This may seem like a brag/troll post but it is not my intent. I'm truly wondering how many other married RPers here have happy, successful marriages? I have always had the frame that I would "do whatever the fuck I want whenever I want" within reason of course, but it has remained that way my entire 12 year total relationship, 8 years married. I still party very hard and travel a lot solo while having a 3 year old. The only thing I cannot do right now is fuck other women, but I am working on that and have even got her out to a swingers club.
My life's passion is personal development so I'm sure that accounts for most of the reason of my success. I have read hundreds of PD books and am always striving to be the best version of myself possible. I'm not filthy stinking rich, but I technically don't have to work and we are quite comfortable with us both only working part-time, which also probably helps a lot in having a successful relationship.
I have also only somewhat recently got into lifting (2 years in) and am the biggest and most in shape of my life. I'm a bit confused as to why the focus is always lift when I feel you need to get your inner/mental game on point before any and all else.
I know supposedly AWALT, but I feel I might have found one that isn't. Extremely low drama, low maintenance and an amazing woman. If we ever divorce I'll report back how I was wrong, but I found TRP only a few years back so i was already legally married and all that. Any and all comments welcome! Flame on :)