LTR asks for me to call her out on bratty, childish behavior

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January 17, 2019

LTR, 28, of a little over 2 years has the habit of acting child like at least once a month in the past 6 months or so, most of the time it's her making up stories in her head, e.g. her insecurities to authority figures as far as I can tell. She recognizes this as something that isn't going to fly and has suggested that she will seek therapy to help her get over it. She also has asked me to call her on her shit. My thoughts are that she should own her own shit.

Instead of me overtly telling her shes fucking up, I'll just remove my attention. From NMMNG, instead of harping to her request, I'll do the opposite.

Should her request be interpreted as a shit test or a healthy way for her to defer to my leadership in the relationship?

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Title LTR asks for me to call her out on bratty, childish behavior
Author kngtco
Upvotes 8
Comments 25
Date 17 January 2019 06:53 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]TaipanshimshonRed Beret26 points27 points  (1 child) | Copy

Her asking you to handle it for her IS her owning her shit.

Asking her to own her own shit is this case is like telling her to just masturbate and not bother you after she asks you to “please fuck me daddy”

[–]chomponthebit1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agreed. I’m trying to curb a list bad behaviours gleaned from How to Win Friends & Seven Habits and have asked some trusted coworkers to call me out whenever I unconsciously revert. They’re super easygoing and it has helped immensely

[–]tikitheman14 points15 points  (11 children) | Copy

Sounds like she wants to be dominated. Bratty subs are a thing.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (9 children) | Copy

We are into kinky shit, she likes being dominated, tied up, gags, hair pulled, fucked in the ass, etc. I'll take this as her wanting more of it.

[–]tikitheman9 points10 points  (4 children) | Copy

Yeah mans this is textbook bratty sub behavior. Look it up read about it. Gurantee she has rape fantasys.

[–]CaliEd2562 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

This. My girl cums when I hit her. Feels fucked up unless I have a couple drinks in me. They’re all about the dominance.

[–]tikitheman2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hehehe yep mine too.

[–]FeralRed0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

My main sub gets slapped across the face if my cock leaves her mouth when she's on her knees.

It "falls out" once or twice a session.

Be aware of the flipped "topping from the bottom" dynamic.

[–]tikitheman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah topping from the bottom is trouble.

[–]CaliEd2564 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

You can probably segue this into threesomes and a one-sided one relationship. Her being dominated will eventually lead into a Stockholm Syndrome set up. Aka you fuck the other girl and she derives true real pleasure from you using the other girl.

When’s she horny and drunk, my girl sets up tinder girls for me to fuck, it’s a real thing.

[–]RedPillCoach0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The bloops are going to have a field day with you guys. Carry on!

[–]coinbaserep0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Teach me wise one 🙏 🙇


[–]CaliEd2560 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’m considering writing a case study article for MRP. But it’s going to need bullet proof red pill research, which will take more time than I have available right now.

[–]Kpwn880 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Bratty subs are a thing.

My wife

[–]Two_kids_in_a_coat9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

So spank her fool. Sounds like she’d like it.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's healthy, man up and be daddy.

God it sounds like she needs spanked for punishment when you catch her out!!!

Man she sounds alright, going to therapy and asking you to keep her in line?

Not bad at all. I give your lady a gold star.

[–]PersaeusRed Beret3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

most of the time it's her making up stories in her head

not an issue for a plate, but this level of crazy is a major red flag for LTR

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Let me rephrase this, it's her insecurity more than making up bat shit crazy stories. Albeit, her insecurities have no grounds in reality. For instance she said she felt "challenged" about a particular, innocuous situation. I interpreted this as "Since you're leading, I don't know what to do with myself, I'm confused since I've had to lead in past situations". Thoughts?

[–]PersaeusRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

ahhhh, i see you have yourself a pretty basic woman then.

for the most part this is her emoting her feelz too. standard practice is to attentively listen, cheer her on and boo the villians.

do not tell her how to feel or solve her problem unless she specifically ask for your help. in that case, think in terms of "coaching up" a little girl.

[–]Skiffbug3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Isn’t calling out bad behaviour part of being a captain?

If you were captain of a ship and one of your crew was doing something wrong or reckless would you remove attention and STFU?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]RedPillCoach3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds pretty healthy to me. You have my permission to stop punishing your LTR by ignoring her and to instead speak up directly.

Imagine she is a 12 year old brat stomping her feet about doing her homework. You don't get mad and stomp your feet. You don't ignore her. You calmly tell her to knock it off. Do that.

[–]InChargeManRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

She wants 24/7 D/s. Google it.

[–]2ndalRed Beret1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

has the habit of acting child like at least once a month


[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

FWIW, She's in her proliferative(alpha phase) now. And as far as I can think back, the other times when she has done this has also been the alpha phase also.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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