I don't want to write a whole sob story of a love life out for you all, there's no point in complaining about the past. I've started to learn, now having the right lens to view things through. I've been reading a lot of posts here recently ever since I saw the stickied post on /r/TheRedPill. I've finally cut ties with a female I had severe oneitis for/orbited for several months, and gave me nothing but heartache.

I've realized the true motivations behind most if not all of my relationships with females, and I've started the path to no longer orbiting women. I've started to understand where appropriate boundaries should lie, and that I shouldn't be a push over not just in my romantic life, but all of it.

Thank you all for your collective writings. I am sure I am not alone in the solace I have found. I am valuable, and my actions should reflect my inherent value.