so controversial lol. But..if I understand reddit correctly - this is a community where anything goes. So here I am. The gay stripper who was trying to master game theory in order to exploit wealthy gay men. LMAO.
I remember him telling me he was interested in the topic and would formulate a response soon. I never heard back from him, but it turns out, he posted it on his blog four months later.
Let me tell you....FINALLY stumbling upon a community with similar views is great enough as it is. But to then find a topic within that community already talking about the email you sent out in a desperate attempt at obtaining advice? I feel like I'm dreaming....
It's nice to meet all of you.
So to the point:
Narcissus88 wrote a very comment on that thread with some proper advice. He said that I needed to be more upfront about wanting to get money. He nailed it on the HEAD with my exact train of thought!
I was going in for the "long haul" and did not want to be too obvious about being a gold digger. I felt like being so honest about something like that would lower my value and make successful men not be interested in me.
I have some good news. Rather than taking the advice of all the people on the Rational Male comment section (many of which said I would need to resort to bottoming in order to extract cash), I instead became more alpha.
I started demanding cash...and honestly, they started paying up.
So, if you any of you were looking to cash in on wealthy guys...the general framework is laid out in the first post...and followed up with confirmation in this one.
I'm interested in hearing other success stories, lol...