I had a fairly RP upbringing (really alpha dad) and grew up in a more conservative culture (Russia). When I came to America and started having to shut up rather than say common sense stuff (RP), I felt ashamed because I thought I was some backwards immigrant who doesn't know how to be civilized.
I came here a few months back from one of those "what is the worst subreddit" threads and I have to say, thank you. Up until I came here I was trying to brainwash myself into a BP mindset out of a misguided idea that Americans are expected to act this way (misguided because the expectations are real but come from people who need to be ignored). Now I realize it's just a symptom of cultural decay. I went back to my upbringing/instincts and honestly have never been happier or more successful.
By the way, I am not trying to shit on American culture. My family came here with antiquated and rosy visions of a Mad Men style America in our heads , but New York has a toxically liberal cultural environment these days. The actual American men I met (to me this is someone of western European background who lives in the interior) tend to be much more culturally fit than white New Yorkers.
there doesn't seem to be anything here