Caught wife in a lie this morning. She visited some guy at a mall with her friend who’s in from out of town visiting. From my post history you will know my wife has been lying to be for awhile.
After finding out I told her I was going to go out for some time by myself but didn’t tell her where, when she asked why I said I just needed to get some fresh air.
Her friend leaves in 5 hours or so to go to the airport, I planned on going back after 5 hours and telling wife to pack a bag and GTFO.
My question is, should I do this or is it emotional, passive aggressive behavior? Last week I told her if she lied to me again there would be consequences and I’m afraid if I don’t stand my ground and make good on my word I won’t ever be able to take myself seriously. But I’m emotional and don’t want to make some stupid proclamation I think will help but is actually a Beta move.
Thanks in advance.
Edit: wife called and accused me of being with my female co-worker and demanded I delete her from my life and don’t talk to her again. I could give a fuck about this girl she’s talking about, but she’s trying gain leverage over me by saying I’m digging through her life because I’m ashamed of my own. Wtf? I’m too new to know what the proper way to handle all of this is.